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  1. Well, lets me tell you my story. I was friend with this guy then we dated for almost a year then we broke up his choice . we still talked for a few days because he said he still wanted us to be friends. Which I wanted that too because, before anything he was my friend first. until he changed his number and told everyone not to give to me. So eventhought ppl still gave me his new number I decided not to talk to him.. a year later after I dated someone else. I decided I wanted to be friends with him again. Kinda like the way you feel now you said you want your pal back. so did I. I just sent him a message, saying I just wanted to say hi and hope you're doing well. He responded then we started talking again being friends. So, I would just say started off by saying a simple hello, ask how's he's doing. And wait and see. Don't apologize for how you acted in the past. If you feel you really want to apologize, don't do it now wait until you started talking again.
  2. I did the pregnancy, test and it's negative. Maybe it's the hormone change. Because, i was taking birth control pills, but this time I took them. I would skip the placebo pills so I wouldn't get my period and did that for like 5 months or so. I just totally stopped taking the pills. so maybe that could be a reason. but if it continues or gets worse i will go to the doctor.
  3. No, I'm not on any meds. The only think I was taking before was birth control and then stopped it. But, thanks it's good to know these facts.
  4. No, I've never been pregnant what so ever. I just took my test and it's negative. I think it might have to do with my body getting off the birth control. But, thank for the info. Before I didn'teven know about this six wholes until today and you told me what they are. thanks =)
  5. yes, im on my way out now to get one. i just wanted to know if this happened to anyone else. too.
  6. I got out of the shower like 30 mins ago and i noticed a tiny drop on my nipple when i was gonna change. I assumed it was water but why still after i dried myself well. then I squeezed my nipple and white kinda clear liquids comes out i squeezed the other one and it looks like 6 tiny wholes on my niple that the liquid comes out from. WHAT THE HELL IS THIS???? Don't tell me is milk. The amount that comes out is much less than when you pop a pimple. I know I can't be pregnant. because, I haven't had sex in almost a month and I was on birth control for like 6 months with my ex. Could be a reaction to me stopping the birth control? Because, i tooken birth control before and stopped and never noticed this. please someone tell me. if you had this im like freaking out now. Or could be that i went back to the gym and been having hard work out? please tell me this is not a sign of being pregnant. thank you for your hepl
  7. Yeah, my 2nd made official with someone else like right after we broke up. But my 1st ex. that's who im not sure if i really want to be friends with him or its just because i feel like i need/want someone now. But, yeah I am focusing myself i even have time to go to the gym now
  8. Okay, so ex -boyfriend him was my first real relationship. Lasted almost a year after it ended we didn't talk for a almost a year. Then became friends and started to become more than friends and hooked up a couple times. Then I started to date person B. So I started to talk less to him to and my new bf wanted me to not talk to my ex person A. I wanted it to be my decision not to talk to him and no anyone elses. Then after a while I realized I was done. I didn't want to talk to my ex.personA he was just all drama, calling me when he was drunk, telling me he wished we were together. I realized that at one point thats what I wanted to hear but not anymore. Then i only taked to him on myspace, then i wouldnt even respond to his messages. Now, two weeks ago my bf perons B broke up with me. I promised myself that no matter what i would never go back to person A. Because, i know deep inside he can't give me what i truly want. But, now i don't know if its because, of the recent break up.now i feel like i want to talk to my first ex Person A. just as a friend and nothing more. Is this normal? Am I feeling that way because, i know that my ex Person B got into a relationship the same day we broke up? So I want someone else too? I really don't want to that person that everytime they break up with someone new they keep running back to the same ex. And as for as friends goes, I don't want him to be my covinient friend which is what he would be now. Would be a good idea to tell my first ex person A. That right now I just need to be left a lone. That way I can think if I really truly want to be his friend or im just feeling like i do because of the break up and I want attention or something? Any advice or opinions on this? Thanks.
