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  1. Lovestragedies
    Would you like to talk about what happened? Or were you simply expressing yourself through poetry? In that case, it's a very good poem. But if you wish to talk about it, do so.
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    I'm sorry you've experienced such pain.
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    That has its upsides.
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    In some cases, yes, that is true. I believed the same once. But considering he gave you excuses when the only reason was he wanted "out," I question his love for you in the first place. We make up our own theories on love. We cannot believe that true love involves butterflies and feelings. It doesn't. Feelings fluctuate, and love does not. Perhaps he came to the conclusion that he no longer "felt" for you, and believed that meant he no longer was in love with you. That is false. If they were merely feelings, then he never loved you in the first place.
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    Now that I agree with.
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    It's my pleasure! You can learn much from observation, that much I know. I'm sure the fact that it is her first relationship has much to do with it, but even so, that worries me. I know as well that butterflies are a sign of infatuation, which once subsided turn to deep understanding and then to love. I'm glad I could help.
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    I don't know too much of the situation, but considering, I think you're doing wonderfully. It took me about 6 months to come out of my overly depressed phase. I'm very glad you want to get back on track. I love that feeling when freedom hits you and you realize you can do so many things. Frankly, a red flag went up for me when she mentioned the fact that she didn't have butterflies any longer. I question her maturity if she hasn't realized that butterflies at this point should not be a part of it. I may be wrong, so I pray you don't hold that against me. In any case, I hope you continue to do well. Best wishes, Elena
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    Quite frankly, I can't see myself being overwhelmingly depressed about never finding someone to love. What would bother me most would be finding someone I could have had a true relationship with and somehow ruining it. Personally, I treasure the experience even when it ends horribly, because I know I'm a better person for it. It strengthens us and molds us into who we are. Never experiencing that, well, I'm not sure I'd be quite the same person I am today. But I wouldn't know who I would have been, so it doesn't really matter does it? I believe we all meet someone somewhere along the line who has the potential to be a true love. If, say, that never happened, in my honest opinion, I don't believe it'd bother me so much. You become used to the idea of being alone, and lose the severe yearning for love you once had.
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    Calmly I stare into your gorgeous blue eyes Eyes that withhold the secret of the sea Eagerly waiting to reveal all that is hidden Will you trust your soul to me? In them I see the pain you conceal And I longingly wish for you to let down your barriers Your heart is there in your eyes Eyes of a satin sky, afraid to shed a single tear I swear to you that I am here For one that I hold dear to me.
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    I'm obviously not a guy, but perhaps because summer means freedom. And heaven forbid a guy be committed to a girl when there's all those "chicks" hanging around the beaches just waiting to manipulate.
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    Perhaps you're more mature than these guys are, and it's difficult for them to handle that. My cousin is 27, and she's dating a guy a few years younger than her who's definitely not at the same stage she is, regardless of age. My point is, in time you'll find someone to appreciate you for who you are. For the time being, don't give up. Try to truly get to know a guy before you start dating him. And I don't just mean learning about what he does for a living and whatnot. Best wishes, Elena
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    I understand. It's absolutely normal to have feelings of regret, as I'm sure you know. But the main thing is, what happened happened, and I've always believed that everything happens for a reason. That's what takes me out of the hole of regret. Just focus on the future and realize that you will get through this. It may seem like you won't, but I can promise you you wll.
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    I can understand that. Such isn't the case for everyone. I needed closure in the sense that I felt I needed to understand why. I felt if I knew why, at least I would be able to know whether or not I could fix it.
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    I may; usually I do. Nowadays I don't see the difference it makes.
  15. Lovestragedies
    Thank you.
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