SayinWhatUWont

Well Hello again Secret_agent_man.....How ya doing???...... Indeed what makes is so exciting, so damn fun is the thrill of the risk involved.. Indeed the RISK can be quite REWARDING.......

IMO trying to keep quiet is what makes it soooo goodddd.........he-he :sleeping:

Hey E Fam.........Hope you all are doing well in these crazy times.....Thats another story.... And welcome girly69..... May I ask your age??

Hello again Enotalone Family ........ And Welcome "the seventh seal" Not trying to be funny, but what makes you believe that "Most people masturbate daily"............

Good Morning fenstrt and since this is the first time I have seen your name....Welcome to the E_Fam... Well of course there are all the basics top, bottom, side, doggie....ya know basics....... anyway you are going to have to take the time out to explore her body if ya want to know what's really going on..... .True people will tell you, but hey people will tell ya anything now a days so GET YOUR GEAR TOGETHER, NO EXPLORATIONS ALLOWED WITHOUT JIMMIE HATS ......... no need for a map .....her body will tell ya which way to travel .... and don't miss an inch because you'll never find out just how much SEXUAL SATISFACTION you could have with your partner unless you study, and EXPLORE............ Take mental notes and don't get them twisted....lol Good luck Sweetie............

Your guy will love ya for it..........LOLOLOLOLOL

How old are you guys????? Boy I don't know where to start and I a to tired to really get detailed.. For me physical masterbation does nothing for me.........Now that MENTAL, SOULFUL, damn.... That MENTAL CONNECTION that my heart desires more than the touch. Don't get me wrong. If the object of these desires was near trust and believe that I would put it on his azz and go....... Though we realize we will never "connect" again, that mental thing remains......(as far as sex)and sadly I now realize that SEX was our strongest connection.............. In any event, Try doing set's of Kegal..(look it up or ask your OB) once ya get use to that then just say maybe u r driving home from work....it's kinda warm out.......ur tired but your baby pop's into your head..............If ya can start from there and you have a strong enough mental connection with your lover.........................Trust me.......1 orgasm will be a laughing matter............................ It takes practice but it will be well worth it........ Peace Sweeties................... TT

EHN YOUR LIFE WAS LOW.................. BETTE MIDLER

To elaborate on the initial post.......HAVE YOU EVER MET SOMEONE WHO WAS RAISED TO BE A LIAR... PARENTS ALWAYS LET THINGS SLIDE OR BLAMED ON SOMEONE ELSE BECAUSE "tHAT'S MY BABY"....., FRIENDS AND CO-WORKERS LET THINGS SLIDE TOO.. ..... NO HOMETRAINING ......NEVER TAUGHT TO BE A MAN OR A WOMAN....... hope now its clear foxxy...... Hello ENotalone family..... Pop Quiz Ladies and Gents..... Have Ya ever had the horror of meeting a person, male or female, who is an "Officer of the Law, A Soldier, or Community "Sweetheart" who's entire existence is lived out like a game of charades???? IOW....JUST A LIAR?????? To the point where they believe that everyone else is lying, crazy, "is putting words in my mouth", "saying things I never said", and the ever so popular "YOUR PUSHING ME AWAY" ...... When whatever lie they have told catches up to them then they ADMIT NOTHING....DENY EVERYTHING..."You can even put this person in a situation where the truth is presented to the courts(with a conviction), friends, family.....they still deny........... I believe that people with this ILLNESS relates to everyperson in their life a diffrent version of how rich, popular, just damn fly they are.....when in all actuality they are actually lost due to the fact that soon they must run yet again................ Let ya girl know how many others have been cursed with these earthly LUCIFER'S?????????

And that is a problem because???????????????????????????????? Sounds like natural juices and air"farts" Enjoy it.

good and bad........

