WhiteForest

dtp, why did you open this thread back up when it is from jan.? I'm pretty sure it's against forum rules to actually give someone advice on how to kill themselves. Oh and by the way, Spugs is completely right.

Actually it could be that serious. You really need to get it checked out, especially given your family medical history. Chances are it's nothing but you need to make sure ASAP, just in case. RayKay was right about the emergency room/hospital, they will work with you and set up a payment plan that fits your needs.

Point is you told him you were uncomfortable with him viewing porn and he said he understood and would not do it again. He shouldn't have said he wouldn't do something if he didn't mean it. He has no right to say anything to you about this. He went back on his word and that's his problem. Now I agree with Rabican in the post above. You have to discuss it and if he's not willing to stop then you will have to decide what to do next.

I am frustrated that the reason you want her to lose weight is so you'll find her attractive. When you really love someone your first concern should be there well-being...you should be more concerned for her own health, not for your sexual pleasure. When you love someone you are attracted to them for more than physical appearance, yes it plays a part but its not the one and only. If you're not happy with her and thinking of cheating after only 2 months of marriage then you should not be married. It's not fair to you that she did make you believe she wanted to lose the weight and stopped trying, but its not fair to her if you don't want her and will cheat on her.