Allen Jefferson

Had protected sex last night with condom. She just got off her period March 4. She started her Period Feb 28. Last night was March 6. Thats 6 days since she started her last period. ANyhow, the condom broke last night and I finished without knowing. She is as regular as clock work with a 30 day cycle. We are not overly concerned, but just wanted a few opinions.

I have a list of things I keep as well, but I am looking at what exactly to do that could WOW her on her birthday! Keep in mind we have a GREAT sex life and normally have relations everyday.

So we have been seeing eachother casually for 10 months, but very serious for 4 months. We have every indication that we are going to be together for a very very long time. I am 28 and she is 19. She is so much older that 19 however. She looks and acts the part of someone 25. ANyway, her birthday is coming up March 16. I told her I obviously wanted to spend her birthday with her and I asked her to go out of town with me for the weekend. The weekend would involve quite a bit of alone time, but during the mornings I would have softball games. She loves softball and loves watching my games. She said sure right away and then a few days later said it would be a bad idea cause she wanted to be home for St. Patty's day cause that is when her friends would probably celebrate her B-day. I had NO problem with this whatsoever and told the team I was not going to the tournament and that was that. I'd rather be with my girl anyhow! She is very sensitive about her age and she has 2 roommates who both think she is 20 and about to turn 21. She never told them this, but never corrected them either. They kept bringing up going out to the bars that weekend. Well, she was getting nervous and wondering what they would have planned. A month or so passed and just 2 weeks ago she says to me "hey, you really want to go to that tournament, don't you?" I said "I'd like to, but spending your birthday without you isnt an option". So she says, "lets go to the tournament...it'll be fun, plus I wont have to worry bout my roommates!" I said like 5 times over the next 2 days "Are you sure, are you sure" and she kept saying "yes". Well, the closer it gets, the more I realize I should have just said "no" to going to the tournament. She isnt as excited as she would normally be for an out of town weekend. So, I know I have to hit another HR with a gift or plan for her B-day! I hit HR's with Christmas and with Valentines Day. She loved the gifts. I got her a Claddaugh ring from Ireland with her birthstone for V-day and for X-mas I got her several things, including a picture that I made for her that professed my love for her. It was framed and she loved it. I picked up on all the little hints thru the month and got her everything she wanted! For her b-day I was gonna take her to get her 2nd tattoo (and I'll still do that) but I need something for the weekend! We will arrive at the hotel around 10pm friday night (the night of her b-day). I am lost and am looking for romantic type, melt on the spot type of gift or something...ANY HELP?????

Thanks! I helped her re-arrange some furniture at her house last night and we had a great night. She is just so sweet with me, and like I said, we are together all the time. I thought back to maybe some sexual things I did with certain people and if she ever asked me bout it, I'd prolly deny it as well. I decided I cant control the past. I'm gonna live in the present and look toward the future. She has had a troubled past, but things are turning around for her at work and now in her relationship with me. I am just going to let sleeping dogs lie. Thanks everyone! Side note: Her and my sister dated the same guy at the same time so there is bad blood between my sister and her.

Ok, so I have been exclusively dating this girl for 3 months ( she is 20 and I am 28 ). We had been talking on/off couple dates here and there for about 6 months before that. I knew this girl through friends for a couple years before all that even. One issue is the fact that she is one of my 'friends' ex's. Thats not what I am writing about. Anyway, we first slept together in June and then slept together maybe 5-6 times from June to Nov when we became exclusive. We hung out a lot and became really close. I trust her completely and cant picture her ever cheating on me, but she has a funny way of leaving some details out sometimes. Thats also not why I am writing. Our relationship has had to be secret to some people for various reasons. We have been confronted and have both had to openly lie about it to people. I hate doing it, but we have to everything settles down. We are approached by people saying there are rumors and we just say then thats all they are...just rumors. Well, before we were committed to eachother I knew I was the 3rd guy she had ever slept with. Then one day I had heard her say the number was 4. Then I heard she got drunk, and slept with this guy she hates. I asked her bout it and she said "yea, it happened, I wanted to tell you, but I was so embarrassed". This guy was a friend of her ex's so she may have been doing it to get back at the ex? It irks my stomache to even think about it. This all happened allegedly like 7 months ago. Then today I hear from my sister that she heard it happened like 2 years ago. My question here is do I even ask her bout this? Then we were at dinner last night and she got a call and it sparked a conversation with her and I where she was telling me that someone accused her of sleeping with her ex's twin brother. She openly acted disgusted and said she'd never touch him. I had no reason to not believe that. Then today when my sister was telling me what she heard she said that she also heard that it was true and that it happened recently. We were communicating via email and she hasnt answered me what "recently' means. I know it cant be in the last 3 months cause we are literally together every day! However, is this also something I should ask about? I am in love with this girl and she says the same about me. We are perfect for eachother, or so it seems. I am making her dinner tonite. I dont want to rock the boat if I dont have to. This stuff would have happened before we were officially together, but I feel she may have lied. I dont know what to do?

I am 29 and my girlfriend is 20. She acts like she is 25 though. And has gone through a lot and had to grow up pretty fast on her own. I find it very difficult sometimes to even think that she is actually really ONLY 20 years old. When I was 20...I didnt know what she knows and I hadnt even found myself. So strange how girls mature so much faster than guys I guess. When people see us together, they would probably think we are both 24 or so.

SO def. a good thing, right? I mean we talked about it and she led me to believe a good thing. We openly talk about everything.

So, Ive been 'dating' this girl pretty exclusive since Nov and we have sex regularly. It is amazing and she gets off just as much, if not more than me! We average 2 of my orgasms per love making session. Sometimes, its once, sometimes its 3-4-5 times. We've probably had sex 50-60 times I'd guess and it gets better every time. She is on top 95% of the time and thats what she prefers and I really really like it too. We have done doggie style 2-3 times and thats good too. We have tried me on top, but normally this is the 2-3-4th time in a session and I've never gotten off on top...we just switch back to her on top and it does the trick. (side note: I could never even do 2 times with other women and 3 was impossible!...now with my girlfriend now I can do 5-6 times in a night and get off each time and it still feels great!) Anyway, last weekend, we had sex 3 times friday night, once saturday morning, once saturday afternoon and then we went out saturday night and came home very tired and were just about asleep when her roommates came home and were loud and woke us up. They were very loud so my GF went to the living room to see what was up and to get some water. She was gone for like 10 minutes and when she returned I think she sensed I was a little annoyed at everything. She immediately started the process of love making. We had loud, amazing sex for about 10 minutes with her on top and then I went to the top. That lasted for about 10 minutes before I orgasmed. During me being on top she made a comment it felt so good she could cry. She got off 2 times. As soon as I finished and rolled off her and she rolled to hug me, she started crying. Like sobbing crying and then laughing. She said she never did that before and just felt so into it and that I hit a spot I never hit before. Anyone ever have this experience? Sorry for the longer post.

When I was having relations with my soon-to-be ex wife...I still masterbated daily. It got to the point where I'd rather stay downstairs, masterbate, rather than go up to bed with the chance that she might not be interested. I actually really despised sex with her, but we did others things. Basically during this time period, I was masterbating twice a day. Now that I am with my new girlfriend (we have sex roughly 4-5 times a week) I am down to masterbating very seldom. I find it isnt as satisfying anymore and I'd rather be with my girlfriend. I've rediscovered my love for sex. She knows exactly what to do to get me off. I talked to mos of my married friends and they said they didnt masterbate that much and I thought them a fool. Well, for the firts time since I started masterbating, I've nearly cut it out and was only able to do so once I found a partner that makes the sexual experience feel like a connecting moment rather than just a free for all.

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