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I too want to wish him a Happy NY. Just out of politness and I suppose if i was to be a honest hoping to get a reply back. Not that it will happen. I didn't send him a Xmas msge either. Once again I really found it hard to stay away from typing that text msge. BUT I did! Its was sad and disappointing that I did not get anything from him, so what difference would it be should I now send him a Happy NY. He hasn't sent me anything since we broke up so I haven't heard from him since..and its been 8 horrible painful months. I don't get it how someone can change so much and not know who u are anymore. Where did those feelings, words, time spent together go?! If I was to send him a msg then I will be kicking myself again for not getting anything back. NOT only that but for continuing to chase him. And your right in saying if they did care they would contact us, and we don't have to chase them. How many times do we have to? and not get anywhere. Back of my mind I say if we put total stop, he will truly forget me, but then again it may give them a bit of curiosity. Not clutching to much hope on that tho. Got to stay strong

Everything u have written here points the truth. I wish I came accross this in the first place instead of trying a milion times to contact the ex when he wanted space. I pushed him furtther away with my need for answers that he didn't want to give. Everything is too late, I have runied my chances. Its been 6 hurtful months.

Thanks girls He can't aviod the fact that one day i will meet the family and his friends. Just he does not want to be thinking about it at the moment! I pretty much ask a lot of questions.. just to get to know his family and friends and so on!... Call me a typical Gemini who has too know everything! lol! Only b'cos i love him! and that love is growing, and i want it to be more and deeper! Maybe he does need more time!

when is the right time to meet the parents?! my boyfriend and i have been going out for nearly a year! We live over 100 miles apart, so we get to see eachother once a month during the weekend. ( not enough i know ) Within our nearly a year relationship, we have seen eachother 10 times! I'll be happy to introduce him to my parent. And when i have mentioned it the past, he kinda freaks out and says there is no rush! He says it will happen soon and it will; but when? I don't want to keep mentioning when are we going to meet eachother's circle of families and friends. Should i just be a little more patience.?! i don;'t want to be waiting forever! the way i look at it. if i had a daughter, i would want to meet the guy she is dating after such a long time! just out of respect! does anyone also think, maybe he feels its too early? especially when we have only seen eachother 10 times!

WE both work full time. He works longer hours then i do tho and every saturdays too! Im not saying he should drop his family or friends, just for us to have more ''us'' time!

My boyfriend and i live 100 miles apart.. i'm just finding it hard at times cos i don't see him as often as i would like to. He does understand how i feel and he knows i would like to meet his parents/family and friends, but he is in no rush for that, but most of all for the time being, i just wish we made more time for eachother during the weekends. We get to see eachother once a month, (known eachother for nearly a year) which isn't enough! either i travel to his area, or he comes to mine! I find myslef all loney, cos i would like us to spend more time together and make time for eachother regularly,and there are times when i do get a little annoyed with him especially when i don't know when i will see him again, which does upset me, i mean, we do call eachother everyday, so thats cool. I do love him and love him for the person he is with all the qualities i am attracted too that makes him right for me, but I just want more here.. to be with him more and see him more!!