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  1. You should have an options feature for your mail server...I just clicked on his name in my address book, then block user.
  2. Thanks to whoever answered my post. Everyone is right. This guy is bad news. I DID however email him...(for my OWN closure) and to let him know his behavior was NOT ok. I then blocked his email, and deleted his number from my phone. I feel like an idiot for putting up with this as long as I did, but it's a hard lesson learned. Thanks again for being there for me!
  3. Thanks Someguy. I just wanted to clarify that Anyway, I am not going to send the email, or contact him again. His reaction to me in addition to his past treatment is enough for me to say "see ya". Thanks for everyones responses and for agreeing I am NOT crazy !!!!!!
  4. LOL DN!!! Thats an idea!! I am glad I am not the one at fault here. I was thinking I provoked him somehow,but I know better.Thing is, this guy is NO kid..he is 43 years old and in Law Enforcement. Strange he didn't "remove" me himself huh??
  5. Thanks everyone, and yes unfortunately, it's the SAME guy. I am not dumb...I know I can do better. I was hoping I was wrong and that things would even out, but this last incident really takes the cake. Someguy...I CAN handle the truth, and and I called him on it. It was HIM who couldn;t handle it. I never threatened him. I said he was being an A-Hole and he didn't like it. I am assuming you were talking about ME not being able to handle the truth. I am thinking of sending him this email: what do you all think? R, The incident from the other night is really bothering me...so I opted to email you rather than calling you at the end if the week. I hope thats ok. The incident at your house got out of hand. I should have left when you asked me to... for that I apologize. However, I do NOT think my actions justified you threatening to call the cops on me. I'm sorry, but that was just wrong to me. If I were screaming, yelling or becoming violent..then yes, by ALL means you had every right to do that. Just the fact that you threatened me with that seriously bothers me..and your ability to communicate. Did I get a little too emotional? Yes. I am not making excuses for that...but at the same time I think a little understanding or even being a little nicer could have turned the situation completely around. Instead I get yelled at and threatened.It almost seems like you wanted to provoke me. Sorry...but I am having a really hard time with that. Maybe I NEEDED to see this side of you, because it certainly makes me a lot more cautious. Maybe we can talk at some point, but for now I think we need a nice long break. At least I do. Take care,
  6. I really need some advice. I was at R.'s house (the guy I have been seeing) on Thursday night. It was going good. We had sex..it was good, but I had not seen him in a while so I wanted to spend more time with him. About ten minutes after sex..we were watching t.v. I was snuggling him, and he was like " well I have to get to bed". I said teasingly "Oh why? I wanted to spend a little more time with you, I haven't seen you in a while". Well he walked away from meand just said.."nope, gotta get to bed". Well this sort of pissed me off because it felt like he was just throwing me out after sex. I said " WHy are you acting like an A-hole and just throwing me out right after sex"? Well...he got PISSED..and told me I needed to leave. I never raised my voice...but I wanted to talk it out. He said "Get the F- out'....I just stood there...I was in shock. So he picked up the phone and starting dialing...I said "What are you doing"? He said "Calling the cops". I then started crying. No sympathy from him....he just kept telling me to leave. He then hung up the phone and said.."look, call me in a week and we'll talk, but right now I am just pissed". I was like "what's the point in calling in a week"?? He said by then he wouldn't be angry anymore....so I said ok. he even kissed me goodbye!!!! So anyway....I have been thinking about it and I want to know who was wrong here?? I KNOW I should have left when he asked, I was just in shock and did not want to leave with things the way they were. I am actually pretty angry that he threatened to call the cops on me. If I were screaming or yelling or being violent, then YES I could see why..but I remained calm. HE was the one getting irate. ALmost like he wanted to provoke me. This is REALLY bothering me. This is the first time I have seen this side of him and we have been seeing each other off and on for over a year. I don't think I am going to call him in a week. I may send him an email...but first I wanted advice. Was I wrong here??
  7. She sounds like a bunny boiler to me Starfall. Block her emails.
  8. Sure Jcap......in about 5 years!! LOL When you are ALSO with someone else and not HOPING their relationship will fail!! Right now, your intentions are NOT sincere, although you claim they are. By the time you move on, you won't care about being their "friend". I have read your other posts, and you seem ANYTHING but over your ex.
  9. I disagree Jcap, sorry. Whats the point of being thier "friend' when something goes wrong in their relationship? Why , so you can get their emotional scraps??? Thats not your place. Period. Let her cry to her girlfriends. Stay out her your ex;es affairs. Period.
  10. Yep, she sounds jealous. She doesn't sound like she wants you to be happy. I'd keep a close eye on her if I were you. YOUR relationship could be the next one she tries to "sabatoge".
  11. Deejay I think Scout said it best. You seem to be idolizing your ex. She might be a good person, but she is certainly not perfect. From your posts, I think you beat yourself up WAY too much over this girl!!! Why?? She puts her pants on one leg at a time just like the rest of us!! Stop thinking of her as this person who is so great....she's NOT. Chances are if you DID have the chance to be her "friend" ..you wouldn't care so much. It's the wanting what you can't have that makes her so appealing. Imagine her doing gross things, like burping and farting..LOL ..makes her more human!!!
  12. FCT...I will tell you when you'll feel that 'spark' for your current G/F. Break up with her and go back to your ex. Seriously. If you don't...you will always have this thought in the back of your head. Sometimes we don't know what we have until it's gone. Maybe you need to realize your ex has been built on fantasies of the past or of thoughts built up since your breakup. I am willing to bet your ex is NOTHING compared to your G/F now...
  13. FCT I agree with Shorty. You don't think you're doing anything WRONG to your current GF???Please. So then tell her EXACTLY what you wrote here..and see what her reaction would be. Do you think she would feel GOOD knowing you're still basically hung up on your ex ? FCT...you need a reality check sweetie. What you are doing is passing the time with this innocent woman....until your ex 'comes to her senses'. This is WRONG....It sounds to ME like you have very casual intentions with your current G/F...and serious intentions with your EX..who is basically playing games. It's up to you, but you need to fish or cut bait here sweetie. Your G/F DEFINETELY deserves better than the scraps you're feeding her.
  14. Sukerbut, you posted here for advice and are now angry because we gave you our honest opinions that did not neccessarily agree with yours. These are OBJECTIVE opinions. You claim you got in shape for yourself but because of her. You claim you're going to this party simply to enjoy yourself....so then why did you bother posting about her being there?? Were you hoping one of us would encourage you to flex your muscles in front of her? What did you want us to say? I say congrats on getting in shape and looking better, but why don't you flaunt it in front of someone who actually cares and wants to see it??
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