My wife acts like she wants to have sex about once a week. And during those times I almost feel like she really didnt want to and was doing it because she felt guilty, just by the way she asks me if I want to have sex. Also when I want to she usually doesnt, almost seems angry that I tried to initiate it.
Recently I bought her a vibrating bunny thing and we used it together once, then a few mornings later she used it by herself early before I was awake.
Is this normal or should I attempt to try something to make things better?
About a week ago I laid her out a nice thin short robe and some underwear and a bra and left her a note asking her to put it on because I wanted to make love to her. She got angered over it and complained saying that I know shes not like that and never has been which ruined our evening and she said she didnt want to even have sex now, after she had mentioned earlier that she wanted to. She has an issue with her weight that shes been working on by exercise and changing eating habits for info.
Feel free to ask any questions that may help you better understand my situation.