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  1. QT, this is per your request. I'm sorry that you are so distraught. You have such a neat take on humor. Ex) Monkey jokes, and jokes about pants. But I agree with S.A.M. above. One thing I've learned to this year is to learn from my mistakes. As was said; he needs to learn, grow and find reason in his life. Especially given the circumstances. So know that you are there for him if he needs/asks for any help, and that is the absolute best thing you can do for him now. Our experiences good and bad all help us to grow. So whatever happens, I know that you will find a great guy in your life. -bazook
  2. Proactive, I've used it for 3 years now. That stuff rocks.
  3. Thats the stuff right there! It cost me my first GF, self respect, and some real soul searching to learn that one.
  4. Whoa, thats great news john22. Waiting is never going to help with your shyness. Get to where you can look her in the eyes. Practice on other people when you are talking to them. Eye contact with any girl is important. Learn to do it. Start saying hi to her every day. Saying hi everyday is more powerful then you think and it takes no effort on your part. I think you need to start adding 'break out' to your vocabulary. Keep us updated I think she's not done with you yet.
  5. Start saying hi to her as soon as you see her and every day. You don't have to talk if you don't want. Just say hi. Depending on her personality she might just start talking to you. So does she play with her hair while accross the room looking at you? That would be a definite go. But to answer the question, if she starts showing signs then don't ever wait. Any girl you like deserves better then that IMO. -bazook
  6. Good luck... yeah right. Great guys don't need any but its still there sometimes. Thats a long way to travel for a girl, she must be something.
  7. Leon, IMO you've got most of it if. Talk to her some. When you tell her that its your last week and watch her response. Talk about where you are going and how excited about it you are. (Don't talk about leaving on the last day, talk about her and let her enjoy her time with you). If you don't start talking to her then what will happen when you leave? She could think, "where did that cute guy go?" I wish he had talked to me. You can't lose unless you do nothing at all. Make her care some so if you do come back she'll notice. I'm going to look for your old posts to figure out this girl. Did you say you had met her before?
  8. ...thanks honey, But who cares if she's got a boyfriend that is all her problem, you don't need to worry about that. If she likes you enough then she won't use him as an excuse. So talk with her and try to make a connection and give her what he couldn't.
  9. I'm the only guy here! I had never kissed a girl until I was 21. I got lucky with her basically. She's still the only girl I've ever kissed but now I'm 22 and done with luck. I'm way better looking then you think. Do some of you just kind of slip under the radar or what? I would be honored to kiss a girl like that, so don't waste it on just anybody OK. -bazook
  10. I disagree with casual conversation. If guys hit on her all the time then you need to show her something new. Any boring guy thats either got the guts to approach her or too stupid to not hit on her are nothing new to her. Don't come off as one of those guys. Do you already know her name? Don't wait for your last day to talk to her some more. She simply demands more then that and avoid every day fluff talk. You would be better off telling her that her that her shoe is untied while you run off the train smiling IMO. Bad example but say just things to get her thinking.
  11. I think the girls will feel sorry for you but in all the wrong ways. I've had the some mentality, snowdude. Ever since she dumped me way back in Feb. One thing I've found is that there are way to many girls out there to get stuck on just one. My advice; start talking to girls everywhere.
  12. As a guy I'm going to tell you not to wait around for him. Yes, he makes you feel special. But you don't know how he actually thinks about you. He sounds like a lucky guy but luck can only get him so far. Unless he is as insecure as he sounds from your post. Then he should have shown you already. Does he get attention from other girls easily? If he does and he wanted it then wouldn't he have made it apparent with you? -bazook
  13. I don't think destiny9 needs to love herself more, I don't think she feels put-down by this guy. She liked him and still cares for his well being after all. And I don't think this guy needs to be judged in such a way. OK, I read the list but I'm not going to go there because you already know what you want. Does making a list make you feel any better about it? No. So why tear yourself up over something so simple? It just makes it harder. At this point you are concerned over how he's going to take it. Thats not your problem. Look, I've been that guy before and let me tell you what; He's got to figure out that there is more to being a guy then the girl he's with. Great guys all have another drive/purpose that keeps them strong and yeah we might still find girls that we "love every second" but there is a diffrence. This is my opinion: As awesome/caring as you as you might sound, you still can't fix everything. -bazook
  14. Sorry man, but I think you did fine. She probably feels that you didn't need to know. It is unfortunate that like most girls she made it worse by simply hiding the fact. So GIRLS; please don't add insult to injury. Tell us or don't, never just hide it or cover it up. Don't take advantage of this new girl but I'd give it a chance. I've dropped a girl after the first date because I was thinking of the other girl that held my heart the entire time. Sometimes I'll think about how I should have gave her real a chance. I didn't even try to appeal to her. It feels like a missed opportunity. I don't dwell on this, but given the chance I would do things differently. IMO you are doing fine. Don't take this new girl so serious. Its called "dating" not a relationship. So have fun and get to know her first then decide. That is my advice.
  15. I would like to know this as well. The shy ones are way hard to figure out. As for my advice is try to read her eyes; If you have her attention she'll be fixed on yours for a moment and if she's really into you she'll keep them there.
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