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  1. hi wild one....first off, i can't believe i am doing this. sending advice to a complete stranger. and relationship advice of all things - i joined because i NEEDED relationship advice. so take what i say as a suggestion....it might be dead wrong for your situation.... i think you should have a frank conversation with him. he sounds like a really nice, respectfull guy and he has been your friend and treated you well for a long time now. don't corner and ask him flat out...he sounds shy and you might scare him. but if you approach him and explain what you are feeling and ask if he feels the same......whether he says yes or no won't matter....because at least you will know for sure one way or another. be prepared for him to say yes. be prepared for him to say no. and before you talk to him...figure out how you feel and what your reactions are to both answers. you sound like you are good friends and maybe you will move to another lever. that might be a wonderful experience. however, he may say no (based on what you have said, i think he is feeling things(?) for you). but he might not be. and in that case, i think that your friendship is strong enough to get over any awkwardness that may arise. i had this happen to me on 3 occasions. i wasn't interested in taking it to the next level with any of the three. on 2 of the occasions, i approached my friends and told them that i was feeling that perhaps more was going on than really was and they admitted that they had feelings which ran deeper than friendship. on both of those occasions i explained that i was interested in remaining only friends. things got awkward and we slowly drifted apart. on the other occasion i was dead wrong. i thought my new friend of one month was starting to develop feelings for me or something and i was not interested so i approached him and we killed ourselves laughing and remain the bestest of friends. so you first need to figure out exactly how you feel. once that is nailed and you are sure you can accept either response from him, approach him. i wish you all the best.........
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