rvr350
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I'd probably be happy for her. I'd hate to lose her as a friend definitely.
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Yea, it's interesting how compatible we are, but yet when we are together, just seems like we're more like old friends than lovers. And sometimes it's hard to break that barrier. I know she wants to be more than just friends, but i don't want to fool myself into a relationship when i'm not ready. I guess i don't want to fall in love for the wrong reason.
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I've known this girl for a few years. We first met by going out a few times, then she moved away. We kept contact constantly, but not much on the phone. I know she still likes me and hinted me so. I always feel comfortable around her and likewise, but somehow i just never feel the sparks were there... Is there still a chance? Is there anything I can do? Should i move on? Thanks, Happy New Year!
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You're fortunate to find someone that you can have many similarity, and you have to think for yourself are you willing to invest in this friendship, and probably may or may not turn into something that you'd like to be. If all you want with her is a relationship, then you really have to think if you're able to be able to let her vent, without able to talk like her bf. I hope it helped.
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Too busy to date but says she is interested
rvr350 replied to SoGoodImWorried's topic in Dating Advice
I had the same experience before. You know, there's no easy answer. It all depends on how mature the girl is. If she's really busy, she'll tell you the reason why she can't make it, but even the most busiest girl should be able to find an hour or two for a coffee date. I'd start seeing other people, keep your life busy, and don't appear too desperate. Hope it helped. -
Well, we started to hang out quite a bit, and besides the usual hug here or there, i think we enjoy each other's company. Though she's said to her friends she doesn't want to date coworkers because the lack of spending time together.
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what do you guys think about dating coworkers? I know a girl who works in my company, totally different department, don't interact professionally. But she says she doesn't want to date coworkers, but she hasn't said no to me yet, do i still have a chance? How to counter her? Thanks.
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What other sweet things to say to her
rvr350 replied to thetruthintheformofhiphop's topic in Dating Advice
A big long hug works good, last long time. Hope it helped. -
One night i was at a bar with a friend (not known for too long), and when we left the crowd, she was following me, and i let my hand stay behind me, and somehow I gently touched her hand. For some reason, at that moment, I just held on to her hand, and she let me held on. Though just for a few seconds, it was a very special moment. Have anyone experienced this? Would a girl let a guy do that if she's not interested?
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I think it's a good discussion on the subject of attraction. For the guys, we attract to girls that have a nice face, a nice body, generally visual clues. It is also molded somewhat by our culture, i.e. tv, movies and such... But for that attraction to grow, it needs more than the outside. It takes personality, and the gut feeling that you know the other person feels the same. I don't know about girls, but if you go on a date with a guy that you don't think it "clicked" the first time, do you agree to go on 1 more date to confirm or do you just go your different ways? Thanks.
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I've read it somewhere that first date shouldn't be too long, 2 hours max. Is there such thing? If we have much to talk about while having coffee, is it up to me to bring it to an end, so that there's more to go for on the 2nd date? Thanks.
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Just a simple question to ask all the experts here... How to go about without sounding too awkward? I know her thru a close friends, but we only met a couple times... Thanks!!
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Hope you didn't take it too personally. Sometimes you can't figure out why things work, and why things didn't work. It just happens for a reason. Take it with a grain of salt, it won't be the last time happening to you. But if you can learn a lesson from it, be it not to misread other people when they seem nice to you, or don't show too desperate. Hope it helped.
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I think listening is an art that most guys have not yet mastered. To really listen, you have to be sincere in what the person is saying, be sympathetic, good eye contact, and most of all, smile when appropriate. If you really do learn to listen, you'll have all the subjects to talk about. Hope it helped.
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I'm sorry you feel that way towards your bf. Love takes a lot of hard work. Sometimes you feel like he's the man of your dream, the man you want to spend the rest of your life with, sometimes the exact opposite. Try to remember why you fall in love with him in the first place, and be honest with him, take it out in the open, let him know what you feel. Or better yet, write him a letter, let him read it. Hope it helped.