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  1. I am married to a man like that for 10 years- together for 13. IT DOES NOT GET BETTER!!!!!!!!!! I have wanted out for about 6 years- but we have kids so it makes it hard. SAVE YOURSELF NOW! You don't want to spend your life wondering "what is his problem" or "Why don't you have a problem?"
  2. I am blasted nuts over a 23 y/o and I'm 36. WHY? He's more fun than guys my age BUT mature enough to be responsible and think rationally. I am more innovative and creative than his peers and more financially stable. I'd let him ravage me if I wasn't married already. Girls your age try too hard and think too much about marriage. We are tired of everything and want to have fun. SO ENJOY! My age philosophy is this; if I'm old enough to be your mother then I'm too old for you. Based on virginity- that would be a 16 year difference for me.
  3. I understand completely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I joined this sight for similar issues. I too am OCD and suffer from depression. As far back as I can remember I have obsessed over something or someone. I obsessed over a college sweetheart for 12 years. (It ended badly and felt unresolved) Because of trying to resolve that issue, my husband and I didn't have sex for 6 years. So what got me over it? I now have a new male obsession. My husband is a great man- but there is SO much he can't give me that I need. This new man fills all those needs. I want to be desirable to someone. I want to be wanted. But guess what? Now he's gone too. No more e-mails. No dinners. Nothing. So I am depressed, AGAIN. My cycle is vicious. Unfortunately, I have kids, otherwise I would leave my husband. The chase and the passion is far more fulfilling than the security. Are we on the same page??????????????
  4. You have a lot of male perspectives on here. She doesn't have the emotional strength to say "I'm done", plus children are involved. She's been finding ways and excuses for things to be messed up- so someone else- YOU- will tell her its done. You actually told her what she needed to hear. I wish my husband would do me the courtesy of that.
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