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  1. Bringing this back up to the top! (hehe) I finally did it! My first orgasm on top, and it was GREAT I started out by doing figure eights for a while, then found a good rythm, leaned back for a while, leaned forward for a while, switched back and forth between these techniques, and concentrated on how I felt instead of how I must have looked. Guess you could say I really let loose. If it could get any better than that... we haven't had sex for 9 months. What a great way to get back! We haven't had any contact for a few days now and I am feeling cool, don't want to get ahead of myself, but DANG I want to do that again ASAP. hehe. The figure eight thing rocks. Tyra suggested it a few months back and she was right. It really set me off.
  2. I saw someone get injections on one of those rich wives reality shows and wondered how long it would last. Is there any fear of that injection turning to plastic or something under the surface and going bad? Do you know what I mean? I'm not articulating my question too well. In any case, I think I'd rather get a g-spot enhancement ~kidding~
  3. I'm so glad your mom is there to help you out and that you had two doctors consulting how to best care for you this time. I can't imagine what that side feels like everytime your milk lets down and you have to pump. I feel just terrible for you. I'm so sorry you are going through this! Please keep us updated.
  4. BTR ~checking in on ya. How are you and baby today??
  5. You have to decide you don't want to smoke. It is like this. Say you absolutely cannot drink strawberry soda. It is a drink you cannot and will not drink for whatever reason, but you definitely know it is not for you. There isn't any reason to change your mind because you can drink grape soda instead. Quitting smoking is about making different choices, letting your body go through the withdrawls and establishing new patterns. Plus once you decide for definite sure that smoking is not for you then it won't be. COLD TURKEY You can do it. Your mind is powerful and so are you!
  6. Try laying down so that you are laying on your good side. Now lay the baby along side and latch him on so that his chin is pointing toward the golf ball area you described. You'll have to prop yourself up with your good side arm and kinda lean over him and his legs might be pointing away from you after you get him positioned in the right angle... he'll be fine as long as his nose isn't obstructed. If you can get this angle in a chair then by all means. The thing is to get his chin pointing toward the hard area when he latches on. Let us know how that goes and keep trying. You'll get past this.
  7. The statement must be phrased in the positive posessive. For example: I, Cyberchick, am worthy of love and valued by many people. ~not~ I'm not going to let myself feel unloved or unimportant anymore.
  8. Are you engorged or is he nursing and emptying it? If he is emptying it then that is a good sign and will promote healing. You want to completely empty it. One trick is to point his chin to the sore spot. The sensation you describe sounds about right as it is so tender right now. As long as you don't have a fever then you don't have an infection.
  9. I just thought to tell you another thing, not related but kinda. I used to sit in my computer chair with the boppy pillow around me so the baby could nurse while I was on the computer. Worked for us because I needed to work and he needed to nurse.
  10. You are doing a great job! I know it hurts like h*ll but you'll get past this bump soon enough. When I had this problem I would do a number of things. Try to express manually in the shower as the warmth does a lot of good. I also tried to pump inbetween feedings as it sounds you are doing. Last, I would start him off on the good side, interrupt him and switch him to the bad side after he was about half way done. I would keep him on the bad side until he got really mad then switch him back and let him empty the good side. The next time I would start him on the bad side until he got really mad. Can you tell he would get really mad a lot? LOL My little guy was particularly demanding and wanted it NOW... not a minute... NOW!!! LOL but he was effective in helping unblock the flow. I'm so proud of you to come on here and ask for help. So many women just give up but you aren't and I applaud you for that. It does hurt right now but once this clears up you'll be glad you persevered.
  11. What was his tone/attitude when he said, "I'll see you tomorrow or someday", so was it sarcastic as if he was prodding you? Or, was it down trodden as if he thought you were blowing him off? Whatever he was thinking it seems like he is testing you. He isn't sure. You aren't sure. It is a delicate dance to figure each other out and find your pace. It doesn't help that his communication is random. He replies sometimes and ignores sometimes and then lets days go by without contacting you. I'm not sure if he is game playing, but I agree that he is not straight-up with you on all counts. If these patterns make you uncomfortable then it might not work out unless you tell him and things improve. Wouldn't it be great to say, "WTH are you thinking? Just be cool already!" LOL
  12. It appears this guy is a waste of your energy. He mentioned a way to make money... big deal. If he were honestly trying to help you he wouldn't leave you hanging on a comment and your thinking about it so much is a waste of YOUR time because it isn't making YOU money. So, use your time wisely by placing your effort into YOURSELF and figuring out how to keep your electric on. Put up an offer to help others at local churches, grocery store boards, college boards. Offer to run errands for the elderly or disabled. Whatever your skillset, get thyself out there. Jobs don't fall from the sky and men with high interest don't behave this way. Sorry to sound so harsh. You are such a non-selfish person and I hate to see you hurting but would hate it more to hear your power was turned off.
  13. It sounds like he is saying that he is a real gentleman for waiting to have sex if you make it through him paying for 7 dates in 3 weeks. Tell him your rule is 21 dates in 9 1/2 weeks and see what he says LOL
  14. This works for me link removed The mouthwash also works fabulously for bleeding gums. I can't remember which product comes with a little brush that you can gently use on the surface of your teeth. I'm sure if you inquire they'll also give you result studies on their product trials.
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