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  1. ^^True, life is too short for games, just get it all out.
  2. Its ok and normal what your feeling right now. A breakup is never easy especially when ydou have put your heart into it. Its probably best that you stay away from your EX because you guys are apart for a reason. Also while your in this stage, you can easily be taken advantage of. And the guy you were with after the first guy, being in a relationship right after you broke up? thats crazy. Give yourself time to think and evaluate whats best for you. Thats who you need to be focusing on right now. You. Best of luck ok?
  3. I agree with Driz. Please be careful with this situation because even though you think the 3 yr diff is no big deal now in a year (for you) it can turn into a huge deal. Don't be ashamed of who you are. Remember "think" before you act on things. You don't want to put yourself in a situation where you hate going to school everyday because of certain people and what they say. I know i sound like a mom but.......be careful.
  4. I must admit that its beautiful to have such love for someone but, one things for sure, there is NO REASON to put yourself through this. Its not fair to you that your the sideline and as long as the bf is in the pic then thats unfortunately all you will be. She needs to understand what she's loosing here. Either she can continue in her turbulent relationship with the other dude, or go with someone who will love and respect her. Its as simple as that. Let her know because trust me, going through this day in and day out is seriously NOT healthy for you. I don't sugarcoat it, because lets face it. You need the truth. Try to reeeeealy sit and talk with her but if anything try your hardest to stay away from her if talking doesn't work. No matter what anyone tells you, You have to figure this out. Good luck to you ok?
  5. I know you said the bird was carrying you but, I think the bird represents death taking "her" to the "flight over the city" which displayed the emotions of the people close to her who are hurting due to her loss. Finally after that, she meets one last person. You. The loss of someone close is never easy. I think you need to let yourself mourn. That will help you to get through.
  6. Why thank you I guess i could use one of those. Lord knows i need some (friends that is). Yea it seems like most people just want to help you know either way its a great outlet for people who have no where else to turn. It may seem obtuse(i dunno that word just popped up)to some but hey whatever works.
  7. dude i totally agree. I think the problem with most people is that they can't understand certain situations, so they are a little close minded and short with you. At least when you ask questions on here on just about anything, your given a serious answer. Ha I think this may be my addiction until i make some friends
  8. Sometimes people hide what they feel because they don't want to come to grips with reality. If you feel very strongly about wanting out, it may be the best and healthiest thing (especially since you have children). Before you do that though, have you two talked about it or considered counseling? Be fair to yourselves, there is no use in living a lie if there is no way you can work this out. All the best to you
  9. yea this site is pretty awesome, ive havent seen anything like it. Its awesome to get all types of advice from people who genuinely take the time to give it. Im finally picking up my portfolio and doing something with it to keep my mind busy and motivated. Thank you all so much for your help!
  10. Give him space but at the same time, make it known that when he is ready this is something you two should talk about but your not just going to laying around waiting. You deserve some type of explanation for your own health too. Some people are just afraid that they may not do all of the right things for a good relationship and this is what he may be going through. I hope everything works out.
  11. Thank you im feeling a bit better today. Yea i thought about joining a gym or something, but your suggestions sound great. My only thing is, im pretty bad at socializing (too shy for my own good). Like if someone comes up tome or says hi its all good but for some reason i find it hard to just go up to people and start a convo. You know how people stick to thier own clique. Then again, nobody knows me so i guess there is nothing to loose.
  12. i guess so, shoulda thought about that. thanks
  13. Today, I think I crashed. I moved to another state to pursue getting back in to school after i finished college. I knew that as soon as i found this school that i just had to be there. I also thought that i would meet some new people too since I didnt know anyone. Well to make a long story short, I wasnt able to start because of finances, and its almost been a year and I still don't know anyone and no unfortunately thats not an exaggeration. I don't bar hop or club cause that stuff is just unattractive to me. Besides, wheres the fun when your alone? Today i just felt like all of my desire and determination is gone. Hell I felt like if this keeps going on for any longer, one day it might get so bad that I might not make it to 25 (im 23 btw). I also feel like I cant call anyone because everyone is caught up in thier own lives so i mean whats the point? What could they possibly say that I havent already heard already? I seriously think im bipolar or something. Sometimes I have to take sleeping pills just to fall asleep sometimes (I dont overdose or anything). I just think too much, anxiety perhaps? I don't know. Despite all of this I have alot to offer and I think im a beautiful person (at least thats what people tell me so Id say its true but its like im in an ocean so close to the surface but im still drowning. *tears* i don't know
  14. I agree completely. I have alot to think about........yikes
  15. very true. Thank you so much for your time and advice. I think this would be best for the both of us.
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