barbielovesmac

beautiful, KG

Love it

its all about moving on. life changes,things change and people change. you've just gotta move along with life. its good when you get to the point of saying so long goodbye because there is nothing you can do about someone elses insecurites, thats skin deep. good for you for being able to move on. keep up the positive attitude, don't waste your time =] good luck

i LOVE all the views on this!!! its pretty insightful. although i'll never really get it, this can better help me to understand. keep em comin!!! i'd love to hear what anyone has to say

see, i respect that.

i do NOT say "OH MY GOD!" every five seconds dude!!! HA!

you've got a POINT, well something that made some sense to me YAY you're right i will NEVER understand it .......

but that doesn't explain WHY!!! haha

And it drives me INSANE!!! I'm looking for a guys perspective on this. Why is it that a guy acts different when he is in front of his friends as opposed to when he's not? We are not 14 anymore and playing those little games. For example, you say "I miss you babe." He says, "I miss you too babe." His friends say, "Oh your "whooped"!" Why do other guys have to tease their friends about their girlfriends? IS it an ego boost thing??? It drives me bonkers haha! I completely understand that your boyfriend isn't going to be all mushy in front of his friends but he doesn't need to act like a butthead and at times act like he doesn't care. Then an hour he calls me when he's alone and it's like a 180! WHYYYYYYYY?!?!?!!?!? Thanks guys!!

everyone goes through stages in their life. some good, and some they regret. im the type of person who believes that everything happens for a reason. i believe that everything that has happened shapes who you are RIGHT NOW. you cannot beat yourself up for the past. there is NOTHING you can do to change it. you need to forget the past (cause its gone) live for the present and look forward to the future. we all go through rough patches. and good for you for getting through it. best of luck : )

nicely said!!! nicely said!!!

I do agree with you 100% on this though. Guys see it differently. i have been friends with my two best male friends for 10 years, we grew up together. to this day there is no attraction. not every male and female have to be attracted to eachother IMO.

I'd say 99% of my friends are guys, and two of which are my best friends and I have very close relationships with. I have one best friend who is a female and a few female aquaitences but that's it. I definetly have more guy friends. I've never thought of my guy friends in any other way but friends and I'm pretty sure we are all on the same level. I find it easier for me to get along with males easier then females. I love my my male friends minds, it amazes me because you look at everything in a different way then you would if they were your significant other. It is definetly POSSIBLE, speaking from experience. As far as it being a problem in a relationship with say my boyfriend I'm just upfront and honest from the start, i'll let my boyfriend know "hey look, so and so is my best friend and it's as far as it goes and that my relationship w/the friend is not going to change." if he has a problem with that, then that is a problem to me. I've never had any problems because I was upfront about it, and my boyfriends have met my male friends. As a matter of fact my current bf is friends w/all my guy friends as well so it works out pretty good. This is just my OP of course.

see i agree, and this is where i stress. if someone is continually doing something to you and you do it back then in some cases they see what they are doing. just like they said its like getting knocked on the head.