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  1. blindfold
    omg... you sound just like my bf... he used to have those feelings towards me (and still has, I think), can't trust me, doesn't believe a word I say, needs to know where I am, why I'm there, who I'm with, etc... I finally told him to back off, and it was either trust or hit the road. he cooled down a bit, but still has a lot of that... what he doesn't know, is that I cry myself to sleep every night we fight, 'cause he doesn't believe me. maybe you should take in consideration the way she feels too...
  2. blindfold
    me either...
  3. blindfold
    maybe she wants to feel that she is not tottaly depending on you... meaning that she still has some "mistery" to her life, some part of it which keeps you wondering what is going on... may be harmless, may be not, that's what you have to find out...
  4. blindfold
    maybe she is suffering from depression... people who are depressed normally don't even realise it, and she may attributing some symptoms of depression to the fact that she is pregnant (i.e.- mood changes and sleepiness), but maybe there is smt beyond that... your child needs you, and certainly needs his/her mother, so maybe you should try some kind of professional help - psychologist, maybe?
  5. blindfold
    FOUR different women? we're not talking about the classical "you weren't giving me enough attention"- excuse... dump him... believe me, it'll be for the best..
  6. blindfold
    tell him, because he has the right to know that your "friend" has had a past with you. then assure him it is all over and that you are 200% commited to him. and bingo
  7. blindfold
    tell them their religion is based on love. and that you defend love, regardless sex, race or social status
  8. blindfold
    the question is not wheter he/she is/was a virgin or not! is that he/she cheated, and that's not love...
  9. blindfold
    hold your head up high, give him his things, tell him you know and slam the bloody door on his face. he'll be back begging for forgiveness and all sorts of things... but hang in there
  10. blindfold
    dump him... you wouldn't want a friend to act like that with you, why should you want him? life will give you plenty of other chances to make friends with good people... sometimes things can get a bit messed up, but you don't "court" someone while you still have feelings for someone else, especially if you're "courting" a friend. things should all start "fresh". cya
  11. blindfold
    if you hate it when he takes his cell with him to the grocery store, than just tell him... tell him you won't be snooping his messages, but you suspect he is talking to his ex during that time...
  12. blindfold
    i've know one or two girls (and boys, for that matter) who act just like your gf (or soon to be ex) does. it is not fair, she is wasting your time, and you're not happy with her. tell her that, tell her bluntly you don't love her anymore, and even if it is a bit rude, tell her you never will again. you are being a prisioner in your own life... don't be... just stay strong and don't let go of what you want.
  13. blindfold
    how about stop calling her your wife to be and start calling her your ex? someone who does this deserves nothing from you, let alone your lifetime with her. you can be a wonderful parent by ditching her too, you know?probably even better than being with someone who makes you sick. best of luck
  14. blindfold
    i'd be cool and continue to play hard to get... if she keeps trying to get back with you, then give her a chance... maybe that'll set off the spark again good luck
  15. blindfold
    my bf is scarily like you... he is obssessive about certain things and jealous over anything that surrounds me... it doesn't feel good, and i'm unhappy with him, when he is on his jealousy moods... he's got me thinking i'm to blame for having men i could potentially cheat on him with around me (which i don't and i wouldn't cheat on him, ever). it is hell... i'm glad you can admit it (he can't), and maybe you can save your marriage by improving things on that department... no one likes to have the "police questioning", it is intimidating and represses the other person's feelings... be careful, if you really do love her... sincerely hoping it gets better*
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