Howdy Unwanted86.......... Listen sweetie, please trust and believe that 99% of humans go through this 'UNBEARABLE" stage of being a teenager. I promise you there will be other girls, and women that will be more than happy to be your girlfriend. Baby she was just your first, and the 2nd, 3rd, 4th..........are not far behind. Everybody, well the majority of us "Fall in Love" with the first person who really shows that "special" kind of interest in us.....Hey it's a given. But like I said, there will be others...... What has happened?? Sadly it's a first too. 1st Broken heart....I can be rapaired or replaced with proper care... What I'm trying to say is, you 1st MUST start caring about yourself (appearance, (looking nice on the outside makes some people feel better on the inside). The all Black clothes must go also.. It so drab and will keep you in that drab space.... It's summer....Get some nice (colored)shirts and shorts......Get outside, go to the movies, the beach, rollerblading...whatever just GET OUT AND SEE THE OTHER THINGS IN LIFE BESIDES THE EX.......And as far as physical looks are concerned.....You are going through puberty....We all will do, are going through or have done it.....no big deal...In the next few years you will probably go from what you think you are(the ugly duckling), to THE FINEST PRINCE......So just be patient and take care of yourself during this transition stage............ This post probably doesn't have much to do with "Love" except maybe not "lving" myself or something. Your feelings have EVERYTHING TO DO WITH LOVE, and you said it right...LOVE YOURSELF FIRST AND FOREMOST..DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE IS THINKING........ IF IT HELPS...GOD LOVES YOU AND I DO TOO....... GOOD LUCK SWEETIE.....AND BELIEVE THAT YOU WILL AGAIN SMILE, HAVE FUN WITH YOUR FRIENDS, WEAR BRIGHT CLOTHES AND BEST OF ALL....................YOU WILL LOVE AGAIN AND BE LOVED TO A LEVEL YOU HAVEN'T EVEN EXPERIENCED YET..................

