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  1. Thanks so much guys. Youve all made good points. Im def. healthy and this is something that is genetic because my mother was thinner than I am when she was my age, and now, she's OVER weight. Luckily I do have a booty (small hips though) and my boob size is a 36C...not bad, right? I know I def. could be worse and, the person who added the above comment is right, we're never happy. If I gained weight id probably still complain about something else. I have guys knocking down my door and giving me compliments everywhere I go, so it is def. all in my head that i am unattractive. I guess instead of worrying about improving my size i should be improving my self-esteem. I really appreciate all your input.
  2. ive tried Ensure but it hasnt worked. i think because I dont have the money right now to buy the number of bottles id need to drink daily in order to gain weight. I would need to eat my regular three meals a day & the ensure in between each meal. The cost starts to add up. But u had some good advice. Thank you. Im going to be careful of what i take in.I just want this sooo badly & soooo quickly!
  3. Guys are naturally a little less "sappy" than we women are. Don't get offended by it. He loves you too, its just a lil more difficult for men to handle emotional things. Maybe try to make it once per conversation, but dont be afraid to let him know. Be afraid when he stops saying it back!
  4. I know this is going to sound really weird but I am a thin girl....AND I HATE IT!!! I know it's healthier and its the "ideal" but im 5'7 and can barely get over 125lbs. I have a few curves but I feel at the age of 25 (and with the way I eat) I should be waaay my curvaceous. I am so desperate that I have tried stuffing my face till ive almost puked and this week I am going to look into supplement drinks. This is ruining my relationship because my boyfriend constantly tells me im beautiful but I only wind up telling him that he's lying to make me feel better and I know he'd be happier if I was more bodacious. I've cried myself to sleep over this and ive let it take over my life. I wish it wouldnt but im so unhappy. Am I exaggerating? Also, does anyone have any good suggestions for how I can gain weight a lil quicker? Thanks!
  5. Thanks a lot everyone. You basically told me everything I already knew in my heart but I was trying to ignore. I know its only a matter of time that I'm going to have to break up with him. It just sucks so much because if it wasn't for his ADD he would be the perfect guy for me. He treats me like a queen. But you all make good sense. Thank you!!
  6. I have no problem with it...i mean... whateva's on his tongue belongs to me anyway. LOLOL....but seriously, it can sometimes suck to have your man stop everything and run and gargle.It can also be quite insulting. So unless your girl seems to turn her head when you go for her mouth, GO FOR IT!!!
  7. Okay, here's the deal!! I'm 24 and my bf is 25. I've been dating him for the past 5 yrs despite the fact that he has Attention Deficit Disorder. We've been friends since childhood and I enjoy being about 75% of the time but sometimes it gets really annoying when he can't keep up in conversations, when I have to repeat myself 10 TIMES, when he does/says quirky things, and when I have to do most of the planning b/c he has a hard time being CONSISTENTLY dependable. I am a very understanding and patient person but sometimes I wonder if I am being TOO patient, especially given my age and the fact that I can easily get another guy if I wanted to. Sometimes I feel like, no matter how much I love him, am I only kidding myself because I could never see myself marrying him (even though Im not planning on getting married any time soon) and I wouldnt want my kids to go through the stress he does of having ADD. Did i mention that I also tend to make fun of him at times, though thats the LAST THING i want to ever do? He just makes me so mad at times even though I know its not his fault. ... ...I really want an honest opinion, is it worth staying with him to enjoy the good parts of our relationship or is it hopeless. P.S. He is getting counseling & taking meds, but I know there's only so much either can do. HEEEELLLLP!!!!!!!!!
  8. Yeah, if she's honest about it and she hasnt given you reason to not trust her in the past, you should have nothing to worry about. On the otherhand, if you find out she's making a habit of this....give her an ultimatum and ask her, "How would you feel if the shoes were on the other foot?"
  9. Make sure you ALWAYS use lube like you did (you could seriously hurt her otherwise). Also, you said you did it while your girl was drunk...i seriously doubt if she was relaxed enough to enjoy that. Her muscles in that area will have to be real loose in order for it to work out successfully. Maybe you should introduce it to her slowly until her mind and body is ready for action.
  10. I understand 100%...u sound a lot like myself. In fact, i always tease my man that I wear the pants in the relationship because, when it comes to sex, most times I am the initiator. I dont know where the myth comes from the men want it more than women but they need to stop believing it. I think the only reason it seems that way is because men tend to verbalize it more than women. Maybe it's because it's not the ONLY thing on our minds!!!
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