  9. I agree with this, when i was a little girl my dads car stolen, FROM INFRONT OF THE POLICE STATION !!!!! I was like * * *? Some people just don't care. I hope you're able to get your car back, and it isn't destroyed.
  10. I feel the same way with the honesty thing. My ex did this to me 2 weeks ago. Claimed he never wanted one from the start, wanted to get his finances in order, blah blah blah! WHAT DOES HE DO? He gets into another relationship the same day we brake up or as he said "he made it official the day we broke up". Everything would've been better, if he would've been honest. Just like your ex should've been with you. But, yet some people lie. Maybe, we will find someone honest..... i still have hope.
  11. Well, the job thing. I would still keep day job. getting a part time would be like you said for social reasons and to help me more financially. Any other interest i have is going to like concerts, but there arent any good ones for a while. So now all I have is the gym. Which always makes me feel better. So on the weekends i don't have much to do. That's why i want new friends, because, going to someones house and watching people get drunk is hardly my idea of a fun weekend.
  12. No, i wish I did. I do have some close friends. But, nothing like that. The last one who would actually do that for me ended up getting my into trouble. So havent been friends with her since then. I just want and need new friends.
  13. I don't know where to put this so i stuck in here. So after being out of a job for 9th months, I finally got job in jan. I felt things were finally starting to go my way, I had a bf finally a job. Now 2 weeks ago he broke up with me. He got into a new relationshiop the same day we broke up he made official with this other girl. What a jerk huh? Now, the break up has made me really think about my life. I'm finally, getting my financial things worked out and even went back to the gym. But, I want to meet new people. Make new friends, I haven't had a new friend in like almost two years or more. The people at my job are older or the ones like near my age are lame. So nothing is gonna happen there. So i want another part time job thats fun and i cant meet people. Or where esle can I meet people? I've also realized, i do need to get myself in school. But, I'm not sure what I would like to do? I don't want to waste money and time on working towards something I won't like in end. So I want to make sure that's what I want to do and since I already wasted almost 3 years. I don't want a career that will take like 10 years of school. Any ideas on careers dealing with children? Or like helping people out? Any advice, opinions or anything will be appreciated thanks.
  14. So of course, I told my best friends everything. How things werent going so well, how he broke up with me then after he broke up with me, the next day I found out he had cheated on me, but he still doesn't know that I found out he cheated. So, I have tons of people that will start asking me WHAT HAPPEN? I know I don't owe anyone an explanation. But, what exactly do I say when people ask? I would like to tell people he's a cheating lying bastard. So people can know the kinda person my ex is.But, I can't because, he doesn't know that I know he cheated. Plus I don't, don't want people knowing that he cheated on me . It makes me look like I couldn't make him happy, when if you read my last post about the break up and stuff, you'll see he does this because, he also has low self steem, I guess he thinks that makes him feel better. So what exactly to i tell these people? I don't want to say, I got dumped and cheated on. What have you told them? Thanks
  15. NO, I just saw one i responded to before. But, thank you all. I'm actually feeling okay. I am surprised at myself. I thought I would be feeling, depress and would cry to find out someone i loved cheated on me. But, I'm not. I don't know if I am still in shock about it. Or maybe is the fact that I kinda expect it to happen, or what? Is that normal? It kinda just seems like, i actually don't care that he cheated. I just would like to know why? I was nothing but amazing to him. This after i was there for him so many times when he needed me. After he told me so many times, if ever felt like i liked someone else or felt something was gonna happen to him. before not after. Just like you guys said, i'm glad i found out now and not later. I was getting tire of not knowing if he was lying to me or not. I deserve to be with someone who's honest after all he had like little or not trust left. so it wouldn't have worked out anyways. I would've just killed me myself wanting to spy on him or wondering if he was where he said he would be. So, I will just take my time go back to the gym, look super hot for someone who deserves me. Just like my love justin timberlake what goes around comes around goes around comes around. lol so yes, he was starting to get fat anyway.. lol
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