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  1. coffeeformylover
    I was hoping that it wouldn't come to this but I think you will have to do it in order to see how she really feels. You are going to have to ask her flat out how she feels about you. Tell her how you feel about her. At this point things can't really get much worse so now is the time to do it. I think that you will have to know for sure how she feels about you in order for you to move on. So the next time that you talk to her come out and say it. Tell her why you have been acting funny lately. And once you know the answer then move on. Who knows...maybe she does like you. BUT if that IS the case then you have to tell her that you can't just keep waiting around for her to do something about it. Tell her that it is tearing you up. IF she says that she doesn't feel the same way about you then take it in stride and it will hurt but move on.
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    I think that you need to come to reality with the situation. It doesn't look like anything is going to become of it so you might just want to leave it alone. You don't want to put yourself in a situation where you are running after something or somebody for that matter that isn't there. You could always talk to her about how you feel and see how she feels about it. But that's up to you. My advice would be to just drop it. Stop trying to pursue a relationship that will probably never happen.
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    Don't do a movie for the first time that you two hang out. You can't talk or get to know each other during a movie.
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    Women have a hard time seperating their emotions when they have sex. Men are able to have sex and it not mean anything to them. Since you are a women it is possible for you to still be a lesbian. It is easy for you to have feelings towards him because you had sex with him. Like I said, it is very hard for women to separate there emotions when they have sex. When women have sex it effects them emotionally, physically, and psychologically. When guys have sex it effects them physically. Yeah, if they care about someone enough then it could effect them emotionally too.
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    It sounds like she is at least interested in you. I mean you don't just keep staring at someone that you're not. Get to know her more and see where the relationship goes from there.
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    Here's something that maybe you should remember. "My words to live by: Live for yourself, not anyone else… "There is no future, There is no past, I live this moment as my last, There's only us, There's only this, Forget regret, Or life is yours to miss, No other road, No other way, No day but today" (Mimi ~ RENT)"
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    robowar: I can see the reason why you would not want to come out as gay/bi. Ultimately the decision is up to you. You should eventually be out to everyone including them but if you find that the situation could be dangerous or that it's not the right time then don't do it. Only you can assess that situation.
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    Now is your chance to tell her everything. You've got nothing to lose. Yeah she might not be your friend anymore but you could move on. Even if that was the case then it's no different from what you already want. You already want to leave her. Just sit her down and tell her that the reason why it's hard for you to see her with her ex is because you want to be with her.
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    This could be a normal situation because she thinks that she is losing her best friend. At the same time, it could be because she really does like you. However, if she doesn't want to leave her ex then I would see that as a sign. Stay friends with her if you want. If you don't want to then don't. Her saying that she will die without you is overreacting. She will live.
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    If you have tried getting it out of her and she hasn't told you then the best you can do now is just let her know that you are there for her. Tell her that whenever she needs to talk that you are there. She will really appreciate you saying that instead of if you keep hounding her to try to figure out what's wrong.
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    Spending less time with them certainly could change the relationship but that's not guaranteed.
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    I don't think that you are reading too much into it. I think that he might be gay or bi. But you won't really know unless you confront him about it or he happens to tell you.
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    See where he stands on politics. That could be another way to figure out if he is interested or not. If he is for gay rights then he could be gay/bi but he could also be straight too. That way you can say "I'm for gay rights because we should be able to get married to another guy if we want. It shouldn't matter that I'm gay, because love is love." You could say something like that.
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    Tell him. Or grab his hand. It sounds like he is pretty comfortable with you and it doesn't seem like he would mind. It actually sounds like he might have some of the same feelings for you.
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    Ask him if he's seeing anyone. If so then say "what is her name?" and then if it's a guy then he'll tell you. If that doesn't work and he says he's not seeing anyone then I don't know what to tell you. If he asks you the same question (I'm assuming you're not with anyone at the moment) then tell him "no, but I would like to" and see where it goes from there.
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