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  1. When I do feel it's okay to call though, should I? Or should I just let her call?
  2. Good question...I honestly don't know. I don't think I want kids myself.
  3. I've gone no contact for about 2 weeks since she broke up with me. I feel I've healed enough and I want to just see how she's doing. Supposedly I'm going to have to talk to her parents tomorrow too, so should I ask how she's doing then? I miss just having her there as a friend. If I wait too long I'm afraid she might forget about me and move on with another guy. Also, we are both going to be going to the same college this fall. I still see her all the time at church. We just haven't spoken. It's an odd situation.
  4. Say she does call me, should I tell her then? Or should I just not answer all together?
  5. I know. It's just so hard not having someone there for me when I need it. My family tries but sometimes just make it worse. I loved her and really stopped contacting my friends. I pretty much spent all my free time outside of school with her. Now that's she's gone, I'm back to being a loner again.
  6. She broke up with me about a week ago. I never told her I was going no contact. I think she expected me to call her back as a friend but I haven't. She is going through some tough times and told me she needs to figure them out. SHe is a hard nosed stubborn person so I expect her to come back, but not for awhile. Is it my duty to call her and tell her that I'm going no contact right now?
  7. My girlfriend broke up with me. She gave me the whole BS thing that it's her and not me, and I told her that it's okay. When I got off I started crying and didn't know what to do. I looked around for my gun that I have and I eventually found out. I grabbed it and sat on my couch for about 10 minutes just thinking about shooting myself. How easier it would be to get rid of this failure of a life. I have no friends. My girlfriend was the only stable friendship I had in my life. I mean, I talk to some people, but I don't consider them friends. My family isn't even close. They told me that this girl is nothing but damaged goods anyways. I hate them. I have no job. College is going bad. My girlfriend was all I had, and now she's gone. What's the point anymore?
  8. That shouldn't be the case. You should be able to tell your partner anything in a relationship IMO. You need to be able to express your emotions and tell them problems. He obviously just wasn't the right guy for you.
  9. I'm a virgin and she isn't. We eventually want to do it but not yet. Any tips on how to do foreplay or doing it the first time? I really don't know.
  10. I feel for you, man. The same thing is happening with me and my gf. She's been so busy with school that we only see each other at certain events and only call on the phone. I get worried when she doesn't call me for awhile too.
  11. I think initially girls look for good looking people, but then when they find one with a good personality and caring heart, it wins them over. My girlfriend told me that when she first moved up here she met a guy that was cute, but he was real jerk. So she never dated him. They're still friends but nothing more. When she met me, I had looks and a caring heart. I'm always there for her and that's all she needs.
  12. My father owns a business and this is what he does anytime someone refuses to pay. This is probably the best thing you can do.
  13. I was interested in my current girlfriend but was kind of shy. She ended up asking me out on a first date in the middle of December, and we started dating in January. It really works out either way these days. I saw her as a confident/cool girl.
  14. Everyday when I talk to her she says it at least 5 times. I always tell her that she's fine the way she is, but she says no, that she needs to start losing weight. Back about a year ago she was really skinny, but since moving up around here she's put on weight. I'd love her either way, but I don't think she believes me. The other day she kept asking me if she got really fat, if I'd still date her. I told her yes. If she shaved her head, would I still date her...and of course I said yes. Her insecurities about her body are really starting to get on my nerves. I like girls that have a little bit more on them. I don't like twigs. I'll support her through a diet or if she starts working out, but honestly I'm getting tired of her complaining about it all the time. Anything I can really do?
  15. She actually just responded on myspace to my message, and she didn't really seem concerned or mad about it. I don't know if I should ask about it or not when I talk to her on the phone later. Maybe it was just an honest mistake and she was doing something that made her forget.
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