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  1. emalkoc
    I thought the same!
  2. emalkoc
    * * * ...are you serious or you will get a lot bad remarks here! why did come here? did you miss him now?
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    None of your list applied us...Our therapist called it: #6 Emotional Incompatibility She likes to have lots emotional attention, more than even a woman can handle On the other hand, I am more easy-going and could handle daily couple hours of emotional needs but not 12hrs/day...
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    Crows, you should NOT feel guilty for contacting.. At this stage, you should actually but be careful, dont be too touchy.. You are meeting her soon, right?
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    I am almost into 21 days NC...Itching to talk to her...I see her online now, and I dont know whether she is going to ping me or not...
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    Day 18...wow..I made it thru Thxgiving with the help of friends and sunny weather...
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    Day 12 since the last I heard anything from her..
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    1. If they look not smiling in their last fotos anymore... 2. if they start having private conversations or hiding computer screen - big no! 3. The arguments increased for no reason, and you dont understand why they are irritated. that's what I learned.
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    I am starting over myself too Day 2 ugh! I wish I never saw her again!
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    DAY 34 I had a very hard day yesterday..Then I am feeling good today...I think I am going for long run..I convinced myself that things will OK.. Bright days in front us everyone!!! Cheers Eric
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    I tend agree with this. My ex is very stubborn as much as I am. We both expect the other to break down before making moves...explains why we are broken somehow.. So today I almost called her after 4 weeks NC...After coming from my therapist, she said NO. I am not in position yet...But I think everyday passes by I feel she forgets me. Knowing posts here, thats not true. Should I just send her a message "Hi" or "are you ok" etc.... or NC forever until she calls since she is broken with me.
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    4 weeks exactly today and I am feeling horrible right now....but better than 2 weeks ago, hell better than 4 weeks ago...I hope I will be twice happier than today...but for sure, I am in a lot of pain... Good luck everyone.. Eric
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    Ok, SuperDave, here is a question... remember my story? 2.5 yrs relationship and 2nd break...this time is very hard one since she moved out and did not accept my wedding ring too late execuses. So, I am on NC for 2.5 weeks and she changes her mood on facebook to Feeling Sad and tags one of our pretty photos together. She has not changed her profile to reflect single or anything else yet...So I know I am breaking the NC rule checking her facebook but I cannot help I want her back for sure. So I will continue to NC until she calls. But the risk is that she may be too proud to call me. I think I know this girl. Even last time, she called when I threaten not to call me again with weak desire to talk again. So what do I do now? Should I open the MSN channel to her where she is comfortable or wait for her call if she ever does ? My bday is Sat and dont know whether she is going to contact...No idea...we will see and I dont know what to say to her whether no more contact with me or thanks/nice for calling me message... Help needed Cheers Eric
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    Hey Heartschock! Thanks very much! I would advise everyone to make their points before starting NC...And make sure get out and enjoy until she or he will come back! because if they are really in love with you, they will! if not, you are still the winner because you are not with someone not in love! Good luck to everyone...and dont take your love and relationship for granted anytime! Cheers
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    We are back together as of yesterday She called me and she said that she wants to get back.. now I will have a lunch with her and start dating again from fresh start Hope everyine sticks to NC...works! Eric
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