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this girl sounds kinda like me! i got out of a 6 yr relationship in april and i go clubbing every wknd and get pretty crazy. i've been able to be a good girl wen i'm talking to sum1 that i like, but at this point i couldn't get into a relationship. i think the all i can really do rite now is date exclusively. that bf/gf stuff isnt something i want to deal w/rite now. so if u wanna casually date i say go for it.

i like funny guys. the hottest guy can try to talk to me, if he cant make me laugh, i won't be interested.

i've been talking to this guy for almost 2 months. he had been kinda distant for the last 2 weeks. he still called me every day, but our convos were really short and not that great. so i asked him wat was going on and if he was still into me. he said he just wanted to be friends and didnt want to date anyone til he was completely over his ex. anyway, i was heart broken. i really liked him. and i told him i didn't think i could be his friend because of how i felt. anyway, he's been calling me still and i havent been answering. he left a vmail saying good morning and that he hoped to talk to me soon. is it possible that the still likes me? cuz why would he bother to call if he wasn't into me anymore?

he called me yesterday nite. so i'm happy that he did. he said he's been having trouble w/his cell phone and wen he called me it was from his cousins phone. it was an akward convo though because i was upset and was trying to sound normal. we only talked for 2 minutes. but i'm glad he called. i feel better now. i hate how guys have so much control over my emotions. the minute i heard his voice on the line i started cheesing. lol...

thanks for the responses guys! i feel a little bit better, but i still haven't heard from him. my girlfriend works with him and she told me that he was hanging out with his ex. so, its very likely i wont ever hear from him again. too bad. i liked him too. well his loss. i wish he would've at least let me know what was going on instead of leaving me hanging and guessing, you know?

haha you guys are right. i'm just being stupid and clingy. i know.

i've been talking to this guy for a few weeks. as soon as he got my number he called me everyday. he hasn't call me for 2 days, so i freaked out and called him. convo was fine. now i haven't heard from him today. he usually calls me rite after i get off work. so i'm a little worried because i like him. today is his day off so he has no reason not to call me. his last 2 days off we've spent together. so u guys think he's done w/me???

so i started dating this guy. he just got out of a 1 year relationship about a month ago. he's still very heart broken and still loves his ex. so i'm his rebound chick. and i'm ok w/it. i'm really not looking for anything serious rite now but i like him. i was wondering, wat happens when he's finally over his ex. does that mean he's over me too and wont want to date me anymore?

hmmm...hardest part about being single...driving home from some random guy's house in the morning with a fat hangover and nasty liquor breath after a night of hardcore partying...lol...=) man oh man do i love the single life!!!!

hey chick! i know exactly how you feel. but u have to give him his space and let him do his thing. just trust him. don't hold him back, he'll resent u for it.

congrats! i hope it works out the best. i'm in the same sit. he and i are working towards getting back together, but we're taking it real slow. best of luck to u!

i actually would prefer to do it at his place, that way i can leave rite away. but since his parents live there to, in my culture the older generation feel it is inappropriate for a girl to go to a guys place or vice versa. i mean i don't care, but if i went over there, my mom will probably hear about it the next day, then i'll end up hearing an earful from her. so, yeah, maybe quiet coffee shop would be good. hmm...man i hate having to do this kinda stuff...

a day or 2 ago i posted a thread askng how to tell this guy i don't wanna date him anymore. now i'm wondering where i should do it. i dont wanna do it at my place and i can't go to his cuz his parents live with him. i was thinking maybe having him meet me at a bar and i can tell him over a drink. i don't know wat do u guys think?

give it a try! a date won't hurt u. u never know, he might be a really cool guy.