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swifty335

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  1. You pretty much just described my exact situation...except we were together for 2 years planning on spending life together, I started taking her for granted and treating he like ****, and she left me, even though I could tell she didn't really want to. But my ex has basically said the same thing to me that your ex said to you. She needs space and that a second chance isn't a complete no, but she wants to start out slow and get to know each other all over. Since that conversation...I've been in NC with her for about 14days now. It's really hard, but it is giving me the confidence I need for when I am ready to contact her and try again. It's getting to the point where I think I will be ready to contact her within the next month and ask if she would like to hang out. My advice would be don't contact her until you are in the mindset of moving on and are confident, because if you're still depressed and longing for her, she WILL pick up on that. When you are ready, just take it slow. Act as if it was the first time you went on a date with her, and just see where it goes. The first time going out with her after the break-up should probably not be for too long; try to just be yourself and seem like you're moving on and ok without her. After all, you want to leave her wanting more, right?. Try to be the person she initially fell in love with, but even better this time. There is no guarantee that she will come back; if she's like my ex, you will have to take control and be in the lead if you want her back. Just don't over-do it. Remember, TAKE IT SLOW. I can't stress that enough. I'd like to hear more on this post also...because my situation is almost identical to evilforkmaster's.
  2. man i am in almost the same exact situation it really blows its happened too many times too i think ill follow some of this advice too
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