I think you need to look at it like this, if your partner does it, then why shouldn't we? as men think it is alright, then fine. see the thing is that this obviously does piss us off because it makes us think that we are not all our other half wants and this then makes us worry more. The thing is that this downgrades us to think that we are enough for them, so its simple you just do the same to them, there is lots of porn available for both sexes so go out there and use it, i know this might sound immature but this should make him feel what you are feeling, obviously don't tell him what your upto. good luck ladies and have fun i did