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  1. 2 year old thread =/
  2. From the time I started dating my girlfriend (over 1.5 years ago), I can count the number of times that we HAVENT slept in the same bed together on two hands. Nothing beats the feeling falling asleep and waking up next to your loved one.
  3. jsx730

    No "O"

    Can you just make yourself orgasm with your hand while having sex? This is the only way my girlfriend can come through intercourse. I don't think it's abnormal. Certainly don't tell him you've been faking. Just start working your hand down there during the deed.
  4. I'm going through the same thing with my gf, only I'm on the submissive end. As someone else said, I spend all day/week in control of my life, it's really nice to be able to trust someone to take that control away from me. The simplest advice has already been given. Just be confident. If you want something, take it. If you want me to do something, make me. Don't second guess yourself. Theres going to be times, especially in the beginning, where there will be akward laughs. Who cares? Just go with it. Safe words are important. I setup 2. One for saying "Ok, tone it down, that went a little too far." And then one for "Wow, way over the top, get out of 'Yes, Mistress' mode and come cuddle me." Most importantly, just have fun with it. It's not even just about sex, so tease him a bit with it during the day (not around others though, unless he's into that =P) and just make it fun.
  5. Some people just have a general dislike for PDA. No matter where it is. One of my girlfriend's friend's fiance is like that. He's gotten better, but you won't see anything more then a peck out of him.
  6. Just don't feel pressured into doing it. If you have a solid relationship, the oppurtunity will be there as long as you need it. Have you done anything else with this girl? Or are you just jumping straight to intercourse? Getting to know each other's bodies beforehand can really relieve alot of the nervousness and tension.
  7. jsx730

    No "O"

    First: Learn to make yourself "O" reliably. If you can't do it, you can't expect him to. Second: Don't stress over it. If it happens it happens. Third: Like previously stated, orgasm from penetration alone is not likely. So, try masturbating while having intercourse.
  8. I had speech class about 2 semesters ago. Like most people, I was extremely nervous about it. One thing the teacher did that made it easier was not allowing us to use notecards or read word for word off of a powerpoint. I know this sounds like it makes it harder, but in reality it makes it easier if you know how to go about it. DO NOT: Memorize a speech. Read word for word off of notecards. Rely on a powerpoint or other textual aid. DO: Establish a common ground w/ audience. Make the subject relevant to them (even if it doesnt directly affect them.) Know what you are talking about. Seriously. This is key. TALK TO THE AUDIENCE. Look at it as a conversation.
  9. I'm a guy, so I'd never say no to more, but 3-4 per week is a pretty good spot. Less and I start to get bothered by it unless I'm really busy. Unfortuneatly, ebtween Full Time work and Half Time college, I cound my blessings when I get it 3 times a week, usually happens 1-2 time atm.
  10. Keep in mind that weight isn't necessarily fat. Have you thought about building a bit of muscle? With a good diet and a solid cardio routine, you should fall right where you need to be, and you can try for a little muscle definition to fill in the gaps. Skinny doesn't necessarily mean attractive. For Example: I'm ~5'9" and 150lbs. I pretty much stay at 150lbs whether I keep my stomach defined or not. 150lbs with a little muscle definition makes me look 15x more attractive then it's current state (girlfriend named my stomach "Bubba" lol!). The easiest thing to do, depending on yoru situation, is to run on a regular basis, eat healthy, and do some situps, pushups, and leg lifts for deinfition.
  11. This is complete crap. With the exception of possible STDs (can be known with a test you both should get anyways...), how does her number of partners have anything to do with her suitability as a partner?
  12. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 1.5 years. She is my first, I'm her second. We just had a discussion about this yesterday. I really don't think it's abnormal at all. Especially when you're so young. It all comes down to your willingness to make it work.
  13. I dunno, it could be a red flag, or he could have just been a little too into the phone sex. I would worry about his actions more then his words. Just because he's excited about sex doesn't mean he isn't interested in the rest of the package.
  14. I would say that if, on either side, there would be even a HINT of jealousy or insecurity, it's a bad idea. Are you ok watchin him have sex with another woman? Is he ok watching you with another woman? Also, it's important that your relationship is 100% ok in all areas. If your realtionship is having problems, this will just create more. It can be done but ground rules need to be set down beforehand and need to be followed 100%.
  15. Best way to explore it would probably be to have him dress up for you. Chances are he never would have told you if you hadn't sorta brought it up. It is possible to keep things like this to yourself and not let them affect any other aspect of your relationship. Don't sweat it, see if you can have fun with it, and if not, ask him to keep it to himself.
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