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  1. Lost in fairytales
    Maybe you think they have the qualities you are after because everyone else says those qualities are good. Maybey you don't want 'perfect guys', but the perfect guy FOR you (he himself may not be perfect).
  2. Lost in fairytales
    It's true that "love comes when U stop looking for the perfect person" like you said. Besides...not everyone ends up finding The One. Look around you, I am sure you've got happy single friends. And look at the couples around you, not all of them are happy. Important thing in life is to be able to appreciate the present. So you are single, that means you have opportunity to find a better person. You said you feel comfortable being alone, that means you are independent. And you are special, you don't need someone else in order to prove that. Instead of looking for love, concentrate on study or work. I am sure when the time is right, fate will bring you surprises.
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    I know what you are trying to say. Yes, it's in built within us that we are always after a new adventure, a new style...a new person. The fact that we get '"New" euphoric feeling' is because we are getting to know a stranger and we see all the good things they have to offer, while blind to the flaws behind the 'perfect' exterior. Once we have the person, we'll soon start to realise their short comings, it's easy loose that initial attraction. The reason for your to get tired after dating a guy for a while is because you haven't yet found the quality you wanted in those guys. Once you have found a person, and like him because of who he is deep down, i am sure you won't have trouble committing.
  4. Lost in fairytales
    And don't forget that time mends everything
  5. Lost in fairytales
    As long as they are all happy about it, then it's okay.
  6. Lost in fairytales
    Pre-relationship, if two likes one another, then the 3rd person need to back out, especially if one of the two people involved is your friend. It doesn't matter who met who first. If two people have feeling for one another, anyone else is a 3rd wheel. During a relationship, if you try to go for her while your friend still likes her. You are stealing your friend's girlfriend. My may loose your friend (good friends are hard to find, while there are many good chicks out there). You need at least wait until they have broken up. If she is not interested in him, sooner or later they are going to split, and you can go for her then.
  7. Lost in fairytales
    also vote for stushing it away. Maybe even dig a hole and bury it...
  8. Lost in fairytales
    Girl, value yourself more! You deserve to be with someone who truly loves you. Reward the ones you love and values you with sex. Otherwise, have sex only when YOU want to!
  9. Lost in fairytales
    I'd be very careful about her if i am in your position. She doesn't need to feel romantic towards you to borrow your money. So she may see you only as a friend. Furthermore, she may be a geniune friend, and is glad that you helped out, OR she may take the money and run off. If you like her, you should tell her. Money cannot buy her love. And if she did, she might love your money rather than you.
  10. Lost in fairytales
    Maybe her family had some influences on her, or that she tries to cover it up while her family are around. Maybe ask if anything is troubling her, and if she is still cold, wait a couple of days and see if she changes back.
  11. Lost in fairytales
    If just friends, then it's okay. As long as you two are both aware.
  12. Lost in fairytales
    See what happens at the meet up. She may not be what you imagined her to be online.
  13. Lost in fairytales
    For me, I do a plan before hand. And always make deadlines a little early, because i know i would slack off. But if I see that I should have studied case 22 by today, and i am only up to 18, i would panick, and at least finish to case 20. It works well for me =)
  14. Lost in fairytales
    I also agree on that having lunch and giving rides to other female is okay. If you have faith in your boyfriend, then you shouldn't worry about things like that. Then again, occasional lunch is okay. Blowing you off for a lunch with another female friend is not acceptable unless she's in some serious problem/trouble. As for rides, same goes. Rides everyday and she's not his way home, that may indicate trouble. But i think it's important that you let him have his female friends. You probably won't like it if he won't let you get in touch with your male friends.
  15. Lost in fairytales
    Dude, don't be so rough with us girls. I've heard in the past that "girls have sex because of love, guys in fall love because of sex". That may be a little exaggeration, but there's some truth behind it. Relationship is different to a one night standards is that relationship requires both sex and emotions. From what you said, she seems to really love you, and you should treasure her, and show her some romance. Maybe you get to know what it is like from her side of relationship, and understand it may not be easy for her too.
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