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  1. rsxguy520
    hi everyone. im back from my long absense of NC Challenge. i know im disappointed in myself. well anyways things have been far from horrible for me lately. everything has been pleasant and yes going my way. just turned 21 on sunday and had a blast on saturday night. taken advantage of the single life. well anyways i wish everyone on the boards best of luck of this challenge. its deinitely worth it. it got me to move on with my life quicker and easier, i hope everyone can learn from each others mistakes and get what they want in life,!
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    wow..its been awhile since i've been on the NC challenge. i just decided to post because i really have no time anymore to do this cause school is raping me..anyways tomorrow is supposed to my ex and i 4 years..greatest part, i don't give a ****..lol..no spending money, nothing..im happy as ever..tomorrow is the day were i revive my lost time and years to myself..haha..well back to the NC challenge, life is coming great so far, its just school, study, party..i've been meeting lots and lots of girls. but i'd like to keep it to friends and nothing more for now. i'd like to have my options open now..never settling unless i know its the one. i read some of your guys post..yeah trust me, you feel like you don't have strength to do this, only because your letting your mind tell you that. think about it..its like playing a game, we all want to win. now put it in this perspective. your the pride and self confidence is on the line. your ex is winning cause they got that from you. you don't want that do you? you wanna win and you want your self confidence and pride back?!?!?! am i right..of course..right now you feel like crap cause your ex means the world to you.i understand. been there done that. but think about it, why would want someone that did you wrong?!?! exactly... never give in.. anyways, i got a load of studying and hw to do. take care ppl that just started, and kudos to those who are still in it!
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    wow..im back lol. i don't really remember what day im at so yeah..8x-9x?? who cares..anyways..life is greater than ever. pretty much my life schedule consist of Sun-Thursday- School, study, Working out, sleep. Fri&Sat- Sleep, Party, Work out, sleep, party, etc. Pass weekend visited my cousin and her b/f for they're b-day. had to much fun..getting drunk, talking and chatting with girls i don't even remember there names or what they look like. and then passing out!! for the win!! lol..the single life is great. sure i miss the company of having a g/f, but thats all it is. young people like myself need to realize that break ups happen for a reason, and just take the time to build yourself together, and then, once your built, you'll be in the market in no time. i do believe this cause a good friend of mine, suffered the same break up like me and just went single for a whole year. getting his life together, etc..now he's dating this one beautiful girl, that i can see potentially be his next g/f..but yeah, i think now its better to let things flow, rather than making it happen.
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    hey everyone. its like 8x something for me, and i really don't count anymore, i just know im in full NC mode. i decided to post because today at school some weird stuff happened. walking from my apartment to school i saw some chick sitting on the bench, who looked like my ex. weird stuff i thought she was here, and i immediately gave a what the **** response. turns out it wasn't her..funny. then as soon as i got out of class i saw her car parked out at the lot, but i knew it couldn't be her cause of the rear view mirror i gave her. 2nd strike, not cool. so yeah through out the day i thought GOD was seriously playing a joke on me or something, cause today was just so random all this stuff happened. well anyways, school is alright. still a bit in isolation mode haven't really made friends, but you know, i'm working on it. i thought today was just completely absurd..oh well.
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    lol that made me laugh..its funny to find out that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. haha well anyways... I'M Back!! after a week of "absense", really though i was just getting adjusted to school. .i love it!! big change..i'm finally experiencing what i lost when i was with my ex. college life without a girlfriend is life that is truly busy. Day- 7X-8X, just got super adjusted. major change from going from semester system to quarter. anyways im still "looking" for myself at this place, haven't really made any friends other than my suite mates, but im not to worried about that. well yesterday night was the first night, where i wasn't reading, doing hw, or research. so i went clubbing with a couple of my friends in Hollywood. I think i got to the point now where im not sure if clubbing is for me. really. i feel like its a waste of time and money now...but thats just my personal opinion. i think now im just going to spend my free time, if i ever get any just doing my usual hobbie, cars and shoes..also it kind of struck me yesterday as well, "why am i trying to find a girl at a club?" i think thats when it hit me that i think im trying to hard now.i think im better off with that one girl from church. but honestly, i just wanna take my time now and just relax. if it comes to me, good, if not, im not bugged by it, because i would rather meet my soul mate in the long run, then find someone that im going bump heads with for awhile then be back on that journey to recover again. oh well. well i just got back from pumpin iron, and im going to eat lunch. i notice in one week i gained weight cause of stupid subway. lol. it's good to be back people and im glad some of you guys are hold on strong!!! remember keep that pride and show them (ex's) were not the ones the EFFF'd up!!!
