Me and my girlfriend were together for two years and everything was going well, until she started to take me for granite. My friends have always noticed how well I have treated my girlfriend, and I would do just about anything for her. So when she did take me for granite, it would irritate me, and bring her more stress, so we went on a brake. She was also very stressed out because her dad and step mom just divorced, then her Dad decided to move to California and she would stay here and live in a friends house (She's 18 ). Shortly after we went on the brake we started treating eachother very well again, like things have always been. We get along great, have tons of chemistry, and always have fun no matter what were doing.
The brake then carried on for over a month, and I got to the point were I had to know if she is ready to be together again. I told her that I would love to get back toghether with her, but that she would need to treat me well enough so that she didn't hurt me again with some of the things she did that bothered me. She said she still wasn't ready and that she still needed space, so we broke up. She tells me that she wants to just be friends for a while and see where things go. Also, she says that she wants me to date other women so that I know what else is out there, even though she says it will hurt seeing me with someone else. And lastly she said that we are not breaking up so that she can be done with me, but that she doesn't want a relationship with anyone right now because the responsibility just adds more stress on her. So yes, I do still do love her so much, and I hope everyday that we can be together again.
So I really want to be with her again, but is that very likely?
And I understand the best thing I can do is the NC, but will that show her that I don't care about her anymore? Any advice or comments are appreciated
Thanks
