BrokenWingedFaery

"But just wait, if you continue with your anorexic lifestyle, your period will stop completely." Actually, this isn't entirely true. It's possible to get pregnant even without a period. Granted, it's rare and usually ends in miscarriage.

^ Me too. What's going on BTR?

What Outercourse Is and How It Works For some people, outercourse is sex play without vaginal intercourse. For others, it is sex play with no penetration at all — oral, anal, or vaginal. Some people also believe that any kind of penetrative sex play is too risky to be called "safer sex." But many people do have oral and anal sex — sometimes to avoid pregnancy or to "preserve their virginity" — so we include them here. (from Planned Parenthood) So, it depends on who you ask.

I don't know that those terms are any clearer than the more definate terms. Define what constitutes outer/intercourse?

If the word SEX is in the activity's name, it's sex (anal SEX, oral SEX, vaginal SEX, manual SEX). Also, if you're doing something with a partner that involves the stimulation of sexual organs, it's probably sex. But in the end, it doesn't matter. You and your partner make up the only definition that truly matters and honesty is always the best policy.

"Blood chokes" are just as dangerous as "air chokes". Lack of blood to the brain=lack of oxygen to the brain, since blood carries oxygen=BAD.

Eeep, this is actually VERY dangerous. You could crush her trachea, do major damage to her throat and vocal cords. You're also cutting off oxygen to the brain, which can cause gradual brain damage if you're doing this alot. It's very very very dangerous to cut off someone else's breathing, particularly if you're doing it during sex, when you're distracted and might not notice if she passes out, or shows other signs of distress. At the very least, if you're going to do this, make sure it's in a well lit area and you keep a phone near by to call for help if something happens. Also, legally, this is tricky. It'd be a good idea to make sure that you get written, signed, and notarized (sp?) consent to this activity, just in case your grrrlfriend gets seriously injured/dies and you end up in court.

anna: I wouldn't know about tub faucets, since I live in an RV, hence no tub.

I meditate alot. It's always been easy for me to "blank out".

If you have a hand held showerhead, that's the best thing ever.

You spread the wax WITH the grain, and then rip the strip off AGAINST the grain.

^ That's what I read too.

No wonder so many people have it.

What I think is more frightening is that there's asymptomatic strains of HPV, so you can't know if someone has it for sure or not. Also, some strains cause cervical cancer. While all STI/STD'S are scary, I think HPV is uber scary, mostly because of the link with it and cervical cancer, as well as the pics that the sex ed speaker showed us of those non-asymptomatic cases....

Well, DYT, I did read that, but at the same time, I wanted to be sure. You can't blame me for wanting to be careful, can you?