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Spugly Fuglet

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  1. I did it once with a GF and her room mate and yes it dos change things, we split up soon after, for me it just did not feel right but for others.
  2. Dear CynicalGuitarist I really think you are Bi_poler, i have seen the way your emails have been going on here and you really seem to have good days and bad, I must ask have you seen your doc about there mood swings, If you can deal with this ill ness as I see it you can change your life for the better with out ending it
  3. have a look look around the Suicide list here, we get a stady stream of posters who have lost family to Suicide and then they them selfs start to feel a deep scance of loss and greaf until they in turn become Suicidel. There was a Oz girl 13 whos did killed him self when she ws 8, her, her brother and mother had there life runined becouse her dad did this. he was ill, his illness killed him but yet thay paid for his act. Humans feel, you feel you need to stop but the rest of the world dos not, Your trying to make your self feel better but ending your life, but in fact your ending YOUR feeling for all time, all hope, all life, any child you woudl have had, any life you could have saved or changed gone for ever. And then the fall out, Please read throw the posts here on lost loved ones to Suicide the you came back and tell me you dont care and wont others to kill them selfs like you. if you still feel that way then you are at least feeling, enjoy it now becouse after death there is no more. Living is hard yes but better than the alternative
  4. Gain your missing the point, the act of killing your self dos more than just end your life, it cosued pain to others for beyound that which you can tell.
  5. worry is some thing only the living do, no you would be over, but you death would carry one, like I said giving pain to all thows who know you. the will ask "WHY", "could I have done some thing" giult and pain over and over and all becouse you could not find a way, seek a ways to not couse them that pain
  6. Nothing is instant not even light, no the shooter feels it, you felt it or more to the pain your brain maps out what other humans are feeling. Only sociopaths dont and they dont get Post traumatic stress syndrome when harming others.
  7. ^ post traumatic stress syndrome why well half the Nurons in the brain are not linked to the body, they are linked to the main brain and are called the Sympathetic nervous system When you kill you really do feel it. link removed
  8. I had a Mate Shelly (boy) who was sent to an all boys school as a border, he told me most of the lads there, had there 1st sex with another kid at the school, well put 2 and 2 and you get Boys with boys etc. Well hes happly marred with 3 kids, I also know a real guy dad, who after raseing 2 kids said im off to be with the boys. things change Look up "Bonobo apes" there our closeist living relative and there sexula habbits. Some insight there
  9. Very well but and spot on there world needs color, souls of every light. If your a loser then come sit down with the gang, Losers know a lot and can tell you where the pit falls are, so advice from the losers can help just as much as from the winners. Thats why I talk to street bums, they have lived.
  10. With me I just desided one day to live a good life, to no longer do what others told me I was Obliged to do that felt wrong, No more bussness cheating, no more "taking" what you need becouse you may be cheated, No more looking on as other fall becouse you have "better things to do" What can be more inportent than helping some one to find meaning in life. I read a lot about thows who did good things becouse they where the right thing to do, to a means to an end, and I leant that there is a small but power full amout of evil in our world today, and to fight all we need to is the 1,000,000s of us who seek goodness to do small good deeds evry day, the wait of that can smash any one or group who seek to push there greed and anger on us. Gandi once said, "if the hole of Indea sait down all the armys in England could not get them to stand again" If you seek a better life it is always your, all one need to is from the moment you deside to live one do so. For me I have 3 words Truth, Always to true to yourself and then others. Strenght: Always be strong for yourself and then others Honor: Honor yourself fro trying to do that which is right and others the seek to do the same. Its about making at stand, againced thows dark feeling inside yourself and befor thows who would use and manipulat you into doing evil. I peacefull Worrar as some have said, who fights the war with in and shows others throw that, what it means to be good. Its hard, it takes work and you can not always win but that dos not matter, what matters is you try, and each day with each act you keep trying. Do that and show others a good life can be lived. for me it changed my life, I no longer fell bad about WHO I am, other look up and respect me and most of all I respect me. being here and posting here is port of that, I do it beouse there are thows here in real pain who just need some one to hold a hand out ands say. "Life can be lived with out the pain you feel, a new and better life, becuse where there is life there is always hope"
  11. Here's my take on this It may help it may not, 1st off its taken a lot of guts to get this far, most victims of storking find it far to dificolt to take there storker to court so I for one say think you for being brave and standing for what's right, hard as it is your stand is the right stand and for that you should feel pride, evan in this darkness. 1: He's a bad man, he's bad becouse he hits and disrepecs you, he's bad becouse what he wonts matters more then what you need, any farther, husband, Boyfriend who will use violance physical or emotionly to take what they won't from thows they say the love is a bad man a weak and small man. 2: Look at him, really look what use is he, what dos he offer the world, dos he make it a better place. Do other men like me look up to him, NO! we see some thing less than a man, a halfman who lies and cheats he's way throw life. A nothing of a man. 3: You are like us, hole complet, normal, the world and we are richer for you being in it. Your feeling are the same feelings we would have if a halfman like this came into our lives, played his games, sank his greedy less than man hocks into us so he can feed his needs at any price. 4: But he chouse you as the target for he woman hate, he's need to controll, his lust for dominance and power of thows he should be protecting. Life is not fare but we the strong not this and we face it. 5: We face it becouse we know if this halfman is not stopped in a year or two there will be another woman, just like you who this creature has locked onto, harmed, haunted made to feel shame and giult for what he is doing to her. Shes out in the world right now unaware that he's coming. 6: All he as to do to get at her is get you to do just what he wonts, to get away with what he has done to you. Then he will be free to terrise others. 7: Do any of use have the right to ask you to keep going, to stop the halfman here and now, I know you, your wonded, baddy in need of a brake from this and he's still got some hocks in you. 8: But I'm asking, me no other, I'm asking becouse I know this less of man will do this again, he wil do it to others and here and now you have a chance to stop him, to let the world know just how dangerous this halfman is, its the old fight or flight but we are humans not animals and as such act not just out of self need, no that's he's way. 9: No/Contact at all until court, even then you can see him but unless he acts as his own defance (very dumb as he will lose) he will not say any thing to you again. Then tell the police what he's been trying to do, "Pervert the couse of justice" by asking you to not respond to them. The calls the controll all have to end, no letters, 3ed parts the lot, but the poilce hove to know ask for a banic butten they will tell you what it is. The now ones can be carred like mobiles. 10: Suport, get as much as you can, work, home, councaling, mates evety where, get a falt mate and tell your family. suport of any kind will help you see yoir doing the right thing and standding up to this guy. He has used violance so you need others to help what for this. I hope that was of use, you can get throw this to a better life, he's just not going to be in it, he can stay in his one man hell and I'm sorry it you who has to go through this but I know that as you have shown so far you can and will get through this. all the best and we are all ways here to offer any help we can yours spugly
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