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My girlfriend and I live about a half hour away from each other. We see each other on average of twice a week but we talk on the phone every day.

This is to all of my responses: People have a funny way of blowing my posts out of porportion. I never said that by going on a date you're agreeing to have sex with the other person, you're agreeing that it's a possibility and you could see yourself wanting it. This is by far not a random representative sample, it's just what worked for us in the past. As I said, we both come from very interesting sexual histories and we wanted to take every precaution. We had the sex talk on the second date and made a plan. The plan worked and now we have a really good relationship. That's how we prevented any mix ups sexually, like what happened in this post.

Pornography is simply a drug. It's not particularly good for you, but it feels good. It's an addictive drug, so if you become dependent on it you will be in trouble. Pornography dependence leads to unhealthy view of sexual relationships. I had been briefly involved in the pornography business and let me tell you, it's really not fun. I was a writer and I was paid to come up with pornographic stories. I'm an erotic writer (there is a huge difference between erotica and pornography) so I wrote some good erotica but they weren't looking for good erotica, they were looking for porn. I sat down and wrote a thousand words of really bad pornography. I did it. It felt really bad and wound up refusing to sell the story because I hated it so much. I'll write a manual about how to build bombs using household products. I'll write a recipie for anarchy. I'll write a manifesto bringing down the government. I'll write about death, suicide, destruction, rape, and anything that will challenge me but I draw the line at porn.

I don't know the details of your breakup but I think that through inviting you to a gig she's showing you that she still thinks about you. I mean, you did go NC with no explanation so maybe that's hurting her somewhat. And to be honest, perhaps she doesn't see the relationship the same way. It did, after all, only last a month. I think that if you got together for a coffee you can get some things off your chest. If you can be friends it's good but you have to protect yourself from your feelings. Does that make any sense? And about your friend and her, you don't control her or your friend so don't even try.

Well, you know, NC doesn't mean you have to shut off the ENTIRE world, just one person. But I think it's pretty clear that if you don't like reading stuff here, you shouldn't. As for me, I don't come her for advice. I don't believe in taking advice from strangers over the internet. I just come here to reply to people and to give insight. I like it plus it gives me an excuse to put off writing.

Give her some time to miss you. She'll come back. My girlfriend breaks up with me on a weekly basis and I let her miss me for a while. It usually takes about one hour for her to come back.

People pay me to write resumes and cover letters for them. Everyone has already told you what you need to know, except about the attatchments. I don't think you should send attachments because no one ever opens them. If they do open them, they're not the shiniest coin in the pile because attachments often hold viruses and you could inadvertantly send them a virus through an attachment. Send your resume and cover letter in the email and make sure it's formatted consistently. There are no real tricks to formatting except that it needs to be consistent.

I really hope not because then people would be flirting with me all the time. Every man, woman, and child who looks into my eyes and nods when I'm talking to them would be flirting with me? I hope not.

Valentines day was amazing. I went to work and got all sorts of candy and cards from my kids, then we had a party. I came home and my girlfriend came over. I gave her flowers and a card and when she got home she got another arrangement I had sent to her house but she hadn't been home yet that day. We cooked pasta, garlic bread, and steamed broccolli for dinner and had cake for dessert. (She's vegetarian.) Then we had sex for about an hour before she fell asleep in my arms. It was really good.

Yeah, he likes you. I'd say you should ask him out.

Yeah I only went out with two or three women from those classes. I found my girlfriend in a psychology class.

I have a lot of intersts, too. I'm writing five books right now. I like reading books. I like listening to music. I'm currently composing an album. I'm teaching preschool. I'm in school full time to get a PhD. I'm an artist, too. You can do everything. I just sleep 6 hours a night.

Oh, and remember, I'm an artist who's used to working with live nudes, and all the models I see have their pubic hair trimmed short or shaved off. I just got used to it, I guess.

I don't believe there are bad kissers, only inexperienced ones. There's a very simple remedy to a bad kissing experience: give instruction and practice. For example, when I kiss i like about 70% tongue and 30% lip but my girlfriend likes about 70% lip and 30% tongue. We had to work that out and now it's about 50-50.

I don't come from handjobs. I never have. You can try a combination of a handjob and oral. What my girlfriend does is take the base of my penis in her hand while sucking on my head. It feels really good. But if you want to give a good handjob, be creative. Put some lube between your breasts and hold your breasts around his penis while you slide it up and down. Guys find that very arousing.