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  1. cheecago
    well saying I love you all the time then showing me that I don't look good enough (I'll spare you the details) or rarely showing affection to you
  2. cheecago
    it's a red flag?
  3. cheecago
    Makes you want to do the opposite of what your being pressured for?
  4. cheecago
    I say grow some kejones, dump her and never look back. You deserve someone better. By the way she is acting she is not in love with you. People in love don't pull those kind of stunts. It won't be easy, she'll probably have someone else within the next few days but think about you in all this. Do you deserve this kind of "love" My heart goes to you and keep us posted
  5. cheecago
    Welcome to ENA Though I have never been in your shoes, it must not be an easy situation. If this marriage makes you more unhappy than happy and tried to work it out with him with no result, then I think it's time to go. Why woudn't you find someone else? I think it's better to be alone than with the wrong person and as you described, this is the wrong person. You'll find love again for yourself and for your son.
  6. cheecago
    I say let it go. If she breaks up with him and she really likes you, she'll come around. Try to be respectful of her and not pressuring her into leaving him because I think you'll push her away! Again my 2 cents
  7. cheecago
    If things aren't going so well then she should work her problems out. If she jumps ships with you... when she has problems with you, will she be there to solve problems or to jump ship with someone else? You don't want to be the other guy. Karma my friend. You woudn't want it done to you. Would you? My 2 cents
  8. cheecago
    What's co dependancy?
  9. cheecago
    I don't think those kind of things should be demanded. It gets annoying, specially if she's sending like 5-10 emails per day at your workplace and expecting you to do the same ( oups personnal experience here ). The more you annoy him with it the less he'll do it. Let it flow!
  10. cheecago
    My guess is she's using you as a rebound again...Guard your heart with all you have I say!
  11. cheecago
    My ex got over me in 1 month after 6 years so I guess it varies. Of course, she could be lying too
  12. cheecago
    I was in a similar situation and I know how hard it is... On the other hand, did he do something to cause you to act that way? I know my ex was very clingy, smothering and unsatisfiable in a lot of ways. Maybe thats why I had so much resentment. Maybe try to look at it that way?
  13. cheecago
    From my experience it was... 1. Her about talking about other man that she found attractive...yeah duh 2. Change in attitude in a sense that they don't care about you anymore 3. Nagging about small things
  14. cheecago
    In yourself.
  15. cheecago
    Trust me they can. I have been in your situation and we were supposed to get married and buy a house and everything and then the bomb came. I think in your case maybe she tried to "fake it" in a sense that she wanted to make believe to herself that's what she wanted, like she wanted to keep it alive but she just coudn't fake it anymore. I know that was the case with my ex. Did her actions change towards you? My ex's actions changed a lot and I should've picked up the signals but didn't, like she was trying to make me do the move (breakup). Hope this helped a little bit.
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