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I mean like if hes really takin his time making you feel good...no rushin things..

To tell wether a guy is REALLY into you , even inlove/love you by the way he makes love or sexes you?

Its so hard to let go of someone that was so convincingly 'The One'. There are a lot of guys out there that could be the one or meet up to your needs, i know right now though its hard to think so far ahead..but still the thought of finding love again is a real nice thought. You will go through periods of feeling strong and on top of the world and then the wave of despair hits you and drags you back down again. Its normal go with it and feel your pain it DOES make you feel stronger when you ride with it. It does get better the NC is already making you stronger u have even said so urself..Keep focusing on the positives AND U which is important most of all...i tell you you wont even realise it but ull find urself thinking of the past less and less. Goodluck stay strong your doing good x

Hmm i like Burberry! OR versace blue jeans..Something spicey..Gingery even...lol

Hmm i guess thats when u see wether or not that bond is tight enough to stand a relationship

I would watch a really funny film! OR i would call a close friend /family member for a chat and reminise about the old days..theres always a few laughs in there. Laughter is a really really good instant cure for me when im down.

Wow all these views are great! So, is it easily lost as it might be gained with someone? OR is chemistry something that is not so easily lost between two people.. Is there is something significant that separates a person just being infatuated with you and them having chemistry with you.? Questions questions i know!

Thats really made me feel better Beec thanks x I will be friendly of cource, but imma tell myself that he truly wasnt feeling what i was..it stops any wishfull thinking!

Yeh i guess that want or feeling of 'unfiished business' will still be there! Best thing is to get n/c i guess date others too! So frustrating, we seemed so connected...Such is life i guess Thanks x

He said i set the tone for a friendship after that night, i dont believe i did. Can a guy go from feeling a chemistry for more , go into a friendship with the same girl...and keep it friendship? Hes now throwin it in my face hes found 'the one' (he says, not very convincingly though) not me coz i apparently missed my chance, So i said good for you and have left it like that after stressing that i still felt the way i always had..Ball is in his court now. Can you friendzone someone u felt such a strong chemistry for?

Can you tell if that person has it for you? Im just so peeved at the mo..a little confused at the mo even. I feel all of that for a guy, apparently it was mutual ..we met up my god i have never felt so at ease around a guy so comfortable..cut a long story short i didnt go back to his place that nite. Hes has shown interest since sort of till seems 'into me' answers my calls txts still calls me, tells me he wants time with me but wont see me. I had enough of the pulling and pushing you like me or you dont..he brought up that 'I' wasnt feeling the same 'chemistry' he had for me...if the feeling was mutual and we were in the same ' head place'..id of wanted the niight not to end that 1st eve we met up...IS HE RIGHT? Anyway ive hi jacked my own thread here..lol thanx for your views!

I thought it was something along them lines! Im going to read that thread now BellaDonna.

Hey all Ur probably thinking what a silly question this girl has asked...lol So is it a feeling bewteen a man and women, how do you know if you have it with a guy... Butterflies in stomach? Is it a feeling of connection, how do you know if there is chemistry ?

Hey guys thanks for your replies! Ive always been very skeptical about him and his true intentions after our very first phone convo and the fact that he said hed 'Fallen for me BIGTIME', being in the process of healing from a previous relationship i guess i was kinda vunderable still and latched onto the thought/feeling that Ahh! im wanted again...i did realise and ackwowledge my vunderability. At the same time i thought well, we clicked what do i have to lose by meeting him i also didnt wanna have a cynical attitude and be closed to other oppotunities if u know what i mean? After our meet i did kind of think, wow all he wanted was a lay...he didnt get one, Its very possible he just wanted sex, but wouldnt he of just written me off ignored my phone calls, wouldnt bother calling me ..Hes had oppotunities to see me again, and knows that im still into him...If he was after sex wouldnt he try take advantage of that oppotunity again? Thats one thing im kind of like Pheww! with, it didnt get to sex i should count myself lucky. He seems like insecure himself, apart of me thinks he sees women getting attached to men more after sex..mayb thats how he thinks he has to keep a girl interested and wanting him. Ive posted about him before actually here is a link to my previous post if your interested! many thanks again xx

Very true, I dont want a liar or a player, ive just got rid of one of them. I guess, he appeared so into me , i liked that attention, i needed some tlc i guess i hoped he could be the one to give it to me! Silly i know. Thing is theres a couple of guys who are interested in me, but with me i cant do the dating around thing, im the kinda girl who if i like someone and see potential, ill stick with that ONE til the 'end' and friendzone the rest. I do put all my eggs in one basket, is that a bad idea? Still with this guy, im gonna call it a day. I decided to after our convo yesterday, i guess im still baffled though. Ive told him how i felt, the ball is totally in his court. I dont expect he will come calling for me (sorry feelin sorry for myself!) I guess if a guy is into a girl , nothing will keep him from her.