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    day 77. woke up super freaking early. 4:30am? lol. picked up some jordans too add to my sneaker collection. right after worked out..krazy stuff huh? less than 4 hrs of sleep, punished my body like no other!?! haha. anyways, i was really tired withing the day, and took a real long nap. washed my cars, and now im getting ready to pack all my stuff. school starts monday. moving in tomorrow. i think this while be my official last everyday post till i settle in at school and yeah. i'll prolly do weekly summaries or something. i enjoying reading a lot of pplz progress. don't give up!!! seriously im at like day 77 of this challenge, but i've been in nC forever lol! and im loving it!!! i promise to those that just started or are on there way, it gets easier, and one it does, then you know its working. for yourself of course!!!!
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    day 76..sorry gotta make this fast..im camping out to buy jordans. lol. pretty much kept myself busy, wash car, worked out, eat, sleep, 70's show..and yeah....i'm excited im moving out on sunday. school starts monday! woohoo! anyways i'll post later!
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    day 75...just went through a mini limbo right now..weird..had to post to relieve that stress build up.. wow its been such a long time i felt one of these.anyways today was good. slept in. excited for satuday. can't wait to hit the gym tomorrow.
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    day 74....gym, made some sales on car parts..yadadad..im jealous!! my friend who has been on the same boat as us, finally moved on with a new girl!! good stuff! lol! i see superdave is back! good stuff!
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    exactly, this is what i always think about day in and day out. and yes, we will become better people for going through this experience.
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    day 73...its weird how i keep thinkin about that one girl from church..anyways, i did some major reflection. you know, i actually i wish i had the proper closer that you get when you split up with someone. i mean i already have that closer for myself, but i really wish it would have been done the right way..for some reason i think it will make it easier on me when i do pursue another love. cause i seriously never want to get caught up with someone and have and ex someday barg back into my life. (happened before, and it was totally unfair for that one person) and i seriously do not ever want to put that new special someone and myself in a bind ever again. what im trying to say is i really wish i did put the proper closer instead of beggin for another chance. its true what this whole no contact is.. at the moment you feel you need them, want them, say "you can't live your life without them." but once you put some time and space betweeen yourself and them...you honestly don't need them anymore, cause you eventually find out what you really want, and that you. not them. i finally, seriously found it in myself, that im completely over it without a doubt. sure you think about the past, but thats all it is the past. sometimes we end in good terms, sometimes we end in bad terms. let's just say, my ending was more of a life learning experience. i'm glad i went through it cause if i didn't i sure i would end up coming accross these forums sometime in my life.
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    day72...tired..did some traveling with mom. for some reason my mom brought up the issue with the ex cause of my dad. dude still isn't over it..oh well..like they said, time will heal all! right? it did for me..but yeah, i think my mom likes the girl that i find attractive at church. potential girlfriend? how knows..lol seems like my mom would like us to hook up..cool!
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    day71...im tired...i am attracted to this one girl at church. its weird how i saw her on the road hours later. major eye contact at that. my mom says go for it..but i would like to know if she has a b/f first before i make my move. lol. well thats about it..NC is really pushing me forward like no other.
  14. rsxguy520
    NAW!!! its not wrong at all, thats exactly what i want to do too..nothing serious at the moment.. personally i think its good, because you get to open up your options that you once closed for that one person. i say go for it..just my ".02 cents"
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    day 70..exhusted from yesterday night...got some much attention from some many girls. dance with so many girls too, its not even funny. i think the highlight of my night was when 3 different asian girls asked for my number. but for some odd reason, i sorta resisted and gave them, that, "sorry, i just wanna dance, not nothing more.!" ahh stupid me. but i honestly thought, i don't wanna start that whole settling b.s. watever. i just want to have fun, and "explore" around. yesterday, to me was considered one of many more fun nights to come. well today is my pops birthday. had lunch, and pretty much it for now. I think im going to take him out to Chuckie Cheese or something later. I'm funny like that. yes, i am. anyways..my whole vibe of the whole ex-girlfriend deal is finally gone. i feel kind of bad though, i sort of avoid that talk with several girls yesterday. "hey you, have a girlfriend?,(me) nooooo!!!"..and the nicest part is i didn't bring up anything of my break up, which i don't ever intend to. it feels like i denied having a long term relationship with my ex. lol, oh well. but yes, i love the atmosphere of the single life and being that center of attention. i guess good stuff happen to people when bad stuff happened them before. well i'm off to the gym now, if you wanna keep being the center of attention, you gotta continue working at it.
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