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  1. can you see a sex therapist or buy ur bf some books??
  2. one word : baggage. She has a lot to deal with right now in life and I'm thinking she is stressed out and she may not be ready to commit.
  3. is he breathing properly? perhaps sometimes nausea is caused by lack of oxygen
  4. have you asked her on her views of sex? is she religious? perhaps her parents said sex is bad etc.. Maybe she has something hidden in her past that she doesn't want to let you know about. Also it sounds like she doesnt' see sex as an intimate thing to share with you, especially if you are to marry. Not sure how you can change her views on that. Perhaps look up dr.phil articles? I found one for you. There are so many on that site that deal with this issue. link removed
  5. sounds like your depressed. Perhaps your mixing around with the wrong crowd as well?
  6. take a break, maybe u guys spend too much time with each other so it gets boring
  7. sex isn't everything in a relationship. Remember that. You both will be growing old and other things other than sex are more important. So I wouldn't end it with her b/c of that. Your hormones do settle down though when u get older. I don't think you should be pushing for sex, coz she'll just push you away. As for the vacation thing, personally if I was staying at someone's home I'd feel uncomfortable having sex. It's just for respect. You can look at it in a different angle that it's a time to spend and relax with someone you love ( you don't have to expect sex). heh just try to control yourself, as cardinal said. Take control of your body, don't let your body control you.
  8. haha maybe he's a virgin!! or he's super scared. There goes that saying "talk is cheap" Personally, he shouldn't be saying those things to you if he's not ready. It's just leading you on and you should ask him what is going on. Sounds like games to me. Do you guys kiss or make out? at least that.
  9. hey at least u can look it in a more positive light, that after 6 years of dating, he's still very much attracted to you
  10. perhaps he should understand that sex isn't everything in the relationship. I guess the object is sex. If no sex = not wanted. He has to change his reasoning. If he's breaking up over b/c of sex, that's just silly. I don't know but seems like he has a different view than you. Find some articles on that subject and show him.
  11. can u buy her some books on how to be romantic? is she busy around the house or has a job that takes up her time? perhaps she might be the old fashioned lady that the man does all the intiating and likes that
  12. hrmm.yeah my bf asks me the say thing " why don't u intiate it?" and i gave almost the exact answer as ur gf. I guess i like it that way or i view that the man does the job. so i dunno..maybe that's what she thinks as well? or perhaps u can just tell her u like it when she intiates coz its hot..something like that.
  13. perhaps you can set up a romantic date for her? or even take a bath together and have candles around. or you can be like, i like it when you take charge in bed etc... blah blah.. but honestly, school and work does take a toll on a person ( stress = lower sex drive). there's so much more to do in life than just sex. heh
  14. heh yah, sometimes guys can just get hard holding a girl's hand or even a hug. depends..i think it's normal. He's probably thinking of something more than a kiss when he kisses you.
  15. just a thought..is his porn becoming an addiction and replacing you? Not sure if you should ask someone if they want to get freaky..My bf always asks me " do u want to play?" i get so annoyed with it b/c it seems like i am an object.
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