RockNRoller

I went to the store today with a friend of mine to ask her out. I got my friend to go in and ask her if she's seeing anyone and to tell her I wanted to ask her out. If she wasn't seeing anyone. Then have her step out side for a minute so I could ask her out. But it turns out she's seeing someone and not only that but they have been together for 3 years. Which surprised me, Because her mom said 2 months ago that she wasn't seeing anyone. I guess her mom doesn't know as much about her as she thinks. So I'm a little down now But I've went this long by myself so I guess I'll be alright. I no it's not the end of the world but anytime you ask someone out and get turned down you'll feel a little sad for a while. Especially if it's the first time you've asked someone out. But I did get some good news. My friend said when she told her who I was she asked he's the cute one isn't he. So if nothing else at least I know she thinks I'm cute. And if anyone has any advise on what to do to get my mind off it and feel a little better I could use it. Thank You all very much for your help. If it wasn't for your post I would most likely have never asked and would always be wondering if I ever had a chance with her. Even though it's bad news for me I'm still glad I no the answer instead of what if.

Last thursday I saw her mom at the store and she told me that I should come to her house later on that day and have dinner with them and to bring one of my new cds with me for them to listen to. So I did but her daughter had a college class that afternoon and I got there just after she left. I ended up staying for about 2 1/2 hours though talking to her mom and dad and playing with her little 4 year old cousin. Her mom was baby sitting that day. I saw her at the store over the weekend and was walking up to her to finally ask her out. Then 3 of her co-workers came over to her and started talking. So I just payed for my stuff and left. Now I have a new plan that I feel more comfortable with. Tell me what you think about it. I know she works every friday,saturday and sunday so I figured I would go friday to the florist and get her some flowers and have them sent to were she works at. That way she'll no I'm interested in her. Then I wouldn't be as nervous going in and asking her out. But I don't know if I should write something on the card or just sign my name to it and leave it at that. Then when I get off work that day go to were she works and saying something like, Do you like the flowers if I see them there. If not ask did you get the flowers I sent. Then tell her I've been wanting to ask you something. Would you like to go out to get something to eat and see a movie with me sometime when you're not busy. If Yes ask for her phone # to call her and set up the time and day of the date. Or should I just say would you like to go out to get something to eat and see a movie sometime when you're not busy? What do you all think?

I recently saw this girls mom again and I told her about a new cd I had recorded and she told me that she'd like to hear it and that I should come to her house she said her husband and daughter has been wanting to her one of my new cd's. So I told her I would on my next day off thursday. I also asked her if her daugther was working at the grocery store I thought I saw her at. She told me yes she worked there 3 days a week and goes to college. Should I ask her out on a date when I go to her house thursday or wait until I see her when she's at work and ask her out? I really don't know what to do or how to do it. Because I know there's no way I'd get up the courage to ask her out at work, Because there's usually a few people always standing around her that either work there or are customers buying something. But if I could get her alone I would ask. If I were to ask her out at her house I don't have a clue about how to do it. I know her mom and dad like me but it would be odd and very embarrassing for me. Or because her mom already told me once that I should go out with her daughter I'm thinking maybe she will mention something about or suggest that we go out on a date. I'm not asking for anyone to give me the answer to get the girl and solve my problem. I just need some advice or ideas about how I should go about it, beacuse I have never been on a date or asked a girl out before.

I went to a grocery store in town today and I believe the girl I've been wanting to ask out works there now. I'm not positive on this because her hair color is different and she's a little shorter than I remembered. But than again it has been 2 years since I saw her last. But I remember every detail of her face and it is a perfect match. So my plan is to go up to her when she's alone and ask her what her name is. And if it's her start a short conversation with her. Then ask her out on a date before I leave. Here's what I plan on saying. Walk up to her and say in a friendly voice hi how are you doing. Whats your name? And If it's her say. I don't know if you remember me but I worked with your mom at ***** a couple years ago. She would reply with yes she remembers me or no she doesn't. But because of me recently giving her mom a cd of my new songs. Which I know she's a fan of I believe she would no who I am or remember me. Then maybe say the last time I talked to your mom she said you were working at *****. When did you start working here? She would reply. Then before I leave say would you like to go out to watch a movie with me sometime when you're not busy? If it's a yes then I would say can I get your phone number so I can call you? So what do you guys think of my plan. Is it a good ideal or would I look stupid? Any advice is welcome. And one more thing. It's been almost 2 months since her mom told me that she wasn't seeing anyone. So by now she could have a boyfriend. So if I ask her out and she say's that she has a boyfriend what should I say. I don't want to be standing there looking like a fool with no responce. If I do get turned down I now it's gonna suck. But I just want to be more prepared for it. I've been thinking that if I she does say she has a boyfriend. That I could say something like o' you do? Thats alright. Then just say bye in a friendly voice as I leave the store. Or if she just say's no maybe just smile and say that's ok. What do you think? I know most of you may think I'm over thinking this. But I have not had a girl friend in a few years and I just want to get it right and not look stupid especially if I get turned down, because you fell bad enough about that without adding something else to it.

