Damaged1
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This is a hard situation. You feel like you are stuck. You can go to websites such as link removed and others like it and do a roommate search. A lot of people who need roommates in your area will post an opening and you can check them out. Just an idea, so you don't have to feel like you are stuck. I hope it helps!
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Thanks so much!
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If one was taking Prednisone for an allergic reaction, will this mess with the affects of their birth control pills?
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He said that if I go visit him, then I can take the pics and stuff with me...I know its naive to believe him and I have no plans on going to see him. I want to just disappear. Its just scary to think I have to go through all of the humiliation...AGAIN! And how many more times will he do it? Its just a horrible situation that I feel I will never be out of.
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Prayer Please - Our Injured Marine
Damaged1 replied to ImThatGirl's topic in Grief Loss and Bereavement
He is in my prayers as well as all of our military men and women fighting for our freedom. Please keep us updated. -
I will be calling them this evening. I am currently at work with some nosy co-workers. I will keep you guys updated. Thanks so much for all of the advice. This site is amazing!
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Now, he lives in a different state. Will that make it any more difficult?
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Well, I still have the original emails that he sent out. Plus friends who will vouch for me. And I do believe I may have some IM conversations saved.
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I understand that the pics are technically his property, but can't he be stopped from the blackmailing and harassment? Can't it be ordered that he destroy them or something?
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Coming clean to your family in any situation is difficult. But soon keeping the secret from them becomes more damaging to you than if you actually come clean. They are your family. Family is the one unconditional love, but if they see how happy she makes you, then hopefully they will just accept you for who you really are. Knowing that you are happy should be enough for them to accept you and your girlfriend. Best of luck to you my friend.
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You guys are so great. Thank you for all of the advice. I'm just so tired of living in fear of this guy.
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I understand what you are saying. If I keep giving in, he'll keep taking. Its just hard to face it, I guess. I've had a rough couple of years and its like things just aren't getting any better.
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Could really use some advice guys!
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Hello everyone. I am pretty new here. I've been reading the posts for the past few days now and you guys give really good advice. I'm in a tough situation and would like your insight to it. I got out of a 3 1/2 year relationship last November. We just grew apart and even though it hurt, we knew it was the right thing to do. Not long after, I met a guy on a message board. We started talking and eventually met. He lives in another state. I was not completely ready for a serious relationship with anyone and I admit that I was not the best gf. But I did try. I really trusted this guy with everything. We just really clicked. Because we live in two different states, I sent him some interesting pictures of me. Not proud of it, but I was in a different state of mind and didn't think things through. And the one time we were together, I let him videotape, no sex, just fooling around. Well, when I broke up with him, he flipped out and sent them out to everyone I know. It was devastating and has really messed with me mentally. I know I shouldn't talk to this guy anymore, but I'm afraid that he will send them out again if I stop talking to him. And he keeps trying to get me to sleep with someone else so he can get over me, when I'm not ready to. And he said I have to come see him within the next 6 months to get my stuff back. I just want to get away from this guy, but I don't know how to do it. I don't know if there is anything legally I can do. Or what. Any suggestions from you guys would be great. I'm so tired of living in fear of someone else. I just don't know what to do anymore. I just want my life back. Thanks in advance.
