I have been seeing this guy for 2 months and he came on really strong when we met. He's very fun to be around, and he wants to be with me all the time but he is insecure which makes me uncomfortable because he always wants to make sure I am only having sex with him.
Here is the crazy part...He sends me a picture text message that says "hi baby, how are you" but he made a dumb and careless mistake of sending it to TWO OTHER GIRLS because their cell numbers showed up in my phone! I was very hurt and I decided to call them... One of them said she only met him once and she never saw him again, and the other said she had been seeing him for three months! and that they were intimate also. I was so mad. Even though we are not committed yet, he kept saying he only wanted me and noone else, so in my eyes he is a cheating liar.
I confronted him and he was very upset and kept insisting that he NEVER had sex with her, and that he was just talking to her. He insists that she is a liar, but I need the guys out there to tell me if I should believe him...I said "well if you never had sex with her, and she is the liar, then we should all have a group meeting and then the truth will be told" He says he never wants to call her again, that he loves me and wants to marry me. He said he called her and said "Why did you lie and tell skyler that we had sex?" I think that's a lie also. I don't know what to do, who to believe or anything because she didn't seem to be as upset as I was. He called me all night and didn't stop crying and apologizing.
His mom and dad cheated on eachother and he grew up that way. He says he's different and he wants to be with only me but I don't feel right in my gut.
Any advice would be appreciated.
much love,
skyler
