Dubb
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You want your ex back? Things to avoid certain doom!
Dubb replied to SuperDave71's topic in Getting Back Together
Block/delete her and it's not gonna hurt. You are only keeping yourself in the pain man. I knwo it's hard b/c I been through but you gotta do it for you. Nothing you do will change her mind so instead do everything for you. -
Day 3! I been feeling down today. I am starting to think I am not allowing myself to get out of this. I might have to say by to these forums for a while and find some new time sinks.
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Day 2, I feel good. Maybe it has not kicked in yet but I have had 4months of limbo to get used to not being around the ex. I went out in style and that is the most important thing to me. I feel such a relief after I just put it all on the table and gave her the ball to play with by herslef.
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Day 1 for me! I decided to try and be the bigger person with my ex and square things with her but she decided to ignore me. 3 weeks ago she was contacting me heh. O well that is life and it really is her loss. I went out in a mature manner at least.
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Lol be careful what you wish for!
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Keep your head up Bear. Sometimes I think us staying on these forums might prolong the pain. Maybe give yourself a break from them? I am thinking about it but have so much free time I don't know how else to fill the void this place has created.
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I know books are not magic but have you read Homer McDonald's book Stop your Divorce? It's a great book and maybe you can find some help there. Even if it don't work you might gain some insight which never hurts.
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Tell her you want her to have time to herself but need it yourself. Go NC after that.
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You really need to get away from her man. My ex pulled this stuff on me. Like a nice guy I kept trying to be there for her. I finally realized she dumped me!!! Don't be her support. You need to read posts from Super Dave if you have not. I would tell her you need time to yourself too. Go NC and see how you feel a few weeks from now. If you continue to talk to her it will only confuse you and hurt you more.
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Hey man we know it's hard but stop chasing her. I really wish you would take my advise and read Stop your Divorce. Google it! You can buy a copy on line in adobe format. I think it sells on ebay even cheaper. Man when my girl broke up with me I made so many mistakes. I wish I knew then what I know now.
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I would honestly tell you to pull away. She knows you love her. That is part of the problem. She knows you are head over heals for her. She probably has some self-esteem issues. Start to move in your own direction and stop contacting her.
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There is a book out there called How to Stop your Divorce. I hear it really helps people so maybe give that a good read and it can give you some insight.