joiseygrl

I'd join him in the bath... or you could be by the tub and help "wash his back" *wink* *wink* It sounds wonderful, but just keep in mind, "...the best laid plans..." If things don't work out exactly as planned, don't be upset, just go with the flow.

One article I pulled up said that "About one in eight women with PID becomes infertile, and if a woman has multiple episodes of PID, her chances of becoming infertile increase." No time was put on it... it was a good article: here's the link: link removed

I think the number of times I was "used" for sex and the number of times I "used" a guy for sex pretty much evens out. It's a sucky feeling if you're really into someone and it turns out all they wanted was sex, but it does happen all the time. So if what you're looking for is to know that you're not the only one, you're not.

Don't be afraid if a big fat white guy grabs you and puts you in a bag, because I asked santa for you for Christmas. That shirt looks great on you, but it would look better crumpled up on my bedroom floor. Is that a mirror in your pocket? 'Cuz I can totally see myself in your pants. Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again? **** me if I'm wrong, but isn't your name Herbert? I can read palms. (Take his hand and write phone # on it) Oooh -- it says you're gonna call me soon! Excuse me, I seem to have lost my phone number, can I have yours? "Pick a number between 1 and 10." He replies with a number. “Damn, you lose now take off your clothes." Hi, are you here to meet a nice girl, or will I do? "Do you know what winks and screws like a tiger?" you ask innocently. “No,” he answers. Wink Let's go to my place and do the things I'll tell everyone we did anyway. Nice f-ing weather. Want to? Do you like short love affairs? I hate them, I've got all weekend. I can't find my puppy, can you help me find him? I think he went into this cheap motel room. That's a nice shirt. Can I talk you out of it?

shes2smart, Thanks for the advice. I've only been into the "scene" for about a year and it's been with one man so my "experience" is pretty limited. I really do appreciate your advice. Not many people I know are into this, let alone are experienced enough to advice me on stuff like this. I'm not ready at this point to go and find a club or anything like that.

Nice... if my dr. asks, I'm gonna use that line. But my genital area usually "takes a beating" as well. Nothing serious, just some minor tears, maybe a little swelling and soreness.

So I had to make an appointment for my annual. My lover and I have a big night of crazy sex planned. I was hoping to get the appointment before the night of crazy sex, but I couldn't. It usually takes me a few days to "recover" after one of our rough sessions. Do you think there will be a problem if I have really rough sex just 4 days before my annual? Maybe I should just see if she could renew my prescription and reschedule for early April.

Right now it's doggie style, but with a twist... my wrists tied together then the rest of the rope looped around my neck with the end in his hand. Call me a freak, but it really gets me going!

If it only hurts when he goes deep, he may be hitting your cervix. That's not a horrible thing, but most women find it painful. (Then there are some out there like myself, who enjoy the sensation.) It can cause problems in the long run if he's hitting it hard and repeatedly. Try a different position where you can control the depth... woman on top is a good one for that.

I guess it could be for closure. But what irks me about it was he was so cruel and mean to me the night I left and now HE wants "closure". He changed the locks so I couldn't get the rest of my stuff and now he wants to send it to me? I'm not losing sleep analyzing it, but it just bothers me.

I left my ex-husband a year and a half ago. The divorce was final back in August. We had no contact with each other since the day I left. Even during the divorce hearing he wouldn't even look at me and no words were exchanged at all. I have moved on with my life and I'm happier now than I ever though I could be. The only "contact" we've had was in the form of him sending a monthly check. Yesterday, I opened the envelope and found my two old Social Security cards and a note inside. The note read something like this: I found these and wanted to get them back to you. I hope you; your family and the pets are doing well. I found some other things of yours and will get them together and send them to you. Why now? Why after almost 18 months is he writing me notes and sending me my "stuff"? And how dare hope me and my family are well. He sure as Hell didn't give a rat's tookis about us when he cheated on me though our entire marriage. I can't help but think he wants something from me. In the 8 years that I knew him, he has never done anything unless he thought it would benefit him in some way. But what could it be?

Besides the obvious (worried about smell and taste) maybe she was raised to believe that kind of sexual act is "wrong". Talk to her about her reasons. Don't push, but find out if there is a way to work it out where both of you are happy. On a side note, Am I the only woman who has no problem getting orally satisfied? I've never had any hang-ups about it. As a matter of fact I LOVE IT!

I've had quiet a few f-buddies and they've all been big on kissing. I guess it's just a matter of personal preference. Heck, my ex-husband never kissed, but my buddies always did... go figure!

Here are some pointers: Keep it wet... I know the instinct is to swallow when your mouth fills up with saliva, but don't... let it drip onto his penis. It creates that whole "warm and wet" feeling. Don't forget to use your hands! Whatever length of his shaft you can't fit into your mouth, stroke it with you hand. Follow the motion of your mouth. Guys love eye contact during oral; so don't forget to look up at him. I think it comes from the whole, "Look at this girl submitting to me" thing. Don't forget about "the boys". Some guys are pretty sensitive down there so feel it out. A few light strokes, maybe a gentle squeeze, he'll let you know if he's enjoying that. Don't approach it like a "chore". A guy will enjoy it more if he knows it's something you actually WANT to do. Vary depth and speed. Use lots of tongue action. (Just like you were french kissing.) When you hit the right depth and speed, you'll know. He won't be able to control himself. As far as the taste... it's not wonderful, but there are worse things out there. If you're that concerned, suck on an Altoid while your doing it. The intense "mintiness" will not only help with the taste, but it drives most guys wild.

I've got 3 piercings. Navel, left nipple and clitoral hood. I noticed increased sensitivity in my piercings for the first couple of years I had them. (They're all about 10 years old.) I love them all. Make sure you go to a reputable, experienced piercer. I had a friend get her hood done soon after I got mine and within a month, it fell out while she was wiping. (It wasn't deep enough.) Oh and nipple piercings are considered a "surface piercing" so they do tend to migrate.