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  1. Hey All! Just An Update! I Really Thought Long And Hard About This. And I Broke Up With My Boyfriend And I'm Moving To New York To Pursue My Education And Career.
  2. Invite people out to a study session and get a bite to eat afterwards. When you're having lunch or whatever try and drift the conversation away from school and talk about hobbies, favorite movies, current movies -- which can then transition into, "Hey! I really wanna see that movie! We should go this weekend". It is hard to make friends and hang out outside of school, but push for it and people will start to see you.
  3. I haven't been able to sleep all night and it hurts sooo immensely...I've been having doubts about breaking up with my boyfriend lately, and I did it last night. I was just tired of him coming on to other girls and having a lack of trust in him...I've kept him around so long because I do love him, but I just realize that I don't deserve this...he's just been my security blanket...and now that I've let go...I don't know what to do. I want to keep no connection with him, but it just feels like I'm being thrown out into the ocean...this is the first REAL breakup I've been in...anyone have an remedies for me?
  4. hurting101, i feel as if i'm in the same boat as you...i have a boyfriend who does these kinds of things and comes crawling back to me by sweet talking me, etc. i feel as if though at this point, i've had it. and like you, i'm afriad if i break up with him, i will never find anyone...
  5. I want to break up with my boyfriend. Just because I've been with him for over a year and I'm going to college in a few months. He's already talking about me being his soulmate and he's only 17. His past has been hard for me to accept, he's had 8 different sex partners, he's cheated on me once (early in the relationship), he's heabily flirtatious towards pretty girls, but while all that is going on, he's completely into me...in love. I just feel like there's more out there. A better guy out there who I won't have to worry about him cheating or having sex with any pretty girl he sees. I know I've changed my boyfriend to some degree, I just feel like we've come into each others life and now it's time to move on. I'm completely in love with him, don't get me wrong, I'm just not as happy as I used to be, I just want someone more mature than him...I feel I'm at the age where I need someone who will commit and not fool around. I'm just afraid I'm gonna breakup with him and then regret it, because yes he makes mistakes and can be immature, but he's a great guy. Or be heartbroken for a really long time...I've never been with anyone this long, but I've also never felt that I needed to move on...advice?
  6. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a little over a year. We are honest all the time to each other, we tell each other everything, and together we are invincible. I guess it's like every other relationship, you think that they ARE the one. We planned our kids' names, etc. Lately, we've been having arguments everyday, compared to really NONE before. We argue over the littlest things though, something he says or something I do. We just get mad at each other and before our fights would be cute like, we'd fight and then make up and be closer, but these fights are like, we fight, and then our confrontation is nasty and when we do make up, it makes us feel really bad. I'm just not happy, constantly arguing and trying to mend our relationship. But then, isn't that what a relationship is? I'm just really confused because I love him, but I don't want to be with someone I'm not happy with. I've never been in this long of a relationship and maybe that has something to do with it.
  7. we've talked about webcam and talking to each other every night and seeing each other over the break...we just know that it won't be the same...we're very intimate, not with sex and all, but cuddling and kissing and holding hands, we're constantly doing it and without it i don't know what our relationship would be like because we're both the type of people who need that affection..
  8. In response to Ellie... I want change, all my life all I've known is southern california and i want to get outside of the little world i know and see what's out there and grow...
  9. I'm a senior in high school right now and I've worked my tail off to get where I am. I got a 2150 on the SAT and my weighted GPA is a 4.6, I'm 2nd in my graduating class of 500...I got a full ride early admissions to Cornell University in New York...which is one of the top medical schools in the country, I've dreamed about going there since I was 8. I also got a full ride early admissions to UCSF, in that case I would be about 5 hours away from the boyfriend. I've talked to my boyfriend about this and I know he doesn't want me going out of state...previously we had to go 9 months without seeing each other because I had something to attend to in MIchigan. and that was really hard for us..., but he SAYS that he wants me to do whatever I want to do. He's a year younger so he's staying in California. But, we've talked about our relationship status if i did go to new york, and we'd probably lose each other... I don't know what to do...I'm madly in love with him, I've been with him for 2 years and if I let this go then I'll always wonder what if...I want to marry him, but then again I'm only 17 and all I know is this little space in California, but maybe I am destined to be here...but if we break up...I'll always think about what could have happened at Cornell... I have no idea where I want to go...people also say that college is a new beginning and that relationships are different? I'm just really lost and I need some guidance from anyone who's even been in this situation...
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