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  1. Hey everyone. I have this great boyfriend and we've been dating for a couple of months. We're pretty into eachother and we spend most of our time together. He's everything i could ask for and I know he has strong feelings for me. We've been talking about having sex lately, and he is a virgin. I have had sex with a few guys and they have all been very experienced. I am actually, as weird as this may sound, nervous to have sex with him because of his lack of experience. At the same time I want it to be really amazing and a very memorable experience for him. Any suggestions of how I can do this? Thanks.
  2. Hello everyone. I was wondering if anyone could help me. (obviously ). I just had my period like a week and a half ago and today I am experiencing some irregular bleeding. It's not really like a flow or anything...just some blood. When I was on the rag, ten days ago, I had sex. I guess I am just worried about why i am irregularly bleeding. I don't think it would be pregnancy....i mean I had protected sex and nothing went wrong. I know that there's still a chance, but what could be the cause of this? I have been normal for three years now in terms of my cycles. Any input? Thanks. . .
  3. Hey. So, he's 22 and I'm 17, big difference I know but we have very similar personalities and taste in a lot of different areas. We also have this amazing chemistry that is physical but also isn't solely reliable on sex. I am falling pretty hard for him. He lives an hour away and we have very busy schedules that only permit us to see eachother about once our twice a month, sometimes less than that. I try to get up there as much as I can, he can't really come visit me because I am in a school that makes that impossible (boarding school). Whenever I see him it's more than perfect but he's always like, "this can't get too serious, someone will just get hurt" which I completely understand but I think in the process of knowing this, I am getting hurt. I think for him it's more like a friends with benefits, and for me it's like I really want this to be a relationship. I just got my first acceptance letter from a college instate and who knows whether I'll go there and be able to see him often. All I know is this is too good to let pass by. If two people really like eachother why can't they just make it work? I am havng some trouble telling him how I feel because I don't want to freak him out or make him think that I'm just some little girl falling in love...because I have been in a lot of relationships and I know that sometimes they work and sometimes they don't and I really don't have attatchment problems. I am fairly level headed. I have defenately raised the bar in terms of my standards these days and I feel like this is perfect. I don't know how to tell him what I think. I dont even have any ideas for what we should do! I guess I just want a little more effort from his side of the situation. This isn't really a question I suppose but does anyone have any input?! Thanks.
  4. Hello... So I have been seeing this guy on and off for over two years. It's basically a thing like whenever I'm home we'll hang out. He recently moved so now when I go home he has to come back to visit his parents in order to see me. He's 23 and I am 17. Big difference, I know, and that is part of the problem. We have already had sex, we've been fairly close, when the time is available. Recently he told me that he's in love with me, and I do love him too. I am completing my senior year and will be going off to college next year, and I know that where ever I go will prohibit us from being able to see one another, unless he were to move clear accross the state, but i might be leaving the state anyway! Anyway, my parents would be less than enthused to hear about this 23 year old guy (who've they've always known and not really liked because he and my brother were trouble makers when they were teens) and I know that many of my friends would think it was wrong too. Basically it's been a secret thing, and I know if I get into it now, it will just be a battle. I really love him though, and I don't know what to do. Not much hope for the future, but then again there could be. I guess this really isn't a "question" and there's not really an answer. I just wanted to assess the situation for myself. If anyone has anything to say that'd be cool. Thanks!
  5. Cool, thanks everyone. It's nice to know that guys do experience the same thing.
  6. OKay so in my experience after I "hook up" with someone i really like, whether it be just a kiss or whatever, afterwards for days I get little memories of what happened it makes me smile and feel good. I like to think about what happened. Is this the same for guys? Do you guys have this sentimental appreciation or is it just a sappy girl thing?
  7. Okay . . . So there has been this guy in my life since August. I always knew him because he lived in my home town, but now that each of us have gone our own ways, it was odd that we had come together again and found an intense attraction. He used to be very good friends with my older brother and his mom was my teacher for a while. He's a bit older than I am. I don't really feel like the six year age difference is too much of a problem right now. We can't have an open relationship anyway because I attend a very demanding school and he works long days every day. Also we aren't in the same town. Anyway, I this weekend I was in his area and I called him up. I ended up going to his apartment and spending the night. We had an awesome time and there is a very strong connection (not to sound cheesy) between the two of us. He's seriously not lacking anything that I could want. Anyway, the next morning I was off back to my school and him back to work. There's nothing we can do about it. I feel like I either need to cut communication altogether as to not become too attatched to him, or that I need to keep one foot in the door to possibly pick up with a few years down the road. I know that if I end up going to college instate I can see him often...but If I decide to go out of state then I won't ever see him. I just feel like this is too good to let pass by. I really think he feels a lot for me and is sort of in the same position that I am....frusterated because of our situations. What do I do about this? And what can I say to him to let him know that I feel this way about him? I just can't stop thinking about the night we had and how this reallly can't be!!
