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  1. Na Zhang
    I completely understand your feeling. I was in the same situation. When the exs told us that they still love us but isn't in lovw with. Please remember this is end. Please not contact your ex anymore, otherwise you never can get over your ex. I made a big mistake to talk with my ex after breaking, so I am still hurting badly after one year. No matter what cause your breaking up, you have to realize that you ex doesn't have the same feeling for you now.
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    You can try to talk to a therapist and get some suggestions from them.Sometimes people feel disappointed after see a therapist because they have too much expectation for therapists.The pain from our hearts can't be heal by pills.My therapist suggested me to do some exercise to reduce some pain and force on something esle so that you may forget your suffering. Keep a optimistic attitude to your life and believe you can control your own life.If you have something more important than your ex in your life, try to work hard for it. Then you will force on yourself and overcome the pain.
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    I always want to go abroad,but I gave up many good opportunities for my ex.Now I can choose to go anywhere if I want.I am free.I can spend my rest of life on fulfilling my dream.I don't need to consider his future or his decision. I can date other handsome men.I can be myself and know more people.
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    I have been tired of being played by my exboyfriend.When I stoped talked with him,he came to miss me and close to me.Once I wanted more or came to him,he would back or gave me amphibolous answer. I gave my whole heart to him,he return me only pains and tears.I am smart,pretty,kind-hearted and special,but he can't see me anymore.If people want something which they can't get,my exboyfriend doesn't want me now.Because He knows that he can have me if he want,or he doesn't have the desire for me anymore. I don't know how some people's love can last forever.However I realise that when the love is gone,not expect the love would come back.You can't expect somebody fall in love with you or control somebody's feeling. I believe that there are so many wonderful men in the world.So I want to say goodbye to my ex.We should learn forget the past and not care the ex.
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    Something I want to tell you,but I choose to type down on this website. Our love had dead,but you are still in my heart.However,you and the love hurt me so much. I can only remember all the pain and tears.You are really not my sweethear,instead you like poison which is eroding my life.I never want to back those days.I want to over this nightmare. Here I swear I will never look back or get back with you.I hate you and never want to be with you.
  6. Na Zhang
    Today is 1st December.I had a last talk with my exboyfriend on phone. He messaged me last night and invited me to his place watch moive.I didn't reply.And he called later. I was crying to tell him"I think we had better keep No Contact" He said"Ok,if this what you want" I continue"I love you so much and want to spend my rest of life with you.But I respect your decision of not wanting to be with me,I accpect fact that you aren't in love with me.So I want to let you go.I want to keep you as my friend,but not right now.We need disappear from each other's life." He said"I want to keep you in my life.I miss you so much." I asked again"Do you really not love me at all?I just want to hear at last time." He answered"I still love you and care about you a lot,but not in love with you" I just wanted to emphasize that"I make this decision of NC today,because there is nothing I can do to get back with you.You are the one left me.So I don't have anything to regret.I respect the destiny.Let nature take its course." We broke up on 10th April,at that moment I had known He had fallen out of love.I tried so hard to get back with him.Being friends didn't work at work.He even promised me we could get back together if we started as friend again. There is nothing I can do right now.Let it go and start a new life.
  7. Na Zhang
    My ex olny took his love from me.He couldn't take my soul,my dream and my passion to my future.I told myself I can be strong.I couldn't stop thinking about him every second.But I still try my best not to. I used to only hand out with my ex and didn't have any friends.But now I forced myself to make friends.Tonight I said hi to a girl who I hadn't talked with for 3 years because I was angry with her.I called my frist boyfriend and asked him to have a walk with me on weekend nights.I try to talk and smile to those people I didn't want to.I will meet more and more my old friends.I feel I need friends and people to talk right now.I need to feel better without my ex.
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    This is my second day of NC.I didn't go to the forum of getting back togather.Bcause I reliaze that as long as we keep the idea of getting back,we never can be healed.What we need do is stop all the thoughts about getting back or missing ex.Even try to forget your pain. I had kept being friend with my ex after broke up.Bcause My ex told me we could get back by rebuilding the friendship.At last,he found out that it didn't work.His feeling for me can't change.I hurt so much! I told myself that this need change.I need get over him.I thought I have to take NC.I look forwards that day which I don't him and don't want to him back happen. The bid reasone I still love him is becasue I still live in the memory.I need forget those past.I feel I don't want to be hurt.
  9. Na Zhang
    I don't it's hard to let it go.But we are the only person who can give us the happy.It is a big risk to look for the happy from another people.Plus,there are some many wonderful think besides love in the world.We need creat our own happiness. If we look for the answer from our ex,we only can be hurt.I keep saying I love you to my ex since we broke up.I know I never can get same response from him.Why I need say that,why I still do this stuip thing.My sad feeling isn't created by him,which is caused by myself. I am learning from my mistakes.We want the different thing after he stopped loving me.I have to stop my expectation to him,otherwise I only get hurt.He isn't hurting me.I hurt myself.Why I am doing that?No!I want to become the person to give myself the happy.
  10. Na Zhang
    I haven't had any contact with my exboyfriends for two days.(I am not doing NC.I just try not to contact him.)But I feel pretty good.I am thinking about more about my future when I am alone.I really have a feeling that let it go. I had been through a very hard time.I think it's very normal for everybody to have a depression time after break up.But don't let it last too long. I am learning a lot from my breaking up.I learn that appreciate what I have not to think about what I lose.I am 22 years old this year.I don't want to waste of time on this man.I am looking forward to my wonderful future.I still feel hurt a lot when I realize that he doesn't love me and don't care about.But I try not to think that. I want the happiness.I want myself to become a person who always smile and have fun.Many times I wanted to end my life because of him.But thinking about if I close my eyes,I won't see the whole and the real Mr.Right.He maybe not the one in my life.It's just one door close to me.The life is short.Why we need spend all time and energy on how to get back with our ex. Let it go!Be happy!
  11. Na Zhang
    I had posted my story many times.My situation is my exboyfriend hopes to get back with me,but not right now.He hopes we start as friends and take a slow steps to get back.He said only when he feel I can think about his feeling and feel comfortable to date me,which we will get back. He doesn't know when this will happen and how it happen.He just said we both need make effort to work on it,which is friendship right now.He always said relatioship don't exsit without friendship. I still feel love him and miss him so much everyday.I still feel hurt.I learn that I shouldn't look for the hope and sign of getting back.I think if i lose the feeling for him and get over him will help me.I hope we can back to when we frist date,we were at the same level and equal. I don't want to do NC,sorry for those people gave me this suggestion.I want to wait for that day happen and try to move on.
  12. Na Zhang
    I like your reply.Thank you.
  13. Na Zhang
    In my situation,my ex does give me the hope.I really want to get back with him.My ex said the only effort I can do is working hard on friendship.
  14. Na Zhang
    My exboyfriends hopes to get back with me,but he doesn't know when we can get back.He said the reason he fall out the love from me is my problems.Once he feel I won't hurt him anymore and won't only think about my feeling anymore,we will get back.He doesn't want to date me now.He asks me to wait and take steps to get back.We start over,begin with the friendship and the date,then get back.Only when he feels comfortable,he will start to date me.If I want to get back with him,I need trust him.But it drive me crazy.I wonder if there any effort to make to get back with him.There are some link to my stories.
  15. Na Zhang
    I know my emotions is changing.On the one hand,I love him so much and want to get back with him.On the other hand,I try to live without him and move on.Is there anyone believe we can get back?
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