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  1. vitamin E. those little supplement capsules. You can pop the ends open and squeeze out the oil on cuts, it will make them heal very fast, as in noticeably faster than normal. Try to stop cutting if you can. I know you are worried about scars, they will heal in time. I did this a bit 4 years ago, and now the scars are hardly visible. However if you keep doing it, it will only get worse.
  2. I agree, it is a sort of emotional affair. You two are going to each other for talk and support that you would previously have gone to your spouses before. From what you have said, talking about how well you two relate it seems that you two have more in common that you do with your actual spouses and are using it as an emotional and social outlet. Now its not as bad as physically cheating on your spouse, atleast in my opinion, but you should ask yourself what it is you seek out of this new secret friendship and why you feel the need to communicate with her again after 15 years when you have your own life, spouse and kids on the way ect.
  3. I know Im bringing back a year old thread, but Im looking back on my post and I can say that I too always get down during the winter months. Especially at the very start of it like right now when its just getting cold and the days are shorter. I dont know what it is but something about the cold outside always gets me down.
  4. no i wouldnt I had a friend asking me to kiss him on the cheek when he was drunk. I wouldnt do it. I think i have been kissed like on the head and maybe on the cheek by male friends but they were drunk.
  5. dont worry about what she thinks. Youre not blocking her account for her, you need to do this for yourself. Just do what is best for you and dont worry about what she thinks. If youre like me then it will be too hard to just use your will to not look at the page, and you will give in to curiosity and check back eventually. Just delete it and get it over with so you can heal and get over her.
  6. In addition to a tutor, dont be afraid to ask others in you class about something if you dont understand it. I used to do everything by myself, go to class, not talk to anyone, go home and do the homework alone, study alone ect. This really hurt my grades in some of my engineering classes, as if you dont understand something when your studying or doing homework, theres no one there to help. Consider getting in with some of your classmates and working on the homework together and studying together. I am doing much better in my coursework now that I know many people in my classes and can study with them.
  7. if hes a shy guy, he will especially appreciate it if you initiate. Dont worry, you need not put your self out there too much, just starting up a conversation is enough. Simple small talk will work wonders. Having a conversation and making eye contact during that conversation, you should have enough of a feel to gage if he has any interest or not in you.
  8. it seems she has the ho gene. Out of all the situations that ive seen where a guy gets involved with a girl while they still have a boyfriend, it always ends badly. Even if she eventually leaves him for you, if she cheated on him, you can have no expectations that she wont cheat on you. Stay away from her for some time.
  9. Calc 2 is particularly nasty. Its one of those classes that you have to pass to graduate, but you will never need to use after you finished the class. You need to take a look at your situation and see how likely it is to get a C. If youre confident you can get a C, then go for it, pass the class and get it done with. If it really looks like its gonna be impossible, then just drop it. I made the mistake of being too proud to drop a class and it has hurt my gpa and I had to retake the class anyways.
  10. 28 and 24 isnt that large of an age gap, but there is a difference here. She has a biological clock and you dont. It sounds like youre just making your transition from college to real world, while she is worried and fearful that she may never find a husband and someone to have children with. Give yourself some time to think it over, and in the mean time be vary careful with regards to birth control.
  11. I grew up as an only child with an over controling father and very caring mother. I didnt do the normal things like play baseball, soccer, ect. as I didnt take much interest in sports because my father never bothered to teach me them. Even though I am fully capable socially today (ie I dont have what you would call social anxiety) I am still always known as the quiet one in whatever group I may be in. I think alot of it has to do with not being around alot of my peers outside of school at an early age.
  12. This sounds like more than just a physical problem and you need some counseling to get it all straightened out. You may or may not have an eating disorder. After you get your mental and emotional situation straightened out, then it would be good to get in the gym. A little bit of lifting and some protein and you will put on weight but it wont be all fat, youll be putting on muscle and getting the more masculine and normal appearance you want.
  13. video games arent that big of a deal and wont make problems go away. Theyre just a distraction and time waster like anything else. Video games are no different than watching a movie or reading a book. Its a leisure activity and temporary escape from life's problems, but playing video games isnt going to make you any happier with your life.
  14. Honestly you need to just delete her from your friends list. Put her on the block list so you cant see what shes doing or if she is listed as a new relationship or other guys flirting with her on her page. Trust me, the constant checking on someones page/aim will drive you nuts. It will do you a lot of good to just delete her off your list so you cant see it anymore.
  15. I dont think that he was only focused on sex like some others have stated. If he was only looking for sex, he wouldnt have waited 2 months to make a move. You said that you never talked about sex and never talked about past partners. Combined with the fact that he was social anxiety and a busy med student, its likely hes very inexperienced. I dont think most 30 year olds wait 2 months, but I understand it was more the akwardness and not the timing of it. I think that it turned out so strange and he was so embarrassed because he is probably inexperienced and the way he sort of jumped right into it, NOT EVEN USING A CONDOM, he really doesnt seem like he knows what hes doing or is very confident in the bedroom. You know the situation better than we do. Do you think it was more inexperience and anxiousness on his part or was it more creepy aggressiveness leaning towards someone capable of rape?
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