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real_life_101

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  1. Just wake up everyday and thank God you have someone like him in your life. Open that heart up and stop being afraid...
  2. Nope dont ask her a thing, wait it out for awhile and let her be the one to do the asking, act as if you were indifferent. If you push to hard she may run...
  3. Tough one you need to date just one guy, unless you dont care about your rep
  4. ok, this one I can help you with. I am 39 years old and went through exactly what your boyfriend is going through. I have had three very long term relationships, and it happed in all three relationships. I was so confused about what was happening I sought help for it. See what your going through is pretty normal believe it or not. You are thinking or reading a little to much into this it is not a control thing. See it comes accross that way because by you not getting sex you want it more. Probably more then normal because you are trying to gain self esteem. Remember rejection always increases interest when it comes to self esteem. The thing you have to keep in mind is average sex for long term couples and married people even younger then us is once a week, I am not saying all but most. What you have to do is dont bring it up. Unless he comes on to you dont make any effort, I mean still act normal, just when to comes to sex wait for him to come on to you. Dont get frustrated because it's going to take sometime. If you have any question feel free to contact me. I want to help because I lost a girl that I loved very much for the same reason. Believe me it's not about how pretty you are or how good you are at sex.
  5. Practice no contact, and start dating again,that alone should bring her back around. If she calls act happy but start dating ASAP.
  6. I know how you are feeling. I was there till I was thirty six years old. See I always left relationships once the honey moon phase ended. I just didn't know any better. I talked with several marriage counselors and they all said the same thing how are you feeling about your relationship except one. He said thats reality the honey moon phase ends. He challenged me to ask happly married couples how often they have sex, the average once a week. I was quite shocked, I was in a lot of great relationships that I left, only to go through this false reality cycle. You will leave and feel love for someone else I think your mind is made up. Just dont expect your next relationship to be any different in the long run. Marriage is not about constant excitement it is about life time commitment and companionship.
  7. I know what you thinking.. feel like your going crazy? Well you are. Dont make the stupid mistake that everyone your age is making. What you are doing is battling for control of the relationship. You accepted your boyfriend for who is for this long your on easy street now. what I mean by that is In the beginning women being much more sensitive creatures give up a lot more in the relationship then they should, and it's not the males fault. Love is about seeing each other all the time ( what do you think marriage is about). I agree you need time alone somtimes with your friends and it does not appear he is blocking you from that. What it comes down to is your bored, let me tell you something ask any happily married couple if they get bored and they will say yeah, but when they do they do ther own thing for an hour or a day. more less they deal with it. Relationships are not all fun and games yet there are idiots that think this way, thats why the break up rate is over 50% in marriages. Little reality check the honeymoon phaze ends, a relationship is about commitment. If you treat each other well thats what counts. Everyone has flaws or red flags as humans we all make mistakes. Dont make the mistakes of leaving someone you love. Communicate talk about everything dont be affraid, if you are your relationship will end anyways. If you Leave trust me later in life you will regret it. Dont be a fool like half the people out there enjoy yourself and your relationship boring is actually good, it show's stability .......
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