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  1. ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( HUGGLES))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) BTW, you look absu freaking lutely sexy on that B&W new avatar. Wow and rawr.
  2. I don´t like being seen. I´m shy as heck. To the extreme of fantasizing that I´m doing it with a blind dude. For some reason it´d SOOOOO liberating. Dang.
  3. Hey, I completely feel you. I feel like a jerk now, hearing that you´ve gone thru that sever illness and have to deal with all that colostomy nightmare... While I´m here, feeling miserable just because I have crappy skin, thunder thighs and zero boobs. Owie... sorry to hear that. Does it help if you do it in complete darkness? That sure would help me. But I think many guys can´t take it. The want to SEE SEE SEE. Annoying, really.
  4. So stop it! Yeah, you have what movies, TV, society says any girl your age is supposed to be happy with. Surprise, surprise, what society expects is not always the best thing for every person. Even if you were the princess of a small country, if that´s not for you, you´re gonna be miserable for the rest of your princessy life. Period. Even if all you´re kingdom keeps repeating over and over that you should be the happiest woman alive. That´s it? "I can´t do it because I don´t have the funds" ??? You need to be more creative than that. I warn you, I´m gonna be a wee bit blunt here: with the money you spend in luxury items, pet care and cellphone messages, I´d manage to go to work, live and travel to another country for a couple of years and get away from this place that I hate as much as you hate Michigan. Are you absolutely sure you don´t have the funds? What you really don´t have is the will of working hard in order to figure out how to get what you want with the resources you have at hand right now. There´s no other way, you´re not gonna find a suitcase with 3 million dollars, nor Stavros Niarchos is gonna come knocking at your door with an engagement ring. It is all up TO YOU. Be humble enough to admit that your "I don´t have the funds" does not cut it, there´s more to life than funds. Your brain is your most important asset. You need to be willing to get out of your comfort zone, go out there and be really uncomfortable, a lot of times that´s what it takes to make your wishes come true. You are too busy craving for spending eternity with some dude... Perhaps it´d be more productive if you´d get busy for a while analyzing why do you want it so bad. Why do you want it so bad? The dilemma is not whether or not they come to you (sometimes you are lucky and you find them, some other times they find you, some others you may take chances and meet as many guys as you can... there are no rules), the big question is, why do you feel like you should find someone to settle down with? Sometimes the boyfriend is only a distraction for avoiding having to deal with your own self and all the lose ends, all the internal conflicts and doubts. And I´m affraid I´m gonna be blunt again... As troubled as you are right now, having a relationship is only gonna be like adding more fuel to the fire. It might distract you at time from your misery but it´s certainly not the cure. You are your own cure Jen. You have to face the demons, better sooner than later. You already have all the resources to enlighten your own self. We all do. Just have the balls and the will to start using them for your own good.
  5. No, it is NOT wonderful. You keep assuming you have everything that is "supposed" to make you happy. It's obvious that everything you have is not what truly makes you happy, even if everyone around keeps insisting you have no reason to feel miserable. Look into your soul. YOU DO HAVE A REASON TO FEEL UNHAPPY, AND YOU HAVE TO FIGURE OUT WHAT IS IT. What truly makes Jen happy? What provides you with joy and peace of mind? Obviously, is not swimming and is not college. What do you feel passionate about? You cannot start figuring things out from the outside. The outside looks great, and it is "supposed to be" what everyone craves for. But it's obviously not working for you. Look inside, try to find the answer to all that fundamental questions instead of insisting that you "should" be elated with the life you have now. It is OK if you are not. But try to invest your energies in questioning what you really want out of life, instead of wasting them on feeling horrible about the things everyone thinks that are supposed to fulfill you.
  6. Pppfffffffff, dream on, dream on. Have I met someone, nope. I called someone, and he was just as nice on the phone as he is online. Does that count for something?
  7. What "type" of girs have that problem?
  8. I do that 24/7. One of my favorite activities. Another of my favorite activities. Yep, been there done that. I think I did that on my teens... So do I. I do have that kind of times... Incomprehensible to a woman? I think prostitutes get it like really well. What about heterosexual one night stands? Go to crazy parties at the beach. Several girls there are also into the in-out without any other involvement whatsoever... Again, FEMALE prostitutes get that really well. But bottomline, is not that difficult to understand, is not rocket science. Is not like having ovaries makes me unable to understand. So do girls. And JFTR, I'm a gal.
  9. Depends on the scars. Extreme disfiguring scars scare the crap out of most people (I'm not saying this is right or nice, but that's the way it is). Of course I would wonder and try to determine by observation what kind of scars are they. If I found the guy attractive since the beginning, no, they would not be repulsive. And yeah, at some point I would ask him what happened. Is not something you can easily ignore, like tattooes or piercings.
  10. I think he has the right to go lap dancing clubs, brothels, orgies, swing parties. The same way I have the right to walk away and find someone else that is not into that.
  11. These are not only love songs. That messages are stuck in the cultural psyche.
  12. "Love lift us up where we belong" "All you need is love" "I was made for loving you baby" "I'm gonna love you forever" We live in a love-freak culture don't we? When you get it (or think you got it) you can't live with it. When you don't have it, you can't live without it either. Either way is a major drama. Wouldn't it be nice to find someone really attractive, single, with everything you're looking for, great sense of humor, who you can be yourself around with and a nice tight butt? Well yes. Am I willing to invest a huge part of my energy, efforts and resources in the colosal quest of finding that person? Eerrrrrhhh, call me a selfish feminazi empty lazy biatch, but the answer is, not really. When I was younger, it was probably my ultimate caprice to find my "blue prince" and it never happened. I thought it was something you should leave to destiny perhaps, but I learnt the harsh way that: - I was actually supposed to define first exactly what I was looking for, - That I was supposed to define what I was willing to "invest" - That settling is never a good idea - That is O.K. to say "sorry, no" even when you know the other person is gonna feel rejected and disenchanted (Note for my inner attention ho: is not the end of the world if someone stops liking you, is not like you are losing something precious or anything really...) To hear all that horror stories of love drama, jealousy, extreme passion, obsession, struggling for keeping no contact... just pisses me off. Like what's the point?
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