She's only comes in the store about once a month. Except this month she came in at the beginning and end of the month. She told me that she would start coming in more now that she knows I work there. Maybe she comes in more and I just don't see her. I'm a butcher so I spend most of my time in the meat room. But lately I've been walking out in the store more in hope that I will see her or her daughter. I don't know if it would be akward to kust show up at her house or not. I have never been to her house before but I know were she lives. She told me that I should come up to her house sometime. So I guess she wouldn't mind me just showing up. But I would feel weird just showing up, because she may be busy or have company or something. I believe waiting for her mom to come into the store and mentioning that I would like to ask her daughter out to dinner and a movie. Then asking for her phone number would be best. Then I could just call her and ask her out. But the problem with that is I've never talked to her before. But I know she knows who I am. So do you think she would think it was akward for me to just call her and ask her out. Also when I do call her I'm not sure what to say. I've thought about saying something like, Hi this is ****** I don't know if you remember me or not but I was just wondering if you would like to go out to get something to eat and watch a movie with me sometime. When you're not busy and don't have to work. Then ask when she doesn't have to work and set a date for that day. Hopefully I don't have to work that day or I work a morning shift that day. I'm sorry for all the questions, but I just don't want to let this chance pass by like I have so many before. And like I said before I have no experience dating at all. Except for my one girlfriend 6 years ago.

I posted a similar question about a month ago but no one really gave me any advise. So I'll ask again in a slightly different way. There's this girl that I have had a crush on for almost 2 years now. A month ago I saw her mom at the store I work at. 2 Years ago I worked with her mom at another store and that's how I met this girl I like. But I have never spoken to her before. I know her mostly from her mom. And from the way her mom talked her daughter also had a crush on me. But at the time she was 17 and I was 19 so I didn't try anything. Any way I saw her mom at the store and stopped to talk to her and she asked me if I was seeing anyone right now, I said no, Then she said that I should go out with her daughter, because I was a good boy and she liked me. I didn't tell her mom that I would or would not like to go out with her. Because I didn't want her to think her mom was the one trying to get me to go out with her. I never see this girl at the store or anywere to ask her out. So it appears the only way to meet her and ask her out would be some what through her mom. Here's the way I see it I could, 1.) The next time I see her mom ask her if her daughter is seeing anyone and if she say's no tell her that I was wanting to ask her out to dinner and a movie sometime but I never see her anywere to ask her. Then ask her mom for her phone number to call her and ask her out. 2.) Her mom told me were she lives. So I could go to her house and bring a cd of my new songs for them to listen to and talk to her some to get to know her. Then before I go ask her out. Or wait a few days and go back to her house or call her and ask her out. Because I'm afraid that were I have never talked to her before if I just come out and ask her out after onlt talking to her for a little bit she might say no. If anyone can help me out in any way please do. I'm afraid that if I don't ask her out soon someone else will. And after having a crush on her for 2 years I don't want to let this chance pass by with out asking. I have only had one girlfirend so I new to dating and I'mlso shy. So that makes it a little harder for me. But if I can just figure out how to go about meeting her and talking to her I'm willing to overcome my shyness and just and just ask her out.

