VIRGOLDY
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Very very good points. Thank you for your thoughtful input
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Thanks SG. Yeah i was thinking that too. Kind of like the rubber band theory. I'm trying not to chase, or try to find out what happened even though it sucks waiting. Thanks again.
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And for the record, I think you've handled this whole situation with much more class and dignity than you give yourself credit for. You're gonna be fine. Hang in there.
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ebsmith, don't be so hard on yourself. The holidays are tough for EVERYONE. The guy hurt you, and he was a cad, but at least he isn;t stringing you along, like many ex'es do. It sounds like he does care for you, and I know that's a small consolation, but compared to all the jerks out there, that's saying a lot.
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Is it normal for someone to diasappear or freak out for a few days after showing their feelings for you? Has anyone done this, and how long before you felt ok again? What's the best way to handle someone like this? Just wait for them to come back? Help.Thanks
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day 6 guys i needyour help...getting clouded
VIRGOLDY replied to kickedin's topic in Breaking Up Advice
Kicked I notice yu keep saying you KNOW she;s doing this or that....but yet it's like you are wanting to justify her behavior in some way. Why?? All you need are the facts. She ISN'T calling you, texting you, emailing you, smoke signaling you. What else is there to figure out? She's gone. Let her figure out her issues on her own. All that is going to do is drag you down and keep you stuck. Life is short dude. Go be happy. -
I posted earlier about finding my ex'es profile on MYSPACE and it seemed suspicious. Turns out i was right. I emailed him and he said he was not aware it was there..and said he thinks his ex put it up.
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LOL.....I am far froma stalker...and if that's his perception, then that's HIS issue. Not mine
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I see your point.I assure you I am NOT "tracking" OR "stalking' him. If I were I WOULDN;T tell him about it.
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YES ANNIE, and we cleared that up.
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Ummm why is THAT an issue? I was just curious. It doesn;t make me a stalker because I checked to see if he had a profile.
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The fact he ISN'T the type to be on MYSPACE is WHY I am wondering if its legitimate. I am not looking for a "reason" to contact him. I don;t NEED a reason. I could just contact him if that's what I wanted. This is being completely twisted into something it isn't.
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Oh and..if I were stalking him I certainly wouldn't TELL him I was looking his name up.
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How can you "stalk" someone on a public forum???? sheesh...
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Nah..it's not unusual to search for friends on MySpace. I see nothing wrong with it. As I said, we aren;t on bad terms...no reason for him to be creeped out by me.