[i've edited this down a lot to just get to the point...]
This women friend of mine, that I've known for a few months and see frequently, but I am not dating, has made some unexpected comments to me like "you should let me live with you", and "you should buy me a car", and "you should buy me a snowboard". She is 20 years younger than me and I never expected her to flirt with me given our age difference, but I'm confused by this behavior... if I ever call her on these comments she just says she is joking. My friends say she is flirting, but it almost feels to me more like gold digger behavior. I used to work for the largest software company in the world, and there is a stereotype that we are all loaded. Anyway, I normally respond with something like "what's in it for me", but I'm very curious what others think about this. She gets away with this because she is very adorable (my friends words) but I'm starting to get annoyed by the behavior, and have mixed feelings about if I want to hang out with her... I guess part of me is flattered that a women this young spends as much time with me as she does (I have not gotten her any gifts btw, not for xmas or for her bday).