There's a girl that I like that I want to ask out on a date, But I have only met here once and don't really know how to go about it. Here's my situation. A couple years ago I worked at a convienent store and there was this lady that I worked with there. I write and record my own music and she bought a few cds from me and she said that her daughter took them and listens to them all the time. And told her she was in love with me now. This was right around christmas and she gave me a christmas card and told me that there might be a love letter in there, Because of what her daughter told her after hearing my music. And a few times a week her daughter would ride to work with her. To wait on her friends to pick her up and go to school.I never said anything more to her than hi. Her mom quit after a few months and so did I. I have not seen either of them in 2 years. The other day I saw her mom in the store I work at now. I talked to her for a few minutes. Mostly about what she's doing now and what I was doing. And if I was still writing and recording music. Then out of the blue she ask's me if I 'm seeing anyone right now. I tell her no. Then she say's that I should go out with her daughter I would be perfect for her. She said I was a good boy and she liked me and that it wouldn't bother her to have me hanging around her house all the time. (And she meant hanging around the house with her daughter not her). I really like her and would love to go out with her, But seeing as how I have never really talked to her before. I don't know how I should go about asking her out. Should I wait to see her and just ask if she would want to go out to the movies or something sometime. Or if I see her mom again first tell her to mention to her daughter that I would like to go out on a date with her sometime. And ask for her phone #. Then call her and ask her out my self. Or find out were she works and send flowers and a note asking her out on a date. There may be a few problems though with the first to. One I have never seen her in the store so I'm afraid I want get the chance to ask her out my self because I have not seen her since I quit my previous job. Second it took 2 years for me to see her mom again and I 'm afraid it may be a while before I do again, Because it's just a matter of luck that I'll be working the next time she's in the store or I'll be busy working and not see her come in. So asking her mom to mention to her that I want to go out on a date with her may not be the way to go. Plus I don'y really know her and have never really talked to her before so it's like asking a stranger out. And I have never asked out any I haven't known for a while. The reason I want to go out with this girl so bad is, Because I have had a crush on her since the moment I saw her. You know how you imagine in your head what your dream girl or boy for you girls would be like. She is way better than any dream girl I could imagine. And I just feel like she's the one for me and all I have to do is get that first date and the rest will fall into place. Or I may get turned down and have a broken hart for a while but either way I don't want to pass up the chance to be with her if only for one date. I'm sorry for the long post I just thought it would be good to give as much background about my situation as possible. If anyone can help me out please do. And by the way I'm 21 and she's 18 turning 19 in a few months.

I have never had a girlfriend before and recently I thought I had the opportunity to change that. I was very excited about finally getting the chance to be with someone. But I was wrong. There's a girl that has been talking about how much she likes me and would like to go out with me to one of her friends for the past week. Her friend has been telling me about it. So I told her that I would call her and ask her out on a date. But I worked a lot of hours last week. I left for work early in the morning and didn't get back home until midnight or later. So I have not had the time to call her. I'm off work tomorrow so I planned on calling her then, But when I asked her friend today if she was seeing someone she said that she started seeing a guy on monday. So I figured I shouldn't call her and ask her out now that she's with someone. But what makes me feel so sad is that all this time that she was with this guy she's been saying that she thought I was hot and wanted to go out with me. Why would she say those things about me if she was already with someone? While I was talking to her friend today she was on the phone with her and mentioned that I was there. And she told her to tell me that she thought I was sexy. And from what her friend has been saying she really like's the guy she's with. So why would she still be saying those things about me? And now I feel embarressed, stupid and sad, because her friend will tell her that I wanted to ask her out and how I feel about her. So I don't plan on going around her anymore because of this. I just don't understand what's going on. I would appreciate and advise or help with my problem.

There's a girl that works at a grocery store that I like alot. And I want to ask her out on a date or ask for her phone number to talk to her and then set up a date. But I don't know how to go about doing this. I don't know her name or anything about her. I've only seen her twice. I'd feel stupid to just go up to her and ask her out without knowing anything about her. Plus what if she's got a boyfriend. Should I just go up to her and ask her her name and then tell her that I think she's really beautiful and would like to know if she would like to go out together sometime on a date or just ask for her phone number. Or should I ask if she's got a boyfriend or what first. I really don't know what to do here. If any one can give me any advise on how to go about this please do.

I believe I wiil go with dinner and a walk. Should I give her a kiss or a hug after the date. From the way her friends talk about what she's been saying about me. It sounds like it has been a while since she has had a boyfriend and she's more than ready to have a little fun . She's been mentioning certain body parts of mine that she would like to see and get a hold of. I guess you know what I'm talking about.

I am 21 years old and I have never had a girlfriend or went out on a date with a girl. Mostly because I am really shy and I work alot. A few days ago my sister said that one of her friends said I was hot and that she had a crush on me. I figured it was about time I went out on a date. So I told my sister to tell her that I would call her the next day I was off work. I don't have a clue what to talk to her about or what kind of date to ask her out to. I live in a small town and there's not many places to go to on a date unless you go out of the county. Even then about the only place to go is to the movie theater. I don't know anything about her and I've never met her yet. I've thought about asking her to go to a resturaunt to eat and then go walking at the city park on the track to give us a chance to get to know each other better. If anyone has any advise on what to talk to her about or any good date ideas please help.