Jump to content

sparkle1

Silver Member
  • Posts

    538
  • Joined

  • Days Won

    2

sparkle1 last won the day on November 10 2006

sparkle1 had the most liked content!

About sparkle1

  • Birthday 05/12/1981

sparkle1's Achievements

Proficient

Proficient (10/14)

  • First Post
  • Collaborator
  • Posting Machine Rare
  • Conversation Starter
  • Week One Done

Recent Badges

11

Reputation

  1. Pfffft A lot of women can feel it once a man has cum inside her. It is the intimacy of what is happening, and i for sure can feel the 'sperm' inside me...and like it. All this about babies etc - just check with her that she'd be happy to use the pill or coil before you do it, and that she and you have been checked. No everyone uses condoms!! I think its really great you feel the way you do.
  2. I'd go with ASH on this one. He probably doesn't think you are as open minded about his personal secrets as you may have told him, and is embarressed that he opened up to you so much. Just ignore his behaviour - he'll get over it. If you were FRIENDS he would have spoken to you about it. Maybe there is more of an attraction on his part, which he feels he may have just blown thanks to his disclosure. Either way - it isn't truly your problem....just let things go and it'll soon pass.
  3. I didn't think anything was unusual about your thread or your situation, there are girls and boys out there who are very tuned into their sexuality and their bodies...and there are some who in't got a clue..like your gf. i don't think she is a freak for having never touched herself.....its not as easily accepted as some people on this forum think it is. There is nothing wrong with her - and i think IMO that you're making her feel like she has an issue when she doesn't. I think this is actually exciting for you...you will be her first experience of having someone else touch you and excite you....you should feel honoured that she wants it to be you. This is a different spin on the rest of the guys on here...but that i what i think. Take it slow, and make sure she knows that she is special and unique - not a freak for having never gotten her self off. Sparkle xx
  4. ^^^^ Agree I close my eyes when i am concentrating on my climax....and i hold my breath. i think its because at that moment it feels so amazing, and you need to 'block' out everything else. i would say IMO that if a guy was to be fantasising it would be at the beginning of sex not at the point of climax....as for me, when i am building up to cumming my mind goes absolutely blank. I think you need to CHILL out. Work on your issues, as they are affecting you - and if yo udon't sort them....they will affect your relationship too.
  5. sparkle1

    help!

    But he hasn't replied.... This would reek of desperate to me. Unless you text one more time but leave it for a couple of days first...and put something light hearted....?
  6. IS this after doing anything in particular? i.e shaving? or does it just come and go?
  7. sparkle1

    help!

    Don't text him You were the last to text without him replying, IF you text again you'll be chasing and look needy IMO. Chill out....he's probably busy with his folks etc....people get sucked into life this time of year. Give it another week. IF no contact then you should consider if this is something you wish to persue? x
  8. It all sounds really promising I would TRY and chill out.....otherwise you'll end up coming accross as needy when you're trying not too! She's told you she really likes you - have faith in that! But...give her some space, and let her do a little bit of the running. Don't make it too easy for her.... I'd leave it for a few days...then maybe ping her a light and happy text "hows your week going?".....by this time shes bound to be thinking "i hope he texts!" Don't play mind games....but you need to keep some 'allure' there! Don't worry about the age gap. Enjoy the moment!! Sparkle xx
  9. I think it is hard not to talk about past relationships, as they are part of who we are, and in most cases, we done things with that person that we are proud of (holidays, travelling etc). Also a lot of life experience comes from learning from past relationships. If my other half constantly talked about past relationships then i wouldn't like it very much, and there is never a reason to compare. However, the odd discussion or chat about a time in their life when they happened to be with someone else, is ok. It is hard to think of them with other people, but, its a fact of life and in no way should it make you feel insecure about the relationship. Some people are really good about not talking about ex's, others talk about them lots. Depends on you and them....and make sure you express if it bothers you lots, to your BF how you feel...... Also - with my recent ex, his ex hadn't done certain things with him that i was doing, and he told me as he felt i needed to know why he was so excited!!! in this instance - it was absolutely delightful to hear ;0)
  10. Hang on... WHo said he'd also lied about maritial status? I am saying Betya...we all have pasts. Some worse then others. There are far more crimes out there worthy of 'dumping' a loved one...and IMO this is not one of them. He committed identity fraud a long time ago. And now everything is up to date and ticketty boom. Holding someones mistakes against them forever and a day, would be a very cruel thing to do IMO
  11. i shave cos waxing hurts wayyyyyy tooo much IMO! I don't shave every day - as this will cause irritation. I shave with shaving foam (ladies one for sensitive skin) in the morning, then in the evening i wash with soap other wise the soap will irritate. It will itch as the hair is much corser and grows back very quickly..... Nothing you can do except for ^^^^^^ above.... Oh and maybe stop shaving the whole lot off.....?
  12. In my past relationship it wasn't enough!! Once a week if i was lucky! In previous relationships, every day maybe 2 times a day (dependent on our mutual horniness) This question is soooo open.....can depend on so many factors.
  13. Sparkly, just to confirm for the men (cos i'm confused) Are you asking: 1) what are the signs from a male prospective that a girl likes you? or 2) what are the signs a male give off if he fancies a female? Sparkle x
  14. I think you have security issues here....BIG ones. The text was simply a text. You don't go into detail regarding the breaking up of your BF and his ex - i'm presuming it was amicable? Why wouldn't you 'send to all' in your phone book? why wouldn't they have one anothers numbers? i really struggle with this. Ex's are Ex's. They had there time...and depending on the break up = i.e painful = get rid of number. Amicable = keep number.... I think you should drop it. You got your point accross you weren't happy about the text (which incidentally wasn't his fault for getting - yet he got the bolloking for).... If you want a relationship - a proper relationship, talk to him about your insecurities in a adult way, where he can re assure you of his feelings for you. Don't over react and go mad at him for something that wasn't his fault!
×
×
  • Create New...