Seraphim

I guess he doesn’t realize citrus fruits are very high in sugar.

It was unnerving for sure . My husband’s cousin’s husband who I will call S told me it was probably someone sticking to me so I hit dear first and not them . Tons of deer and moose up here .

I had a super scary last ride home last night . I brought the last load of stuff and I came home alone . I was about 100 KM from home when this car started to follow me. When going the speed limit cars tend to pass me . This car didn’t . As I said before you don’t see almost anyone at night on these roads. I had seen 5 trucks in 200 KM. This person stuck to my backside like glue his lights lighting the inside of my car he was so close . When I sped up, they sped up. All the really country roads I went to get home they followed right on my tail. I was getting scared after the third side road they followed me to right on my tail. I called my son and he talked to me all the way home and I let him know what roads I was on etc and how far from home . In the last 5 mins before my home I was able to outrun this person. I had been trying to go as fast as my excellent driving skills would take along winding rain soaked country roads. If I didn’t lose this person I was going to drive to the police station in town . My son had the door open and was on the porch so I could run through the door. Could have been coincidence but that wasn’t my feeling about the situation. I had dread in the pit of my stomach.

Met my husband the organic way, in real life .

Forcing people to eat is an ultimate form of control. My in-laws used to force my husband to over eat so they didn’t have to put food back in the fridge . She used to poor white sugar on his food as a toddler to force him to eat. My husband now has a really bad sugar addiction that he will never give up . Controlling people to this level is a sickness.

Food allergies and sensitives can be deadly at worst and uncomfortable at minor. For instance if I eat raw nuts though I love them I spend the next few days in the bathroom with it coming out of both ends. If I eat food with too much grease because I have no gallbladder same thing I spend days in the bathroom . Because I am diabetic I try to eat very little sugar or carbs because it can cause permanent damage to my body and or death. At the very least while on diabetic medication eat too much sugar causes me to vomit excessively. Food sensitivity or allergy is not meant to “ inconvenience “ people . It can be life and death. We are NOT trying to annoy people .

Meet someone the organic way.

He did !

I don’t know . I would anything for my husband even die for him if I had to. We have been through A LOT with and for each other with our combined mental health problems. What I do ask for is that the person tries and gets help. My dad was bipolar and totally non compliant and abusive and that is a mental health condition I won’t touch because I KNOW the face of it and I just can’t . Not as a romantic partner anyway .

For sure ! I am so glad he is meeting people and making the effort . He is home now .

I have no idea. I am sorry. I am Canadian. Also all my husband’s medical bills and concerns are paid for by the government because he is a government employee.

I agree , it requires serious medical attention. I am so glad my husband got mental health support and proper medications for him . He is a thousand percent better . I am so so glad both times last year I took him to the hospital. They were outstanding with him and made him feel secure and safe and not judged .

I am nervous as all hell. My son met up with someone he met online at a local gaming location.

When my husband was suicidal the 3 times he was it was fear of failure ultimately and feeling isolated and picked on in the work place . For many men monetary failure is not an option and their work is who they are . He obviously wants to be a fitness instructor, not a pharmacist. I understand his need to be one thing and that is it . My husband wants to be in the military bar nothing . He wanted no other career PERIOD.

This is far above your pay grade. When my husband was suicidal I took him directly to the hospital and he was hospitalized until stable .