  8. Sounds like everyone puts up with this girls bullsh it. Going by how many times you called yourself an idiot and how many times you said the ex and her are psycho...i think you should just give up the whole thing. Sounds like she's a bit of a cheating b itch, so, as hard as it may be, just let it go...she's making your life miserable anyway, and has been for like the past year. Try not to turn into another psycho ex, it would be better if you just cut out contact.
  9. I dont agree with Turboz. Just be yourself...there's no need to change the way you look or act, if she likes you it's because she likes YOU. I'd say just get out and meet new people and try not to think about the situation TOO much.....hopefully she'll realize what she wants and make a decision.
  10. You should just go to the prom! Prom is like 10% dancing and 90% socializing and looking good. You just gotta get a nice suit or tux and talk to people...it would probably mean a lot to her because you would be all dressed up and she would be too, with her little coursage or whatever on her wrist. I've been to three proms and most of the guys don't even dance anyway, just make sure you ask her to dance one slow one with you, and those are so easy, you just move your feet a tiny bit and look in her eyes. Just try to have fun at it. I think you should deffenitly go because it would suck if she went with someone else and it would probably put a strain on your relationship. At prom you don't need to feel pressured to act a certain way, just be comfortable and enjoy spoiling this girl that you like so much. GO FOR IT!
  11. I dont think that you should worry too much about the whole STD thing through her ear. I am pretty sure you won't be biting hard enough to make her bleed. I like ear licking/nibbling but not really in the ear, just on the lobe...it's kinda hard to like inside the ear. Right below or behind i guess is a sensitive spot that feels pretty good so try that too!
  12. Hey im sorry that you can't open up to your counselor. I've never been one but I encourage you not to go drunk. That doesn't have much in it in terms of helping yourself and doing it with integrity. I know it's easier to say stuff when you're drunk, but you shouldn't go to get help that way. Just tell her that you're having trouble telling her all that you want to. She's the counselor, she's the one who's supposed to make it easier for YOU...i am sure she's dealt with this before. So just go in there and tell her what's going on in your head. Hope it works out.
  13. Hey everyone So I am seeing this guy who lives a little over an hour away. I go away to school and I do not have a car or much time to leave campus. It makes it really hard to see him. We just recently started seeing eachother, the relationship hasn't even really gotten anywhere yet, except us both agreeing that we have great personalities that match with eachother and a big attraction to one another. Anyway, a couple weekends ago I planned this trip to go see him, I was to stay witha friend and go out on saturday with him. The cell phones were messed up and wouldn't ring for some reason, I tried contacting him that night several times. I had planned this trip just for him. Anyway, I left several messages trying to explain that the phones were messed up and that he should call me and we would figure out when we were going to hang out that evening. Anyway, we called me back at 10pm and left a message that he had gotten off work late and that he wouldn't be able to hang out. By this time at night I was already partying with my friends because I had given up. I left him a couple messages afte rthat because the phones weren't working and all you could do was leave messages. Since then I have tried to call him a couple of times and he doesn't answer and i have left two messages over the span of 2 weeks...he hasn't called me at all. Do you think that I screwed it up by leaving him so many messages on that saturday when we were to hang out? I was just tyring to go through with the plans, and I made that whole trip to see him, and he knew that was the night we were to hang out. I just wonder if he thought I was a freak for calling so many times....i dunno, I just dont want to have ruined it. Any suggestions? Thanks!
  14. You're overanalyzing the situation. Maybe you're not mature enough for the situation. My first kiss was in fifth grade because my friends made me and I was NOT ready...i almost threw up, and it's not that it's nasty, it's actually quite nice...i just wasn't ready. So if you're that worried about it, you're not ready. A kiss really isn't anything to stress out about. Alexis
  15. I tried to reply to this just a second ago, so we'll see if it works out. If there ends up being two, sorry. Anyway, I am sorry to hear about your depression...but I think that you will get used to the new environment and maybe even enjoy it, it just takes time. I went away to school at the age of 14, against what i wanted to do. It sucked the first two or three weeks, but after a month I had a group of friends and felt confortable in my surroundings. Now I am a senior and I am still away at school and next year I'll be going to college. I am even applying to CSU! (im a coloradan). So jsut know that it will get better, if it helps, I know a lot of awesome people that go there...and who love the Fort Collins and have a lot to do there. So hang in there.... -Alexis
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