High5girl

Thanks SuperDave for posting this. Wish I would have seen it b4 sending my ex an email. Oh well, I know what not to do now in the future.

I'm sorry for your loss. I too, had to have my boxer of almost 9yr put down.

No worries about being blunt. You wouldn't be helping me if you weren't straight fwd and only telling me things that I wanted to hear. I do agree, I feel that I have hurt him in some way. I honestly think he's just had enough and is done with me. It hurts like hell, but I will be ok. Thanks for the replies.

I have a question and hope that someone can shed some light on the subject. I was involved in an online romance that last about 6 months and met twice offline. We grew close and eventually developed feelings for each other. This man seemed so happy and in love with me. Maybe he wasn't as much as I thought he was. He loved me and showed it all the time. He didn't appear to have any insecurities that would hold us back from being together. All he wanted was me and it showed on a daily basis. Me on the otherhand..... Had some issues. At times, I would push him away. He stuck it out with me and never grew tired of me feeling overwhelmed. We had this agruement a few weeks back. He accused me of seeing someone else. I never gave him a reason to think I was and he said that he trusted me. He just misunderstood something he saw on my page at another site. I was furious with him and ended things. Told him to never contact me again. He didn't. A week later, I was no longer angry with him. I poured my heart out to him and he didn't care or even bat an eye lash. He just thanked me for my thoughts and wished me well. In my last attempt to get him back this past weekend...I sent him an email that again poured my heart out. I got nothing in return. (No reply) Always in the past, he could not stay away from me and always replied even if he was angry with me. So, now I am wondering why or how he can give up so easily. He was convinced that we belonged together. I just don't understand what happened. I get the idea he moved on, but in such a short time?