As Always.......Hello Enotalone Fam.... And Welcome Ms. Boop.......I am going to TRY to be nice....k... Here we go: October 25 of last year you LOVED THIS ARTICLE..... Thinking about committing adultery? Adultery happens when one person in a romantic relationship is married. Both people do not have to be married but both people involved in the relationship are adulterers. By Mark Goulston, M.D.There are no positive reasons for dating a married man. Even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas' clothing. If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap: 1. He won't commit to a future with you. A man who is in a very unhappy or unsatisfying marriage can feel swept away by how wonderful you make him feel. He may even blurt out, "I've never felt this way before and I can see spending the rest of my life with you." This may sound like a commitment to a future with you. It's not. Don't confuse his loving the way you make him feel with his loving you and making a commitment to you. 2. Cheating on his wife tells you how he deals with any situation he doesn't like. You are evidence of his avoiding dealing with unpleasant situations head on. This means that he's likely to resort to some devious behavior with you if the two of you encounter relationship problems. 3. Hiding is exhausting. Having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship. Walking together freely and radiantly through the world can fill you with the glow of being with someone who is proud to be with you. 4. He's got his cake and is eating it, too. He has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what he's missing in his marriage. As appreciative as he sounds, many women who are involved with married men come to resent his having the best of both worlds, when she has the least. 5. Can you love someone who is so disrespectful of his wife? The existence of your relationship with a married man tells you how little he respects his wife by lying to her instead of being a man and telling her he wants out. 6. Lose his respect and it's over. Even though he's the one who pursued you. Even though he's the one that made it difficult to say "No." And even though he tells you how wonderful you are. At some level, he's going to have trouble respecting you for settling for such a flawed relationship. Like the Groucho Marx joke, "He may not want to be of a relationship that would have him as a partner." 7. You're not a home wrecker, just an accomplice. Like it or not, you are a willing participant in a man violating his vows and betraying the trust of his wife -- not to mention grossly disappointing his children and making it difficult for them to see him as a role model. 8. You're kidding yourself. Despite his reassuring you how much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship with his wife in an above-board and respectful way -- and not beginning a legitimate relationship with you -- are actions that speak louder than words. 9. Beware the guilt boomerang. Many men (and women) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions. Human nature finds it easier to blame than to accept shame. If he is caught by his wife or conscience, don't be surprised if he tries to blame you and get you to take the fall. 10. Time is too precious to waste. Ever notice how quickly the years go by as you get older? Because it's convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married man can go on for a long time -- and before you know it, eat up the precious time you might have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of flourishing. When people who have been involved with married men finally move on, they often regret having wasted the time in a dead-end affair. ************************************************************ You can't. We women just can't control our feelings once we're in love. If you don't already want him all to yourself, it won't take long before you do. So remind yourself of this: "nice and wonderful" men don't cheat on their wives. He may be telling you the truth, but he's lying and sneaking around at home. Married men can be so charming; they leave all their nastiness at home with their wives and you only see the good side. I've had a couple of those kinds of relationships myself. Both times, I wound up broken hearted and the man stayed married. If you're smart, you'll learn from my experience, and get out now. If you're the kind of person who only learns from her own experience, you'lLprobably hang around until the bitter end -- until his wife finds out, or until he finds another playmate. Meanwhile, you're facing years of being alone on holidays and handling crises without help. Of course, you're probably hoping he's going to divorce his wife and marry you. But is that really what you want? To switch roles and become the one he's lying to while he's having honest pillow talk with someone else? (Believe me, men rarely change their patterns.) Even if he suddenly becomes true-blue, you'll never have him all to yourself; he'll have lifelong obligations to his former wife and family. You deserve a man of your own, and your child deserves a real family. Tell the married man you're breaking up with him, get back into dating, and get busy with other things. It may be hard at first, because you've fallen for this guy, but the surest way to get over him is to find someone else who can be all yours......... Then you have the nerve to come back June 2003 with this BS... Posters like you need your own room with this crap....... Either shit or get off the pot.......... Son't ask for advise for something you already know the answers to and then try to get smart and talk crazy to the people that try to help you. As I have told YOU before.......Stop playing these childish games for attention. And by the 7891 views of EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOUR post..... Jeez Man........There are people here with problems they are really try to deal with....It's SHAME ON THE ROOM for allowing her game to continue (and not in this Forum alone) I wish you all the luck. Luck is what you will need when you run into the wrong one be it the man you won't leave, his wife, THEIR kids........... God be with you while you keep skippin through the days like a LITTLEGIRL.....God Forbid you are FORCED TO deal with that same man as the woman his wife is....And trust that the majority of the crap he tells you about her is so not true.......... I think you need to read you own advise again and STOP THE BULLSHIT AND GROW UP....................

Give me a min to gather personal info...... boy......i'll get back on this one.....Sorry In my experience, I believe you must have a serious talk with your mate in order to determine if THEY ARE READY to do something about it before you will be able to move forward.. If they are not willing to atleast try to make an honest effort FOR THEMSELVES, it will never work....So the ultimate decision is theirs as far as they addiction, yours as far as stayin in a relationship that may never survive...... Good luck for now, keep your head up and stay strong. Dont push him/her though...it may make it worse.....

Hey amarynad17.... IMO cheating is anything (and i do mean anything) that you would not want your partner to do, say, touch, smell.........................ANYTHING Though I am a female, I have always had male friends mainly. I keep a smile on my face listening and watching the BS they dish out and receive from their women. And when it's all said and done I ask. If your daughter, sister, or mother told you that some guy did the exact same to them, how would you feel?? 80% of the time I get some dry azz answer, but I see and feel that they know they are wrong......... Follow axe03's advise and get ready for more drama in ya life... (Sorry axe03 ) Reacting on emotions is not good........ Give him an ultimatium and STICK WITH IT. Just don't present it until you are sure you will be able to either forgive and forget or tell him to GET HIS SHIT AND MOVE IN WITH THEM. Bringing her husband into it is not advised but encouraged if the circumstances permit...... Good Luck and Stay strong.....show weakness and he will continue to step all over you......