AngelEyez
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Well Jammin' James, you're completely right. Looks do matter for A LOT of people. In today's society, people are obsessed with image. It's all because of the media. The media expects people to look a certain way. For example, I think it was until the 1960s...thicker women were preferred over the stick figures. Then Twiggy came along and all changed. If you don't like the way you look, maybe you should change for society. If you're satisfied with the way you look, maybe you shouldn't change. I've never liked the way I looked either. Heck, I was overweight for many years of my life. I got called fat and ugly by everyone INCLUDING family members...goes to show you how mostly everyone is inconsiderate. I remember someone pulled the last straw in the summer of 2005. I remember it quite vaguely, but I couldn't stand it anymore. I didn't want to be fat nor ugly. I promised myself that if I don't lose the weight soon enough that I'd kill myself. It's pretty extreme...be skinny or die! In about 3 months, I lost 60 pounds. I went hardcore...and considering I lost so much weight so quickly, I got side effects. But, I live with it. Now, guys say I'm "hot" ...but I still don't feel "hot". I think I look better than I did before, but I wouldn't consider myself hot or sexy or beautiful. I hate myself for being sucked into what the media wants...but if you can't fight it...go along with it, right? How exactly do you think you're ugly? What are the features that make you ugly?
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Are you sure you're ready? If you believe in saving yourself, don't do it.
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32 -A Cup (yeah, 'minus' A)...
AngelEyez replied to Baby Carrot's topic in Health: Body, Mind and Spirit
Soccer14, I don't think dieting is very healthy at your age. If you don't have any medical conditions that require you to lose weight, you shouldn't. If you start working out, you may not lose your "booby fat" because you're still developing. -
I need some advice on dealing with my illness.
AngelEyez replied to Immy's topic in Health: Body, Mind and Spirit
Hey Immy, I was prescribed my anti-depressants about 2 weeks ago. It doesn't drastically change your mind-set... To be honest, I don't see a difference, because I'm still depressed...so it takes time. My dosage is pretty strong too. It has a lot of bad side effects like drowsiness, loss of appetite, dry mouth etc. Good weight loss strategy!!! Hehe, just joking... I don't want fake happiness either, but the pills won't help if you don't help yourself too. I would consider telling your family. Who knows how they will react? Maybe they will be supportive. You never know. -
If these friends stop talking to you when you show your cuts...they are obviously not TRUE friends...On the other hand, I don't think you should show your cuts just to get people to care...The fact is...most people DON'T care because it's not happening to them...I'm sure if you asked your relatives for help...they would help you because they love you.
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Tell him to close his eyes! I don't think he would get offended. When I first kissed, the guy told me to close my eyes because it was creepy when I kept my eyes open. Haha, sometimes I would keep them open just to play around.
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If your intention isn't to kill yourself, then I don't see why you would cut yourself. If you wanted to kill yourself, you wouldn't use a plastic knife. I used to use broken glass. I felt like I wanted to kill myself, but I could never just do it. It was too painful. Blood on the carpet, mom would probably complain [just a joke]...Anyways, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago...and I went to OD on my anti-depressants. I didn't take TOO many pills, of course, because I'm still alive typing this post. I just finally realized that I shouldn't sacrifice my life just because things aren't working out for me. Life sucks. Nothing is fair. 99% of the time you won't get what you want. You have to accept the facts and move on. In my opinion, I'll keep myself alive to help others. I like helping people and seeing people happy. I'll live for temporary happiness. It seems like if I'm happy it only lasts a week or so. Then everything just screws up. It's bound to happen. Musicguy, your friends probably stopped talking to you because they think you only want attention by showing your cuts. I don't know if this is your intention or not, but most people in this world don't give a damn, and they don't want to get involved. I know, because I've lost friends like this too. People are just selfish.
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I agree! Haha
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i dont know what my problem is!!??
AngelEyez replied to bebecole's topic in Long-Distance Relationships
Hey, You just have a lot of doubt in your relationship. This is not necessarily good, but you can overcome it. I have a lot of doubts and insecurities about my LDR as well, but right now, I'm just trying to go with the flow. You shouldn't really try to think of the future that much. You also have to understand that your ex-boyfriend is different from your current boyfriend. They are not the same people, so maybe they won't make the same decisions. Try to have hope with your LDR. Also, don't tell your boyfriend you have doubts about the relationship. He'll begin to lose hope and have doubts as well. I've learned the hard way. Try to stay positive and happy. Whatever happens, happens...Just go with the flow! -
new girl needs serious help... so confused
AngelEyez replied to confused1607307483's topic in Getting Back Together
If you still love him, I don't see why you would break up with him. It wouldn't be crawling back to him. Just ask him how he feels about the situation and then make your decision whether or not to get back together. Ask him "Do you think we could possibly work out our differences and try again?" -
I think a dildo would be too painful as well. You should try to stretch yourself with your fingers or your boyfriend can do it for you. Maybe the reason you were hurting is because you were dry? You should get some lube next time. It feels better. I don't think it's the breaking of the hymen that really hurts. It's just the stretching...but I'm not too sure because I'm still a virgin too. Just try to play with yourself more, I guess.
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new girl needs serious help... so confused
AngelEyez replied to confused1607307483's topic in Getting Back Together
Maybe the reason he hasn't said "I love you" recently was because you guys were in a rough spot. My boyfriend hasn't said it in a while either because we're sort of in a rough spot. Maybe the reason he changed his myspace was because you did it too. I think you should have an honest conversation with him. You both should tell each other what's on your mind. Set up an hour with him just to get things off your chest. -
That's pretty harsh on her part. Why would she use you like that and then fluff you off when she has someone new? Basically she used you to comfort her whenever she felt "lonely" and then replaced you when time came. You should stop caring, although it may be hard. Some people are just mean. Do NC again, and try to start new yourself. Find a girl who appreciates you and wants to spend time with you. You'll be feeling better and better as the days go by.
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Well, for one thing, I hate those kinds of girls, hehe. Anyways, I think you're best bet is to ignore it. Keep talking to the girl you like. Let the other girl make a fool of herself and go all the way. How much worse can she dress than $!#77Y? She won't go nude to school...But, let the girl you like know that you're interested in her. She may feel like the other girl is intruding and may be scared that you like the other one back. Don't even bother with the other girl...Don't even look at her, or make eye contact. She'll get the message, if she's smart enough. If this $!#77Y girl asks you out or w/e then you can tell her you aren't interested whatsoever.
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She sounds a lot like me. My boyfriend and I almost broke up this weekend because of it. I've been giving him space though, which is most important. I've also been taking anti-depressants, yet I still think he doesn't care as much as he used to. So many insecurities...
